I have aprety stresful life imprisonment adultry drugs multiple relationships robbing stealing and all but the multipal relationships is in my past and ireally want to change and i want to go to heaven i have alot os issues please advise

Have you seen the movie, Apollo 13?  There's a part in the movie where they have no instruments to use but they want to make sure they're going the right direct.  They end up saying, "how about we just keep the earth in our window. Would that keep us on course?" \n\nSame idea holds true for us.  If we keep God, and everything he's done for us including his son, in the middle of our life's "window" then we can more easily stay going in the right direction.  Now, in order to do this you have to know who God is, you have to know what all he has done for you, and you have to know his word.  Once you know the basis of these things, always strive to learn more. The more we learn, the more we love and appreciate and will WANT to keep God in the middle of our life's "window."


who is henry david thoreau and what did he stand for? what did he do and how did he do it?

He was a paradox: he was for civil disobedience (influenced Gandhi and MLK) but without the wish for revolution.\nSo he decided to protest in his little house of Walden, in the outskirts of his hometown. This apparent seclusion didn't prevent him to have dinner with his parents sometimes (lol)!\nHe went to jail a few times.\nHe also influenced the Transcendentalists because of his vision of Nature.\nInteresting persona, even though "Walden" is not always very existing!


i know that this may sound like a stupid question, but what is a yeast infection? what are some of the simtums or how do you know that you have a yeast infection?

Candidiasis, caused by the overgrowth of a specific Candida fungi, Candida Albicans, affects millions of men, women and children of all ages.  Some researchers have even linked Candida overgrowth to other chronic health problems such as ear infections and sexual dysfunction in adults; hyperactivity, attention deficit disorder and autism in children; premenstrual syndrome in women; asthma; psoriasis; and even multiple sclerosis.\n\nCandida Albicans is a relatively harmless yeast that is normally found in the mouth, throat, intestines and genitourinary tract of most humans.  In the yeast state, Candida Albicans is simply a non-invasive, sugar-fermenting organism,  whose purpose is to destroy harmful gut flora (bacteria).  In a normal environment, Candida is controlled by a properly functioning immune system and helpful "friendly" gut flora like Lactobacillus acidophilus, Bifidobacterium bifidum and Bacillus laterosporus, all of which suppress undesirable bacteria and yeasts and help to maintain a balanced, healthy immune system. \n\nHowever, if the population of good bacteria is diminished by any number of causes, Candida Albicans transforms from a yeast state into fungus.  This fungus invades the body, allowing the introduction of potentially dangerous and immune-lowering substances, such as indigested dietary protein, into the bloodstream.  The immune system's response to these substances can result in numerous, chronic health maladies.\n\nSymptoms of Candidiasis range from the obvious to the ambiguous; fatigue and muscle pains, digestive and urinary tract ailments, headaches and general malaise, depression and allergies, cravings for sweets, overall feelings of bad health, irritable bowel syndrome, frequent mood swings, inability to concentrate, insomnia, kidney and bladder infections, nasal congestion and sore throat, to name a few.  With vaginal candida, a thick discharge will be present, and possibly be accompanied by painful urination, an irritated and/or itchy labia, and pain with intercourse.  \n\nSome experts even believe Candida overgrowth can cause such far-reaching systemic effects as chest pain, thyroid gland malfunction, diabetes and skin conditions.  Depending on the site of the infection, Thrush, Esophagitis, Cutaneous Candidiasis, vaginal yeast infections, and, in severe cases, Deep Candidiasis can occur.  With Deep Candidiasis infection, symptoms can range from as simple as a fever to multiple organ failure. \n\nCommon causes of Candida Albicans overgrowth include the use of broad spectrum antibiotics, which reduce the number of friendly gut flora in the intestines, that normally keeps the Candida Albicans under control; any condition in which the immune system is weakened or suppressed, such as AIDS and cancer;  hormonal imbalances, such as in pregnancy or as a result of oral contraceptive use; prolonged use of steroid hormones, acid blockers, ulcer medications, immunosuppressant or anti-inflammatory drugs; excessive stress; and improper diet. \n\nCandida is not an airborne infection.  It can, however, be transmitted from one partner to another through intercourse, deep kissing or oral sex.  Fortunately, if other person is healthy, his or her immune system will destroy the cells and prevent infection.  It is also possible for Breastfeeding mothers to transmit the infection to their infants. \n\nDiagnosis can be made through visual examination, symptom review and/or laboratory blood tests.  Once identified, Candida can be successfully treated through several measures.  Remedies include the determination and elimination of any causative factors; application of antifungal medication; lifestyle changes such as quitting smoking and reducing or avoiding alcohol consumption; removing (or at least reducing) pollution and toxins in your environment; and strengthening your immune system through the combined application of a healthy lifestyle plus proper nutrition and probiotic supplements.


A lot of people say that I may or may not be in love because of my age.  I'm 18 going on 19.  What do you think?

love knows no age.. love knows no reason.. love knows no time.. love knows no physical appearance.. love knows nothing but its destiny and heart beat.. u maybe be young and fall to other one.. but the real love what i am talking about is true and pure..


they kill so many muslims people and make this world in dangerous.

Yes, I too believe that the biggest TERRORIST on the face of this earth if any is MR BUSH. I just can't understand why he is killing Millions innocents for one man. I think he should "STOP SUCKING BLOOD FOR OIL".


I have lack of thought. an impediment to think. Also I cannot in my mind put my self seeing everything that is exterior to me as so and so think about it .I am seeing a psyquiatrist for two years but it has not help me.I do not know what to do. What illness do I have and what should I take?

It sounds as if you need to change doctors. are you taking any meds now? there are a numerous amount of meds that you can try , you just need to find a DR that will listen to you.


...I mean, music's all about attitude, rebellion and youth etc. But I reckon Led Zep n the likes would have done what they did even if rock stars were repulsive to women and got paid £5/hour, because of their sheer passion for the music and attitude. Any modern bands out there you can think of that would/do?

Wilco; they made Yankee Hotel Foxtrot in 2001 and presented it to their label Reprise. They wanted changes to the album saying that it was not commercial and that it would not get played on radio. Reprise is a subsidiary of Warner Brothers.\nJeff Tweedy said no, the album was finished so Reprise dropped them and let the band buy it back for $50,000. Wilco streamed it on the internet which created large interest for the album . They signed with Nonesuch which is also a subsidiary of Warner Brothers which means that they paid for the same album twice. \n\nThat is how you stick it to the man.


I was in a relationship for two years with my girl, who was my soulmate, and best friend.  We started dating when I was separated from my wife, and I am now getting a divorce (its complicated)  She left me in november when she was cheated on me with a Co-worker.  She said she was tired of waiting.  She came back in January, and never told me about them, I found out three weeks ago, and she said she wanted to work it out, and that she couldn't understand why I was forgiving her.  (it's because I love her unconditionally).  But last week she told me she was in love with this other guy and wouldn't get over it.  I found out last night she had cheated on me with him again after I found out and she said she wanted to work it out. She said she is afraid that it wouldn't work out with us and she doesn't want to take that chance.  How do I go on when nothing has any flavor anymore?  I love her so much, why am I not worth taking a chance on? Please help me.  I am so alone.

Hmmm...sounds like you ARE 'worth' it, but she sure as h*ll ISN'T !!!! If she truly loved you she would support you and wait (seems at least you were trying to get things finished w/your ex) If she 'cheated' then and then turned around and did it again, then she ALWAYS will. You may love HER, but she doesn't love YOU. The hardest thing to do is to 'see' someone you love for who/what they truly are. I had to go thru it w/mine. I loved her and even asked her to marry me; she said no and less than 6wks later married someone else. (found out last week he left and they're going to be divorcing) Also found out after we broke up her nickname from the small-town she lived in was 'the town wh0re' (nice huh ?!) sure you'll probably find out petty much the same thing.....(sorry!) Don't waste your time on someone who won't give you theirs. \n\nHere's the other 'donwside' finding a good woman is about like going on a quest for a unicorn ( we've HEARD they exist; supposedly beautiful, magical, etc; some believe in them; none have been reported lately....... )\n\nTo get a divorce, things must have been bad with the ex-wife; and now then this..!!! Get a Harley, forget about women for a while and enjoy life ! Everything happens for a reason. Her f*cking everyone ELSE happened now, so that you won't have to go thru that later. \n\nIt sucks dude! Been there! you have my complete sympathy!\n\nHang in there.


If you haven't tried Blue Frog, you must download it here and give it a try!  Within a couple of days I was getting virtually  no spam in my previously plagued hotmail, and it has also cleaned away the spam to my main email address.  You can protect TEN of your addresses at no cost.  Here's the link:\n\nhttp://www.bluesecurity.com/blue-frog/\n\nIf you like it spread the word.  The more that are in this the greater it will benefit all - and screw up the spammers!!

thanks...i will try!\nsince i use Mcafee internet suite....i don't really have any spam at all!!


When starting my computer a login screen with a place to put a password comes up, even with no password made i still have to click ok. I am the sole operator of the computer and yes the guest button is turned off please help its annoying

if your running xp, you can click on runt and type in control userpasswords2 and click on ok.\n\nthere would be a new display on the screen, there will be a new screen, if you then click on the Users must enter a user name and password to use this computer tickbox. \n\nand press ok it will ask you to type in your current password, as yours is blank, just click on ok, and click on ok to close the window.\n\njob done, next time you restart it should auto logon.


If u were God, would u not allow a good person in to Heaven just coz they didn't believe in u? Or even send them to Hell for not believing in u?

God is perfect goodness. The cost for sinning just one time is eternity in hell. The only way to get forgiveness of sin is belief in the ONE pure sacrafice that God has given us. It's not something you have to bargain for, it's just there waiting for you to take it. If you are a good person, but don't have the sense to take salvation when it is offered so freely then it's your fault. God does not send anyone to hell, they send themselves by rejecting him. It is not his will that anyone should perish.


i have ever use ad-aware, spyware doctor, spam killer & i scan my PC with McAfee but those spyware can't be erased. Please give a solusion to me? because when i kill osaupd.exe from process the size of program become a bigger and bigger.....\nThanks.

Sounds like you need to buy a program such as Webroot spysweeper which should be able to remove that infection.\n\nhttp://www.webroot.com/\n\nYou can run a spyware scan from their website to determine if it detects the osapud.exe file and then decide to buy it.


My parents are awesome, they are great, they are really cool. I am lucky that they are both still alive :-)


A black man was talking to a white man and said : I''m black. When I was born I was black. When I grew up I was black. When I'm sick I'm black. When I go in the sun I'm black. When I'm cold I'm black. When I die I'll still be black. But you, When you were born you were pink. When you grew up you were white. When your sick you're green. When you go in the sun you're red. When you're cold you're blue. When you die you'll be purple. And you have the nerve to call me colored. Pass this on and stop racism.

Nice one mate. Sadly, racism is never going to end. As a species, we are far to negative and we'll always (sometimes without knowing it) find something to dislike about our fellow man. It's too easy this far down the line to hate. The love was lost when we began.


If you where incapable of doing anything on your own, even breath, what would you want you family to do?

It depends. It allows the body time to heal in some cases. Some are even put in this situation (artificial or induced coma's)by doctors, in those situations its a good thing, beneficial. I suffer from Lupus which can in severe cases cause kidney failure, stroke brain disease etc. I have told my family and have a living will that if i am ever in the situation where there is no hope I do not want to be kept alive by machines. I have 5 kids. I would never want them to spend, or feel obligated to spend their days watching there mother like that. With that said if it were one of my kids on life support I'd probably fight them turning off the machine in desperate hope for the breakthrough or miracle cure. It's a hard question. I guess the answer is both


I was told that you can use these to download music and such.

These kinds of programs were created as a means to share files from person to person that could otherwise not be transmitted through servers or Internet Service Providers with megabyte limitations.  You are supposed to be using these programs to share things that you own but have evolved quickly into the type of filesharing that most of us are familiar with now a days.  People put up their music, movies, programs, or whatever else they bought legally and share it with those who didn't.  The uploaders then in turn download the stuff others have put up there for free.  This is definitely illegal but difficult to regulate.  Giant corporation can catch you easily (Internet Protocol (IP) tracking) if you download their materials illegally, however it is time consuming and costly for them to do so.  Imagine presses charges on the millions of people who download illegally.  You will most likely be targeted only if you keep large collections of media in your library.  That will put you on their radar and you will become a juicy target to make an example of.  They target large collectors because they are also a large source from which others can download more stuff in sort of a viscious cycle.  Hope that info helps.  Good luck!


who was lmao when i was saw that movie passion of christ?\nthat was some funny sh i t. it needed more se x but still was funny

Because your heart is hard and your eyes are blind. Perhaps the very one you laugh at will grant you repentance, before it's too late for you. I certainly hope so.  James 4:9 "Let there be tears for the wrong things you have done. Let there be sorrow and deep grief. Let there be sadness instead of laughter, and gloom instead of joy."


iam tring to to my joy stick to work on some games but i cant get it working because iam trying to get it started first.


do you have to pay to play kingdom hearts or is there free demo

There is no available demo as far as I know, there are trailers and movie previews that are available through a simple search.


It runs my life and seems to get worse year after year.I'v pushed away all my friends and its very hard to leave my house, little things i use to do seem impossible.I'm not rich and cant afford alot but if i dont beat this it WILL beat me, and if any one knows a way to help me please let me know. thanks..

Sounds like you might need medication for both. Certainly the anxiety. Medication in combination with individual/group therapy could be beneficial to you.


Climate is more of a long-term, permanent state. For example, a rain forest climate would be wet and warm year-round. Weather is constantly changing; weather includes temporary states like rain or cloudiness. Weather is affected by winds, temperature and humidity.


I am just only interested in the individual mandate and employer assessment part of the legislation passed on April 4,2006 by the Massachusetts Legislature (House #4850). And I'm also disregarding Romney's recent decision to veto the employer assessment part.\n\nFor instance = I'm looking to better understand how the concerns about the impact on or response from particular constituencies or groups shape the policy design, and to what effect - both intended and unintended..?\n\nAnd what we know about public opinion or attentivesness to this issue.

Bottom line.  He wants votes.  Just think about it.  His is the first state to actually bring in universal healthcare.\n\nAll of America is going to vote for this guy just on that fact alone.


come to my work and work for me...so i can go home and go to sleep? well, as you can see, i am not working.  so who wants to come to my work and sit here on this and make me money?!

Whats up with the title? That has nothing to do with your question, but it worked I guess... Because I clicked on it, lol.


I have graphic design talent, but with a lot of schooling and stuff, I could be a radiologist technician.  Is it worth it?  Or should I just stick to what I'd be happy with--the graphic design?

What's more important? Doing work you like, or making money?\n\nRadiologists make good money, and are in demand. Reliable income, job security, forever.\n\nGraphic designers, if they work for someone else, make average to  middling money, but you will never make a lot of money (as much as a radiologist with some seniority) unless you are working for yourself, or have your own company with people working for you.\n\nI am an Apple tech, I support people working in the graphic trades - lots of competition out there right now. Hard to get good gigs, hard to make money, when some guy in South America can now bid on the same work, and undercut you. \n\nI have clients who are large design houses - I have individual clients working out of their homes - no one is getting rich in design right now - just paying the bills.\n\nMy buddy works in the Cath /Rad Lab at a big hospital - they are backed up - radiologists write their own ticket as far as work goes. \n\nSo - money vs artistic satisfaction?\n\nthat's the question


does any body  know the 7 sign that the world going to from the bible?

seven signs?  there are seven things that god hates and if you look in proverbs 6:16 you'll see them. a proud look, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift in running to evil, a false witnes who speaks lies, and one who sows discord.  that is the scripture the movie seven was based on. is that what you were looking for?


Home Edition on my PC. What affect will this have for me with the arrival of Windows Vista? What will I have to do?

First Windows Vista is delayed until early 2007, so no need to do anything right now.  Most hardware purchased recently, if it is sufficiently powerful will be adequate for Windows Vista. I have the beta version (Community Technology Preview) running as a second boot partition on my PC and it seems to run fine.  One thing I did have to do was to upgrade my video card from the on board video to a separate nVidia card.  For the Aero UI (transparency effect), you'll need this.  Windows Movie Maker and other applications (like DVD Maker) probably won't run without it either.\n\nFor comparison I have a 3.2GHz 1GB machine, 250GB drive (with an auxilliary 300GB added later) and an nVidia 6800GS video card.\n\nWhether you want to upgrade is up to you, but I can understand wanting to be ready.  As someone else noted, since the product was delayed such that Microsoft will miss the 2006 Holiday Shopping period, they are going with a 'Windows Vista Capable' sticker instead.  Look for manufacturers to start selling PCs with this sticker later this year.


behaviour,academic instruction and task or seat work assignments bearing in mind various disabilities and academic abilities

It would help to know what specific behaviors are causing you to ask for help.\n\nI have found that there are three primary causes for misbehavior in a special education classroom. Since you (presumably) are able to provide individualized instruction with more 1:1 time available, student frustration should be minimalized. If the kids are acting up, and when you seek to re-direct them, they are stuck about what to do to "get back to work," you need to re-assess your instructional strategies.\n\nAnyway... these are the sorts of things going on in my classroom. I hope some of these are of interest for you to try.\n\n1. The student is new to the program and has bad habits because in regular ed class he/she can just sit there and tune out. Call the student's name more frequently during instruction (in a conversational tone). I also do "round robin" for various skills on a regular basis...nothing like knowing that you're going to be called on to perk up attentiveness. I always make sure that if a student cannot currently answer, they can pass for the moment without penalty. I just smile, nod, say, "OK, well, think about it...I'm coming back to you..." As they crave approval, and they see the others succeeding at their own levels and getting praise and attention for it, they will start to come up with their own ideas.\n\n2. Lack of overall motivation. If a student doesn't understand WHY they have to do all this school stuff, they're not going to be motivated to do hard work with little or no value. I spend lots of time acting as a counselor. I start with the immediate rewards (I do a point system/token economy...you get points for every assignment you turn in, with prizes spaced every 50 points and a huge auction of books, computer programs, collectibles, and educational toys/puzzles at the end of the year). Oh well, no points, no prize!  One of the most valued prizes I have is what we call a "You Pick" in my classroom...the student selects one of the laminated You Pick cards from the prize box (instead of a toy or pencil). At any time, (tests or regular ed make-up work excluded), the student can hand me the card and be excused from the daily work for the time he/she is scheduled to be with me. The work does end up in the student's folder to be completed later. The student may quietly play the whole time (of course, everything in my room addresses academic, OT, and PT goals, but the kids don't know that). An unmotivated student, parked sadly at his desk while others play happily in the free time area, quickly discovers the drive to get one of those cards for him/herself. The interesting thing is that, as students become used to this option being available, they often don't take a card from the prize box, prefering a toy or pencil. They also save their card in their folder (they may only have one at any one time) for a day when they feel really off...and sometimes don't cash it in for a month or two! Anyway, once the student is driven to earn the points and prizes, we work hard on instilling the idea that print is a tool for success. We explore career choices and how print is used in different areas. I emphasize during writing assignments that writing is just talking with your pencil rather than your mouth. As students skills increase, I continually focus with them on how this helps make their lives better.\n\n3. Seeking peer entertainment. Since most of the students are caught up in #1 or #2 above, the occasional class clown is quickly quashed as his/her behavior is responded to negatively by his/her peers. Plus, loss of recess time, loss of points, loss of turn during round robins (hey, you'd be surprised...the class clown is bouncing up and down with his/her hand high in the air, and sighing in frustration as more quiet students are called on first), etc. helps emphasize the point to them...if you play now, you lose your play time for later. In addition


seems people in chat rooms go invisable and we cant see anyone chatting...whats up with that

1. people are getting bored with it\n2. mostly men use it now to find sex


Why do you think prices are higher at some Web sites? Are consumers paying more for added value? What is the added value that they are paying for?

Yes, the added value is set by the business selling their product to consumers. But if you buy from the cheapest source, that business who has the higher added value will have to decrease their selling price in order to compete.


is there any dictionary available for free download? i used to have britannica....but i lost my cd...

Here is an excellent free dictionary program that I have been using for many many years:\n\nhttp://www.download.com/3000-2079_4-10003201.html\nIt has 150,000 words (more than most dictionary programs, the Merriam Webster in the above post has only 40,000)\n\nIt's a small program with a large dictionary and many useful features. I created a shortcut on my desktop and then chose the key combination <ctrl><alt>d as my shorcut key. So if I'm working and need to look something up i just hit that key combo and the little program pops up... much faster than using a site.


I have an opinion -- but I wanted to cite some reasoning and possibly additional sources to share with my friend who is heartbroken about her broken engagement and doesn't know what to do about the ring.

I think she is having a lot of emotions about the ring. It was a symbol of love and she is mourning the loss of the relationship and the promise that was made. Every time she looked at it she was reminded of the love that they had created together and the hope of their upcoming future together. \nI'm surprised no one said....sell it and get something eles!\nA woman who was truly in love with the man could never sell the ring because of what it stood for. She would never want that ring to be on another finger representing the same things for another couple.\nIf it is kept, what will become of it. It will not ever be used again.........and will only be a reminder of the heartbreak that she had to endure.\nI would say, even though it will be very painful to part with it, she should send it back to him. I personally, would send a heartfelt letter explaining how hard it was to do that because the ring was so symbolic of all the love that they had shared together, etc.


Why is being Irish so GREAT?? Can anyone compete with us?

There are two kinds of people in this world, the Irish and those who want to be Irish.


At the end of the day, seems like I make only 30 dlls a day.

Ask a public tax advisor. Or find a website for your country using the searchwords "payroll" +"tax deductions". This might bring you to a website that offers free calculation of your salary, including tax and social security deductions. If all this doesn't help, the best option might be to simply ask the person who is responsible for your payroll how they calculate the tax deduction.


Can someone give me directions to my bathroom? lol

glad I am not the only one who mis-places a room like that :)


We have 4 kids. He is very needy. I do everything for him.  He never helps me with anything and when things don't go his way he threatens to leave but never does. I have fallen for another man well,I have loved him for about 8 years. Should I be good and try to make it work with hubby or move on with new guy? I'm afraid I will make a big mistake. I know everyone will hate me but should I care what they think, if it means my life’s happiness?

What you are describing is an abusive man.\n1. You do everything for him\n2. He never does anything\n3. When he doesn't get his way he threatens to leave, but doesn't\nI'm sure this is just the tip of the iceburg. He sounds very controlling.\n\nWomen in your situation often only find the strength to move on when they've met another man. It could be like jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Please ask your new man to wait.\n\nSometime when you're sure you are alone check out the National Domestic Violence (abuse) Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) and their site at http://www.ndvh.org/educate/abuse_quiz.html Be sure he's not around or do it at someone elses house so you are safe. They can give you the number for your local program. These people are trained to help you with housing, social services, Family Court, etc. \n\nI pray you will put the new guy on hold until you get your life on track for you and your kids. God Bless!


Will IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) cause any birth defects in the baby?

No, IVF won't cause birth defects, but the effectiveness is only 25%


Directly from the AC line cord\n\nIndirectly from a switch contact\n\nFrom a tap on field coil\n\nFrom a brush holder contact

every electrical diagram has a rout\nand a disrout from ground\ntherefore any bulb or luminare device\nhas its own route on the map\nnextime, challenge me


I also have fantasies about them. Is this wrong/weird?? Please IM me on yahoo messenger... Its slickk_n_slyy

uhh\nnot if youre a dude\n\ni wanted to bone anything that walked when i was taht age (Female of course)


Who will be voted the best player in 2006

The obvious choice is Brazil.  No other team has that amount of firepower.  They did nothing in qualifying to suggest they have any real weaknesses.  They won in 2002 with half of the talent they have now.\nHowever, expectations are hard to overcome.  Which suggests to me the possibility of a fluke loss somewhere in the elimination rounds...perhaps to Italy in the round of 16 or Argentina, Netherlands or England in the semis.  Yet these three latter teams are too inexperienced.  Only Italy has the defense to take them into penalties.  Thus, Italy beats the favorites in the round of 16, and goes on to win the World Cup with stingy defense and a lot of luck and boring draws.\nItaly's Buffon wins best player after making vital penalty saves.


does it really work because i have 30 days clean

Yes but only if you:\n\n1. Goto meetings (atleast 1 per week or more).\n2. Get a sponser.\n3. Get a phone list and make calls.\n4. Get confortable making a call every day to someone or your sponser weather or not you feel a craving.\n5. Work step 1.\n6. Work step 2.\n7. Work step 3.\n8. Work step 4.\n9. Work step 5.\n10. Work step 6.\n11. Work step 7.\n12. Work step 8.\n13. Work step 9.\n14. Work step 10.\n15. Work step 11.\n16. Work step 12.\n17. Help others by sponsering others.\n18. Continue to go to meetings and help others.


he's 47 & she's 23 now. they live 45 mins. apart but he goes off into psychotic irrate rages on her cell phone regularly. should I be worried for her personal safety? i'm over 1 1/2hrs. away from her so it's not like I can rush to her side to save her from him if he goes postal on her. she doesn't seem tio think he's a physical threat but I sure do. please help! I don't know enough about this problem of  his to know what's up!

Do you honestly feel that he could be violent? Was he ever threatening and violent with you?\nBi-Polar (manic depression) causes periods of extreme down moods followed by extreme highs. It won't cause him to be violent unless he already has it in him and you will know deep down whether or not he has got it in him.\nI know you are exremely worried. The only thing I can say is to try and keep an eye on the situation and maybe keep a record of the phone calls and any other abuse she may recieve. The more you have the more the police will help in these situations if it comes to that.   xx


Here’s some Greek for you: \nCephali = head\nAspida = shield \nMorphi = shape


This has been bugging me for days...I think i heard this song maybe on a commercial or something.\n\nAll I know is its moderately slow, with a guy singing "Now I...wanna fall from the stars.." \nThat's all i know\ni hope y'all can help me

Song - Stars\nAuthor - simply Red\n\nAnyone who ever held you\nWould tell you the way I'm feeling\nAnyone who ever wanted you\nWould try to tell you what I feel inside\nThe only thing I ever wanted\nWas the feeling that you ain't faking\nThe only one you ever thought about\nWait a minute can't you see that I\n\nI wanna fall from the stars\nStraight into your arms\nI, I feel you\nI hope you comprehend\n\nFor the man who tried to hurt you\nHe's explaining the way I'm feeling\nFor all the jealousy I caused you\nStates the reason why I'm trying to hide\nAs for all the things you taught me\nIt sends my future into clearer dimensions\nYou'll never know how much you hurt me\nStay a minute can't you see that I\n\nI wanna fall from the stars\nStraight into your arms\nI, I feel you\nI hope you comprehend\n\nToo many hearts are broken\nA lover's promise never came with a maybe\nSo many words are left unspoken\nThe silent voices are driving me crazy\nAs for all the pain you caused me\nMaking up could never be your intention\nYou'll never know how much you hurt me\nStay can't you see that I\n\nI wanna fall from the stars\nStraight into your arms\nI, I feel you\nI hope you comprehend


star wars 4 (the origonal) in los angeles.


I really like this guy, and he feels the same way, but I heard to day that he will be moving this summer. I want to go out with him, but im too scared to ask, and so is he. what should i do, I really love this guy like family.

instead of being sad till summer, both of you should enjoy every monment you still got together.  have a good time with him  =)


If so, is is ok to finalize God's words despite that fact that its open interpretations?  Then is there a wrong or right way to worship God?  Lets say you worship God in a "wrong" way, then can you be sent to hell?  But since everyone believe in God differently, isn't it possible that people's interpretation of God can be considered disbelief in the "true God", resulting in the punishment of hell?

Lots of questions!!!  \nAccording to the BIBLE... it is not okay to say that God hates homosexuals.  because God does not hate them, He is against what they do...homosexuality. Actually they are going against God... here is the proof... Romans chapter 1.\n1 "Paul, a servant of Jesus Christ, called to be an apostle, separated unto the gospel of God,\n2  (Which he had promised afore by his prophets in the holy scriptures,)\n3  Concerning his Son Jesus Christ our Lord, which was made of the seed of David according to the flesh;\n4  And declared to be the Son of God with power, according to the spirit of holiness, by the resurrection from the dead:\n5  By whom we have received grace and apostleship, for obedience to the faith among all nations, for his name:\n6  Among whom are ye also the called of Jesus Christ:\n7  To all that be in Rome, beloved of God, called to be saints: Grace to you and peace from God our Father, and the Lord Jesus Christ.\n8 ¶  First, I thank my God through Jesus Christ for you all, that your faith is spoken of throughout the whole world.\n9  For God is my witness, whom I serve with my spirit in the gospel of his Son, that without ceasing I make mention of you always in my prayers;\n10  Making request, if by any means now at length I might have a prosperous journey by the will of God to come unto you.\n11  For I long to see you, that I may impart unto you some spiritual gift, to the end ye may be established;\n12  That is, that I may be comforted together with you by the mutual faith both of you and me.\n13  Now I would not have you ignorant, brethren, that oftentimes I purposed to come unto you, (but was let hitherto,)that I might have some fruit among you also, even as among other Gentiles.\n14  I am debtor both to the Greeks, and to the Barbarians; both to the wise, and to the unwise.\n15  So, as much as in me is, I am ready to preach the gospel to you that are at Rome also.\n16 ¶  For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek.\n17  For therein is the righteousness of God revealed from faith to faith: as it is written, The just shall live by faith.\n18  For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness;\n19 ¶  Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.\n20  For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:\n21  Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.\n22  Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,\n23  And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.\n24  Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:\n25  Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.\n26  For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:\n27  And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.\n28  And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;\n29  Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malig


pregnancy test have determine that female is not pregnant but female has not had her menustral cycle in two months

My mom thought she hit menopause really early (37) and didn't have her period for 18 months. Then she went to a routine doctors app. and found out she was two weeks pregnant with me.  Now she is 56 and more regular than ever! These things happen.  I guess my motto is: Ask a doctor, not people online!


I already know that I'll get bombarded with OMGYAYFIREFAWKES !!!!1111one\nBut maybe someone still likes IE...

I have both..... but I like Firefox because of the TABS. They are the best!\n\nI still use Explorer because a lot of things will not work in firefox yet.


My beloved spilled half a glass of Valpolicella in my laptop. The laptop works just fine, but a few keys are sticky. Can I safely open and clean it somehow, do I need to shell out $1,000s to BestBuy to clean it or do I just live with sticky keys?

What!! You and your beloved together having red wine over a nice dinner and you had your laptop open? Tsk Tsk...\n\nSome of the options available:\n\n1. Drop your beloved if she thinks she is more important than your laptop.\n\n2. If she really is that important, drop the laptop on a hard surface and claim insurance.\n\n3. If you can't leave either, give your beloved a nice kiss and a cuddle when she is cleaning the laptop with cotton swabs dipped in Jack Daniels.


U answered my ?, is art walker out there? Do you possibly know of him or r u messin with me.


I had been working on something and I touched one of the buttons on my keypad and the next thing I knew I had all of this dark blue under all my Icons on my desktop. So please help me if you can. Anney

It happen because of load on the computer. Here you refresh you computer desktop. How, right click then click on the refresh.\nSecond way, Change your desktop option, meaning background and front style and index etc etc. \nChange the look of your desktop then that dark blue will go away.\nAnd after doing all this restart your computer.


the government used a defoliant called agent orange to destroy "crops" the government new about its affects on the brain. he is now dying from als and suffering from it to im he is a active member in church and is said he could make the devil repent for all of his sins i am now trying to form a lawsuit against the usmc by the way im only 14

I don't think that a lawsuit will be very successful by yourself, but there are multiple groups that are trying to get some kind of payment  from the government for their injuries from agent orange.\n\nYou could try to get in try to get in touch with other veterans who have the same problem and work together with them.  I'll be praying for his health.


Big? small? be specific please -- just curious

I think a lot of it has to do with the person it is on...as long as things are proportional, it's all good.


This is commonly used at the bride's wedding rehearsal!

We would take a paper plate cut a hole through the center, pull the ribbons through the hole.  Attach bows to the plate. I think we used dessert size plates.


planet     actual diameter         scale diameter\nmercury       4,8880                    1 1/4 in\nvenus         12,104                     1 1/2 in\nearth          12, 756                    1 1/2 in\nmars           6,794                       1 1/4 in\njupiter      142,984                       4 in\nsaturn        120,536                    3in\nuranus       51,118                  2 1/2 in\nneptune     49,528                      2 in\npluto       2300                      1 in

here is a calculator for determining planet and orbit sizes to scale.  i hope this helps.\n\nhttp://www.exploratorium.edu/ronh/solar_system/


My boyfriend needs to see an orthodontis, i have rang up one and they said he will have to go on the waiting list until september.\n\nDoes anyone know any good orthodontists in auckland that i could try to get him an appointment at?

McIntosh Dental Centre- Henderson. We have an interest in Functional Orthodontics. As far as possible non-extration. \nGood Luck


like, mentos and coke or stuff like that.

Add alka seltzer to coke and it will explode i think


Travel would take from 13 to 30 mos. Dangers: Astronauts run the possibility of losing nearly half the bone minerals in some regions of the body, which would make the astronauts' skeletons the equivalent of a 100-year-old person. Is the trip worth it? Such fragile bones could cause fractures. Would this affect any age for an adult? What's your thoughts?

I think if the astronauts know all this.. and are still willing to, they may as they please.. but in my opinion it's not worth it.. they should jsut keep sending satelite's up there and learn more information about mars and other information they want.


and went to the diversity celebration in lansing on saturday? what did u think??

I do.  I live in West Michigan.  Sorry didnt go to the diversity celebration but my grandparents live is Lansing.


My favorite player is Mike Matheny the catcher and he is number 22!!!!!!

My favorite is this unknown guy, his name is Mango Hancock he's really good at hitting!


She started to save them since she was a little girl. I have some rare ones and not so rare. What would be the best way to display them to show them off?

Scrapbook them!!! What an awesome thing to have! Make sure you reposiable corner tapes though!


i love her! but.........one day i went to her and asked her if she would like to take a photo with me. she said "ok". a few minutes later a friend of mine came and took part in our conversation. She blushed when she saw him and she blushed even more when SHE offered him to take a photo with her. she gave me her camera and told me to take a photo of both of 'em. i did it with a heart full of pain. the pain became unbearable when she wanted me to take another photo of both of them. IS SHE IN LOVE WITH MY FRIEND?


in english i have to classify sentences this is it. As a result of this trade, a wealthy merchant class was established. Is the "As a result of this trade" a pariticipal,infinitive, appositive, prepositional,or gerund phrase

A prepositional phrase, because it doesn't have verbs in it, starts with a preposition, and has an object.


I have been UNfortunately been Independent in India & could make no monies over past 15 years of my prime -I am UNable\nto change my life style/habits ; As I'm UNable to afford myself,I am seeking to be heir of some Wealthy families from Ivy league from Canada/ Zone Euro/ Australia who are mature to share their Wealth for no particular reasons and atleast LIVE the rest of my time more meaningfully !

I think you'd better join the queue, mate - it'll be a long one! :-D


Politicians, who I guess only want to fill in their pockets and want that the world and their country should suffer are the most suspicious skums of all. They create incidents out of no-where just to earn fame and win votes. They must be put under vigilance everytime.

There should be an investigative commitee to determinme whether their (politicians) actions are valid and warranted. This way the decision is not left up to the politicians and their so called advisors. Half the time I think that the "intelligence" they "gather" is either scripted, made up , or false. Now watch I get drafted for just writing this. later.


Yearrrs ago I saw this band in Disney which used (looked like around 50) church bells to popular songs.  does anyone know who they were so i can look them up online??  i have been wondering ever since i saw them.  should have bought the cd!

My first guess would be the Raleigh Ringers:\n\nhttp://www.rr.org/\n\nThey have done everything from Disney to Pink Floyd on the handbells. They are an amazing group.


We're going fishing tomorrow and would like to know what the crappie are biting on in Eufalula Lake.  Also, if anyone has been there lately, let me know how you did and what area of the lake you like best.

I came from Eufala last weekend and we were just using minnows. Three of us caught 100-150 on Saturday. BNut with the rain coming, I doubt they will be doing any good this weekend


I am a firm beleiver in the idea that our souls are born and reborn into different bodies for the specific purpose to learn the lessons that we have failed to learn in previous lives.  Then, when all your lessons are learned, NIRVANA . . .\n\nDo you have an opinion?  Share it below . . .

As a Hindu, yes I believe in reincarnation. The atman sheds one body just as we change clothes, to take on a new body. With each incarnation we have the chance to advance spiritually and eventually achieve moksha. Some can do this is one lifetime, some need several lifetimes. Moksha is a lot like the Buddhist concept of nirvana. Moksha means "liberation" and "union". The Atman is liberated from the cycle of samsara and finds union in Brahman (the word Brahman comes for two Sanskrit words Brih Manah which translates as Great Consciousness or Expanding Consciousness, although it is usually translated into English as Cosmic Consciousness). In many of the Upanishads the message is quite clear that everything is Brahman, everything manifested out of Brahman. The atman is Brahman. Tat tvam asi. Thou art that.


Allah_is_back.  is in dahouse.\n\n\n  I ADMIT, THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THIS.\n\nI'M THE MASTER FAGFAIRY OF ALLAHA_TIMES. I BEING A FAIRY, WANTED A PIECE OF JESUS'S TAIL.  HE WAS CUTE.\n\nI KNEW FROM THE START HE WAS THE KING*  I WAS MERELY JEALOUS.\n\n\nTHE QUESTION IS. AM I WRONG TO HAVE SEXUAL DESIRES FOR MY MIINIE_ME'S?\n\n\n\n.

Jesus is not a fairytale, i believe that he will come again one day, and for those who have admitted their sins and asked of forgiveness, they will have everlasting life with the lord, my god!


What kind of assurances are there for product honesty?  I found some "100% natural" opals on Ebay.  Does Ebay regulate this? What will happen to a seller if they reported as dishonest?

You can generally tell how good a seller is by their feedback rating located in the upper right hand corner of the auction screen.  If the feedback states "Private" then you should be wary.  Also, if you use Paypal to pay for the product and it is not what it states that it is, then you can make a complaint to Paypal and most likely get your money back.


Does working out make you lose as much weight as if you go on a diet? I ask this because you are gaining muscle when you work out which is weight.

yes but having muscle causes you to burn more energy, so it helps burn the fat. if you want to look better, or be a better athlete you dont just want to lose fat but gain muscle too. its not your weight that matters, but your fat that is bad. also diets can become less effective because your body learns to use less energy, but if you excersize, you keep using energy and it makes your diet more effective. do both.


history of executioner and what his daily life would be like

I heard that some executioners were, themselves, convicted criminals. They were allowed to remain alive as long as they executed other convicted criminals. I think the executioners that I heard this about were actually hangmen in the American West 1700-1900.


I'm in Dumaguete City Negros Oriental 6200 Philippines. Is there anyone, anywhere close by, that can do internation income tax?

You will have to travel to Manila and go to the Canadian embassy to do your taxes


like you only broke up with somone cause sum people talkin alot of shyt and well you was reallie pissed about it

u never break up with someone because of someone else. u break up because that was something u wanted to do or you'll find yourself in the position in now, wanting them back. if u're with another guy and u want to be with someone else, then u need to break it off with that person.  it's not fair to them and if u want the other guy back let him know.


i want paris to win but im also likeing chris and that kathy girl.

Chris\n\nsecond possibly would be katherine\n\nkelly was really good too, if she just had some voice lessons, it should've been that annoying Paris voted off instead!


through the internet, but in a lower price than the original, except for e-bay

who would ever sell a set of the books without the lion witch and wardrobe?  Unless you check a garage sale or something.


Who defines the qualities of a good wife or husband? Are there certain criteria that makes one good or not good?  What if you can't fulfill all the qualifications- do you have to give up your sense of self in order to meet your spouse's "ideal"?

To be a good wife, you must be loving and caring, and loyal to your husband. Did you ever  say to him, "I would do anything for you", and really mean it?  Well, if you did, and you still provide such care, then you are a good wife.  But, it does not work one way.  Eventually, even a "good" wife gets tired of neglect and abuse. So, in order to be a really good wife, the man must also be a good husband.


And if so, why not? Is it because you presume girls wearing glasses to be smart? And if so, why would that prevent your interest in them? (girls, feel free to answer, but I'm really interested in what the guys have to say.) \n\nBTW, feel free to contradict. I'm just saying that in my experience, fewer men have persued me since I started wearing glasses. Coincidence? Hmmmm?

The first day I met my wife she was wearing glasses. She was smart and very HOT. It was love at first site.\n\n36 years later she still wears glasses, is smarter and even HOTTER!! \n\nQuit showing your insecurity. It will only attract men who will want to take advantage of it and use and abuse you.\n\nBE PATIENT. HE IS OUT THERE.


I listed two items. First item had 9 bids the second had four. \n\nThey didn't sell? Why is this?

You have to be careful in your minimum pricing or reserve price.  People on eBay are looking for bargains, and many people's items go unsold because they are overpriced for THAT market (as opposed to the regular retail value of an item).  Try searching similar items, and on the left under the search box, you'ss also find a box to check for COMPLETED LISTINGS.  You can research what did and did not sell, and the listing or selling prices of similar items, so that you can price your items competitively.  Good luck!


Do you let your boyfrined slap your ass or grab it

It depends on the circumstances.  Sometimes it is appropriate and sometimes not.  (Like in front of your parents!)


We rented a beach house & I havn't lost my last baby- wieght, need help!

I did Weight Watchers and walked on my treadmill for 3 miles per day and I lost 35 pounds in a little over 2 months.  Definitely cut back your caloric intake and start walking or running.


I am searching for a MALAYALAM song\n\nMavinte Kombilirinnoru Maina.....\n\nfrom movie Pravaham.\nDirected by Sasikumar. Year 1975.\nCasting Adoor Bhasi, Prem Nazir etc\n\nCan any malayalees help me.\n\nI love that song and just want to hear it again.\n\nI couldnt seem to find it in Internet.\n\n10 Points guarantee.

You can download the song from here\n\nhttp://www.keepmyfile.com/download/50e277663073\n:)


i like this girl and i want to have sex with her.

Listen up, the sooner you learn this the better.  When to have sex has and will always be her choice.  The best you can hope for is that she feels the same way about you.


If I do judo, doodoo and voodoo, and you do too, but I do not do judo when I'm doing doodoo, but you do, and you do doodoo if I'm not doing voodoo, then if I'm doing voodoo and you're not doing judo, who can do doodoo?\n\nPlease include an explanation of how you came to your answer.

You are the one who can do doodoo. \n\nThats because I do judo when I do doodoo. So if I am not doing judo, there is no way I can do doodoo. Besides, I can't do doodoo if you happen to be doing voodoo, which you happen to be doing when you ask this ghastly question. \n\nYou, for your part, are doing voodoo, and there's no rule for you about not doing doodoo when you are doing voodoo. \n\nSo you are the one doing it. Lucky you.


NOT ON DVD OR VHS, TV SEASON ONE 1ST EPISODE

I think season 1 premiered on June 1, 2005 at 9.


Ilegal Aliens deserve the right to work and live on US?

No one illegal have the right to do anything, you must go the proper channels to make anything legitimate for the proper protection of the law and from the Law Example, if someone force themselves into your home, what rights as an intruder do they have, unless you give them permission! Well it works also in the larger scale of things


hi hows it goin.....saw you had no answers and i wanted to make you feel loved. sry cant help with question. have a great day.


Which one is it? --> Circulatory, Integumentary, Endocrine, or Respitory?

I'd say circulatory system, because nutrients that are decomposed in the small intestine go into the blood stream to be transported to wherever part of the body the nutrients are required.


who said "Dead Or Alive? It's Your choice!"? And what was the movie? Do you know? \n\nAdditional Details\n\nApr 21, 2006 at 11:07 pm\nDoes anyonne know who said that line? And what does doesn't make a dead man alive, mean? that's not relevant to anything that I said. Ok here's a clue. the movie that line was from, was a western. L.V.C. was one of the primary 2 stars.Also who said, " Remember where we parked!"?

For A Few Dollars More starrin Clint Eastwood and Lee Van Cleef; And 'Sorry' doesn't make a dead man alive. and "Remember where we parked-that was from one of the star trek movies


sex is very important for humans , so men pay money for a woman to have sex with , that if he has no sex partner .\nmy question is : are women could pay money to men to have sex with them ? if yes , who did it ? \nif you did not like my question please dont answer it and leave it , thank you very much ( men curiosity )


the unexpected scenes\nlike the what will happen next scenes\nthe scenes that make you sit on the edge of your seat

CAUSE IT MAKES YOUR HEART RACE, YOUR BODY SHAKE, NAIL BITTING, TOTAL EXCITEMENT PHEWWW!! THAT WAS AWESOME


by the way, i am grown now. he never paid child support. he wasn't then, but he is now on disability.... if me or my mom can sue, would we get for the whole 18 years?

Please verify with your state, but here in California, he owes it until it is paid. Your Mom is the payee, so you as the child can't get it, but she doesn't need to pay for an attorney. Have her get in touch with the Family Services department of your local court house and they should have free instructions on how to file a claim, maybe even offer a free class to walk her through it. Based on his income it may be a stupid small amount, just a few bucks a month, or they may seize his assets and she'll get a big chunk all at once. The good thing is they can seize his income tax returns and charge him interest. It's definately worth looking into. Good for your Mom for being such a trooper and taking care of you by herself!


I'm getting ready to start school at a school that none of my friends are going to. How will I get to know people?

Be yourself, that's the best advice.  Don't act like someone your not just to get friends, people will eventually come up to you and talk to you and if you are yourself, you will make friends easily.  Starting high school with no friends is tough, but you'll get through it, I had to go to 4 different high school and I didn't know a single person in any of them, but now I have some life long friends and don't ever regret it!! \n\nSo just be yourself and the friends will come to you!! \n\nGood luck


I just cummed a little bit for the very first time. im a 12 male. what do i do?

Dammit! Dont you know that causes pimples? Keep it up and your face is going to look like a pizza..


I sometime beleave that it was hoaxed by the american to achieved the world people minds,it seemed like a cheating,escepecially at that time the world was to back at technology,it was easy to lie,i ask myself why  nearly 40 years till today no spaceship has ever just around it ,and on top of all we dont have,wide picture to show the moon look like,its a shame if you create a to much lie.

i do not beleive any man has ever landed on the moon and there are telescopes powerful enough to see the landing site but even if pics of that came about they would be faked too there is a belt of radioactive gas between the moon and the earth witch no man in a spaceship could pass ecsept neil armstrong of corse yeah right wheva u believe or not it doesnt matter the moon is a useless rock


surely it is my puter.. but the first night i installed DSL it was fast.. ever since then it has been slow slow...

More than likely your computer has been bombarded by spyware and other viruses since getting DSL.  DSL provides an ongoing, uninterrupted connection to the Internet, where as dial-up provided a connection only as long as you were connected (duration of the telephone call).  Having your PC connected non-stop to the Internet (especially if you don't turn your PC off ever) sets your computer up for constant attacks via your DSL connection.\n\nUnfortunately in this day and age, one has to have multiple software packages installed on their machine to combat these threats.  Here are some free ones that are pretty powerful as well as popular:\n\nAVG (free virus protection)\nhttp://free.grisoft.com/doc/1\n\nSpybot Search & Destroy (free spyware remover)\nhttp://www.safer-networking.org/en/download/index.html\n\nAd Aware (free spyware remover)\nhttp://www.lavasoft.de/software/adaware/\n\nRunning all three of the programs on your computer will make a world of difference in terms of speeding your overall computer perfomance back up.


Typically cents on the 100s - specifically in Jacksonville area

City/ County is 70 cents per $100\nState stamps are 35 cents per $100\nYou will often times also find an "intangible tax" at 20 cents per $100\nHope this helps...


It seems you are considered a bigot if you don't agree with someone's lifestyle. Open-mindedness has become the new blanket term for "everyone's okay no matter what they do." Am I the only one that thinks that morals should still have play in society? I don't agree with the homosexual lifestyle. I don't agree with people who have tatoos and excessive piercings all over their bodies. If everyone can do what they like, where does it end? What if I were attracted to my cousin, would it be okay for me to have sex with her? Would it be different if she were my step-sister instead? I look at what society was like say 50 years ago (I'm only 24, but doens't mean I can't tell from learning history). I don't think we've progressed at all. I think we've turned into a society where sin is cloaked under the cover of "being open minded." Sorry if it seems like I'm on my soap box, but i'm going to apologize or anything. Am I the only one out there that thinks this?

You are confusing two separate issues:  being open minded is a different quality from being amoral.\n\nOpen mindedness is a form of humility. (Remember, that's one of the classical virtues)  It means that you don't assume that you know better than another person what is right for them or for their culture.  It is especially important in a globalized world where people from many cultural backgroungs intermingle.  Keep in mind that things like tatoos and piercings are considered normal in many cultures. Likewise, the degree of separation for "normal" sex varies between cultures, with first degree cousins being at a very reasonable distance for some. (Even in the Bible)  Being open minded merely means that you accept that others may have different standards.\n\nHowever, this is distinct from saying that you do not have your own standards.  Even an open-minded person can --and should-- have personal beliefs.  For you to believe that it would be wrong for you to have multiple piercings or homosexual sex shows that you have a good grasp on your own priorities.  You should know and be able to vocalize your own beliefs.\n\nThe line between "having strong beliefs" and "being a bigot" or "being close-minded"  comes when you try to force your beliefs on other people against their will.  For example, I believe that it is wrong to eat meat which comes from factory farms because the degree of cruelty at those institutions is so severe. However, I would probably not attempt to force people to become vegetarian against their will, or discriminate against them for refusing to follow my beliefs.  \n\nA while ago Europe and America both made the decision to support religious freedom.  This stopped the religious wars between Protestants and Catholics. The modern ideal of "being open minded" stems from that ideal, by recognizing that all morality (even that of an atheist) is essentially the same as religion. Just as people should have freedom of religion, they need to have freedom of moral belief, inasmuch as neither treads on the rights of others. (e.g. No human sacrifice, and no murder....)


Aside: door-to-door selling, job, carwash, lemonade stand, baby-sitting.. etc.. A creative Idea that has helped YOU.

helped me? house sitting. seriously, its great fun and you're left for most of the day to do what ever you want


If the occurence of two full moons in a calendar month is called A Blue Moon, then what is the case with two new moons?

Black moon.\nGo here......\nhttp://www.obliquity.com/astro/blue-new.html\nSearch engines are so cool!


we're doing a project about the first flyers and since that one was the first to actually fly, we want to construct it, but we don't have the real dimensions. it's been 2 months. we're constantly searching and we're not getting anything. PLEASE we need some help!!

You did not specify which model, so try this link.


I am just curios to know if you have some idea remained for me.

try real estate\nas i did\nand now i am 'what u r going to be'


I like the after-sex pee when you don't know which direction it's gonna go. I'd like to set up a betting system. By the way, I like your sense of humor.


u can get them from seek-a-song.com. and on there, there are more websites for finding lyrics.


Most women don't have an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation.It doesn't mean that sex isn't enjoyable.


We take English classes from 1st grade all the way through college (for those that make it that far), yet most Americans have HORRIBLE English/spelling skills.  I can understand if you're an immigrant and haven't had time to learn the language, but for those who were born here, why is it so d*** hard to use your native language???

I agree.  I believe it comes from the inherent laziness of people and their lack of desire to read real books.  The level of reading comprehension is deplorable in this country.  I teach students who are currently juniors or seniors and some have NEVER read a book from cover to cover.  Good sentence structure and accurate spelling comes in large measure from reading a lot.  No reading--no spelling or grammatical syntax awareness.\n\nI think the moronic comment of Bazaar above my response is a splendid example of what happens when people are too dumb to understand proper grammar with subject-verb agreement.


Only provide address from where we can download hindi music totally free.


Are there any dvd's of the comedy "SOAP" on sale in the\nU.S.A.?

YES,THEY ARE ON AMAZON AND BEST BUY HAS THEM ALSO.


...and how can I find a location that does this in NC?

I get paid NOTHING for donatin blood or plasma or platelets...it's a DONATION


i live in india indore and i want to take eduction in animaiton and special effect at proffesional level so pplz suggest me institute with regarding subject in india thanks

This question is miscategorized.\n\nSpecial Education refers to the education and parenting of children with special needs.


We're supposed to be able to vote for things, right? So why can't we vote to not have a leader in charge. Why do we only get a choice between two candidates of Capitalism?

Simply, we have a constitution that states we have a president.  It is possible to change it, but understand that throughout the world, we have one of the most stable elected government.  We have two choices because we have two major political parties.  There has been other parties with different platforms, but those platforms were absorbed by the major parties.  Having too many parties is not good.  Just like having too many choices.


I want to paint my office and I can't decide on a color that would show that much intelligent brainstorming occurs in my office.

Blue reeks of corporate, which may or may not be intelligent. Royal purple is kinda intelligent. Any color can be intelligent if displayed intelligently. Yellow actually stimulates thought. Ever bought a yellow shower curtain for your bathroom? Wakes you up!! If you want energy, stick with bright. If you want stuffy arrogant intelliegence, then stick with the dark royal colors. \n\nThen again, if you are looking for hillbilly intellect, plaid is the new pink.


Im going to wipe out a laptop computer using a startup floppy disk...(format c:....partition.....install OS) and i was wondering if you do the same to a laptop as you do to a desktop while you wipe out a computer.


Im going today so they teach me how to put them on, etc.

i have contacts and they are really cool but one time i rubbed my eye and my contact fell out but they are really cool so dont stress bout em!


I like all motorcycles, crouch rockets and customs, but my dream motorcycle is the Susuki GSXR 1000!!! Hella fast!


and also how can you tell the diffrence between love lust and infatuaiton

you'll get nervous when you are close to him...


i have a job offer in kuwait, the salary is 1000KD + 350 acomodation + car + annual tickets + medical insurance.\n\nis this a good salary and can i make some savings out of it? if yes how much??\n\ni also need to know are there beach clubs where women can swin without being offended? how much such a membership cost per month?\n\nwhat is the general cost of living there like grocery shoping for a month? eating out? shoping in general? water, electricity and telephone bills?\n\nare there houses with the kitchen open to the living room? american system? how much would that cost per month and in wich locations can we find it?\n\nplease help me i have to give a dicision in less than 10 days and me and my wife will be moving there.\n\ni am 29 married without children yet\n\ni would really appreciate honest answers for all the above \n\ni appreciate you effort everyone with the information\n\nthanking you in advance

i did a whole project thing on this and researched some prices so i'll try to help out. off common knowledge, i think the swimming clubs there are ok with bathsuits because at least in Oman which is where i lived there was an expat place to swim and where normal clothes. be respectful still though like no tank tops or high shorts. i found a price of $4135/ month for a 3 bedroom apartment if it helps. this is dollars too and i'm not sure of the exchange rate. and back the clubs thing, i would suggest you take advantage of the scuba diving. well anyway, i hope i have helped


Kudos to the person who can tell me the most pairs. Thanks!

Almond Blossom\nA symbol of hope, sweetness, delicacy.\n\nAnemone\nWithered hopes, a dying love.\n\nAbor Vitae\nUnchanging friendship.\n\nBaby's Breath\nA symbol of the hope of procreation and new life, both for the married couple as a new unit and for future offspring.\n\nBleeding Heart\nA symbol of undying love. The petals of this perennial flower are slightly united into flattened, heart-shaped, or spurred corollas. Its colors are yellow, white, or red, pink or ivory and it blooms in the Spring. \n\nCamelia, white\nA symbol of loveliness.\n\nCarnation, deep red\nAlas! for my poor heart.\n\nCarnation, white\nA symbol of disdain.\n\nChina-Aster\nVariety.\n\nClover, four-leaf\nOne offers this to ask, "Be mine."\n\nClover, white\nThink of me.\n\nClover, red\nA symbol of industry.\n\nColumbine\nA symbol of folly.\n\nColumbine, purple\nThis means, "resolved to win."\n\nDaisy\nA symbol of innocence.\n\nDeadly Nightshade\nA symbol of falsehood.\n\nFern\nFascination.\n\nForget-me-not\nAs a symbol of true love. This also simply means, "forget me not." And it is, of course, also Alaska's state flower, and a wildflower that florists can use without risking insects creeping out in the middle of the service.\n\nFuchsia, scarlet\nTaste.\n\nGeranium, scarlet\nThis selection offers consolation.\n\nGeranium, rose\nA symbol of preference.\n\nGoldenrod\nThis says to the receiver: "Be cautious."\n\nHeliotrope\nA symbol of devotion.\n\nHoney-Flower\nLove, sweet and secret.\n\nHyacinth, white\nUnobtrusive loveliness.\n\nIvy\nA symbol of fidelity.\n\nLady's slipper\nWin me and wear me.\n\nLily, Day\nA symbol of coquetry.\n\nLily, white\nA symbol of purity and sweetness.\n\nLily, yellow\nA symbol of falsehood or gaiety.\n\nLily of the Valley\nThis symbolizes the return of happiness.\n\nMignonette\nThis says, "Your qualities surpass your charms."\n\nMonkshead\nDanger is near.\n\nMyrtle\nA symbol of love.\n\nOats\nThe witching soul of music.\n\nOrange Blossom\nChastity.\n\nPansy\nSymbolizes one's thoughts.\n\nPassion flower\nFaith.\n\nPeach Blossom\nThis says, "I am your captive."\n\nPear\nA symbol of affection.\n\nPeriwinkle\nAs a symbol of early friendship (blue), happy memories (white).\n\nPoppy\nAs a symbol of fantastic extravagance (scarlet), consolation (red). If the love is faithful, placing a petal in the palm of the hand and hitting it with a fist should produce a popping sound.\n\nPrimrose\nInconstancy.\n\nQuaking Grass\nA symbol of agitation.\n\nRose\nAs a symbol of love, pure and lovely (red rose buds), jealousy (yellow). See the listing for rose color symbols for more meanings.\n\nShamrock\nA symbol of lightheartedness.\n\nSnowdrop\nA symbol of hope, consolation. The flower is thought mythologically to have been a snowflake which was transformed to comfort Adam and Eve after they had been expelled from the Garden of Eden.\n\nStraw\nThis symbolizes agreement if it is intact, a broken agreement if it is broken.\n\nSunflower\nAs a symbol of the sun, and also haughtiness.\n\nTuberose\nDangerous pleasures.\n\nTulip\nAs a symbol of powerful love being declared (red), hopeless love (yellow). The heart burning symbolically like a flame.\n\nVerbena\nThis says, "Pray for me."


I can click on the "Change Top 8" hyper-link, and it brings me to the page with all of my friends. However, I can't drag-and-drop like it says. Why is that?

Try downloading an up to date version of Internet Explorer (or Firefox, if you use that) and install the latest plugins. Restart your computer. It should then work.


i lied about something to an officer and i was wondering if the truth did come out would i be looked at as a criminal? would i still be able to land a good job?

You're asking a complex question\n\nObstruction, as in Martha Stewart interfering with an investigation?\n\nLying to an officer, as in making a statement after waiving Miranda Rights, signing a Crime Report?\n\nOfficers from your State jurisdiction, or officers from Federal jurisdiction?\n\nThe truth coming out, as in being prosecuted?  Yes, whether or not you are found guilty...A prosecution by, say, a DA will appear on your record and not subject to expungement\n\nA good job, as in for Dept of Defense? not if you need a security clearance\n\nA good job, as in confiction of a felony?  quite likely a company still asks these questions about whether you've had conviction of a felony\n\nA good job, as in a misdemeanor? don't volunteer information unless it is required on the job application


Well, on the hot or not, I'll answer with my wife's first comment upon seeing him "Who is that!?!".  My impression, he's easy on the eyes for the ladies.\n\nGood player... no, I say great player.  Very very quick with some fantastic dribbling abilities.  Corners and free kicks appear to be a part of his repotoire as well.\n\nI am not so certain of his crossing, and I have seen some times where his touch and passes have let him down, though I think many times he is trying to do too much.\n\nFrom skills perspective, a fantastic have.\n\nMentally, though, I think he needs to grow (course, being like 20 years old, he has a lot of time ahead of him).  He is unpolished, and he needs to get a touch more build to him.  He is too easy to play physically, and that he tends to go to ground easily means he gets fewer calls then he probably should.\n\nI've also noticed some games he takes himself out of when frustrated or angry, and he has committed some silly retribution penalties that were just foolish.\n\nI expect, no matter where he is, be it Man Utd, or at some point Real or Barca, he will be one of those 2 or 3 guys who just always does something that makes the other team have to wonder how they can defend him.  I'd be awestruck to watch the ball work that he and Ronaldinho could produce - and the fact that Critiano can play right or left only adds to that.\n\nAs things are now, he is on the cusp edge of World Class (and after the world cup, who knows)... and I expect in the next 2 years he will blast himself into that 'elite' status of professional.  If he continues to progress as he has been, I expect he will (sadly) outgrow United in 3 years, likely moving to Spain as I think he'd get too beat up in Italy.


What's the name and season of the episode when Meg gets a job at the cafe for a prada purse and Stewie becomes addicted to pancakes?

Love Thy Trophy, Season 2.\n\nGiggity giggity, giggity goo.


I would like information and diagrams to show my son how to build simple circuit board.

Here's a list of links to much information. Have fun.\nI personally enjoyed building sirens as a kid. Fun to annoy the neighbors.


We Just recently had a two month old daughter. All he want to do is hang with his friends to me it seems like he dont care but i know he do. we have been through this many of times breaking up and getting back together. i love him so much but i think it is time for me to move on. should I?


My son uses the health care facility where I work. He is disabled and authorized me to act as his advocate. The health care provided has be less than adequate. The specific clinic's manager, where he is seen, has told someone she is after MY job. Apparently, my persistence has uncovered some specific problems with that clinic. They no longer will adhere to the plan of care or return his phone calls. I was told by my supervisor it would be best to remove him from their care. He does not want to change providers and start over. He is on Medicaid and has limited provider where we live. Those are not taking new patients.  He is only waiting on a referral to a specialty clinic. Medical negligence is involved in this case as well. I was advised not to cause problems.

It sounds like discrimination no matter how you describe it or what they advise you to do or not to do. I would contact your local disabilities office and report the discrimination... they would then be able to give you the best advice on how to proceed.


What are you most scared of in life? What terrifies you to the point that you can't even be around it?

Being alone.  I try to surround myself with people that I love at all times. I'm on the phone, on the computer....all the time. I have panic attacks when my children get sick for fear of living my life without them. Don't know why really. I think it was brought on in the last couple years when my mother got caught up in methamphetamines. I haven't had a mother ever since. Some questions are better left unanswered.


need answer to wksht 88\n  "a drastic Way To Diet"\nand wksht #82\n"What did they say about the man who drank shellac?\n\nPLEASE I NEED UR HELP!

binomial is the answer to 88\nit might even be "buy no meal"


I for one have a dragon, werewolf, and a uni/pegusus


im looking for more horses and torque, and a breif way to do so

Dollar for dollar, you will be better off selling the 1990 and using the money to purchase a newer Honda/Acura (if that is you preference).  Putting more HP/Torque in a 1990 takes much more work and money than you will anticipate.  That era of car was not designed for that.  The newer cars have structural strength in critical areas needed to handle the power, and the suspensions/drivetrain are designed for the power/torque.


The guy I never thought that would come to my life. He fascinate you in every lil' thing he does. He is not perfect, but he is the guy that brings the smile in my face. Though sometimes, he never calls, sometimes he is cold. But I dont know if this is true that he's really inlove with me. he waited for the right time to say this thing, he was holding back for 2 years already. He says he wanna make sure if he really loves me, then he will say it according to our best friends. am I really into him or its just a feeling that someone care thats why I am happy?

There are two possibilities I can see:\n\n1. The guy is shy and conservative\n2. He is just being friendly and don't get wrong.\n\nEven if it is the second possibility, that does not mean that he does not like/love you. You should talk with him.


Whats yor take on this age old question?

I always tell my mom that as a joke lol. She hates when i do it in public. LMAO just thinking about it makes me laugh. "Damn women, the second we gave them rights, they thought they were people" And "WOMAN! Get in the kitchen where you belong" ....it's even funnier cause I'm a chick.


I want your opinion, whoever you are! And give the reasons why you think what you think   :)

Tough Question - My glib answer is that it won't happen because I am taking precautions for an outbreak. Evey time I take precautions for a disaster nothing happens;) \n\nWhy I am worried is because one case of human to human transmission has happened in Thailand. Also the flu has a week incubation period and during that time it can be spread.   \n\nSpanish flu killed between 50 & 100 million in 1918 and started off as an avian virus. Experts say that the Spanish flu virus had 12 mutations which made it adapt from just infecting birds to infecting pigs and humans.  The mass fowl cullings around the world seem to be preventing any adapted viruses from starting a human pandemic. However the virus has reached countries that don't have the infrastructure, because of bad government, war and poverty, to identify and contain H5N1 in birds. This means that if the adaption happens it could get a foothold in the human population and then start spreading. \n\nThe next point is what do you mean by "really become  contagious?" \n\nMost of the models of the spread of a pandemic are based on past infections. Most predictions are scientifically valid but they depend on a number of factors that can not be controlled. If avian flu mutates to human to human it may become less lethal and it may not be as contagious as it is now. The only way that the statistics will be proved depends on what the H5N1 virus does next.\n\nThe range of the numbers show just how difficult it is to get a clear idea of what may happen. Here are some numbers I crunched based on assumptions and a worldwide population of 6 billion. Note fatalities are based on no medical treatment. \n\n1.) Bird flu stays in birds and can only be transmitted through eating uncooked chicken, exposure to dead birds and drinking or eating things that have been infected.\n% of world population that gets sick 0.000040%\nNo. Sick 2,400\n% fatalities 63.64%\nNo. fatalities 1,527\n\n2.) Bird flu mutates and is really weakened in the mutation \n% of world population that gets sick 25%\nNo. Sick 1,500,000,000\n% fatalities 0.50% (half a percent)\nNo. fatalities 7,500,000\n\n3.) Bird flu mutates and is as virulent as the spanish flu of 1918 (WHO figures) \n% of world population that gets sick 50%\nNo. Sick 3,000,000,000\n% fatalities 5%\nNo. fatalities 150,000,000\n\nThese models become scarier and scarier the worse the plagues and disasters used as a base. All they really say is that if there is a pandemic people, without medical help, will die. They don't say that it will happen. (If you want to really scare yourself or someone else do the maths on bubonic plague 80% infected and 80% fatalities).  \n\nSo overall I'll say there is a chance of this avian fly being the next pandemic. The chance is not so terrifyingly likely that I am going to sell up and move to a defendable mountaintop and start shooting at strangers. However the chance is big enough that I have spent about $100 dollars on Tamiflu and food - just in case. \n\nThe only people who have told me with a 100% certainty that the pandemic is going to happen and everyone will die are people who are trying to sell me stuff to survive the coming pandemic. I think they are pretty biased.


I know it cures strep throat and bronchitis but will it cure all bacterial infections?

No it will kill only certain bacteria.You have to do a culture+ABST test to find out what antibiotic is sensitive for what.ABST stands for antibiotic sensitivity test.Do not rake your brain, we are raking our brain for you.\n\nDr K.S.A.Kumarasiri(MD)


They are Bail jumping and possesion of a controlled substance - fentnayl.

Federal law allows persons convicted of felonies in a federal United States district court to apply to have their record expunged after a certain period of time with a clean record. However, the U.S. Congress has refused to fund the federal agency mandated with handling the applications of convicted felons to have their record expunged. This means that, in practice, federal felons cannot have their records expunged. \n\nYou may also check with your local State laws.\n\nGood Luck!!!


1.it asks:FOR domain from which you tried to access\nOR\n1.TAKE HELP FROM NETWORK ADMINISTRATOR(WHO IS NOT ANSWERING THE PHONE)\n[SITE GIVES A LINK THAT DOES NOT OPEN]

Here is the answer. E-mail the network adminisitrator (me) and tell me about the problem. My friend glued the phone down, sorry I am not being rude.


I had a biospy 2 weeks ago and the results came in, but my Dr. is insisting that I come into the office for the results.  If they are negative why cant she just tell me over the phone?   Is there some kind of law thatrequires Dr's to tll patientsoin person regarldess of the the results?

if the results are negative they may want you to come in to discuss more options, if not they probably want to discuss treatment options...either way, they're sucking more money out of you...there is a policy about your confidential health information called HIPPA http://www.hhs.gov/ocr/hipaa/


It s a little booklet with words like Federal / Government written on the cover.  Is it available on the internet?

Weekly Compilation of Presidential Documents, published by the Federal Registry.  It contains all the speeches, letters, and announcements made by the presidential office released by the White House..


I don't know the lyrics but it is about whose parents get divorced.

I have alot of ben folds.I just listened to a bunch to see if any lyrics dealt with divorcing parents.Nothing found.Hes really good,i saw him last year in chicago.give me more to go on and ill see if i could help you.


It says that Christ came for the forgivness of all our sins, but in Catholic religions you have to go trought this thing called "baptism" because Adan and even eat that apple and you are are born with this "Original Sin"\n\nI dont really like Catholics im sorry

Trying to make sense of religion is like trying to teach a pig to sing.  Don't waste your time with fairy tales.


im a male from newport beach california, does that gain more attention from females as oppose to if i said i was from kentucky?

LOL,,,too cute! Yea I suppose we do dig guys who ride surfboards more than those who ride donkeys. But then again...you guys have the rap of being superficial, yeah yeah I know, lol...Soooo depends I guess. I'd hate to think I had to toss in my Old Navy's for some cut off jean shorts but something about a guy from Kentucky screams devoted, faithful always loving you for you kinda guy. So we'll marry the KY one and have affair with you guys in Cali :D LOL


He used a different shampoo yesterday, but already had the cough a few days ago.  No temp, still has appetite.  Any ideas?

It most likely is allergies and or hes very nervous for some reason ask him if hes over excited or very nervous that usually causes the hives and or cough and if he has a cough he could have got it from some one from school or so.......


The terms of the series are defined recursively by the following equations: A1=5   A2=(4n+1)/(5n+3)\n\nDetermine whether the sum of A sub n converges or not

The series converges because as n increases the ratio gets closer to .8. So A2=9/13 and A3=13/18 and so on. So each iteration makes the +1 in the numerator and the +3 in the denominator more and more negligible.So for n=∞, An=.8 assuming that the series is infinite.


How should i approach her and what should i say?

Girls love being asked out so just say excuse me um would you like to go out sometime if she says no then just say ok and remember that it was good you asked her because if you hadnt you would have never known what she would have said also if she says no just know that she isnt right for you and mabey try again later if she says yes then good for you


I'm Bridging from Paramedic to RN. I'm just curious as to which branch makes the most money or which areas?

I was a social worker at a hospital.  The highest paid RN's I saw were those who put in their dues working on the floors (the nurses I knew liked Maternity the best) and then go on to do some type of Case Management.  You can do Case Management at the hospital or Insurance companies, etc.  I also knew an ER RN who went on to do Risk Management at the hospital - also a higher paying job.  You can get a lot of your Case Management credentials through on-line courses, so you may be able to get there faster by doing some courses on-line while you are working.  Or, it could happen like things do a lot of times, that they have a shortage and you are the best person for the job and - "you're in."  I ended up learning so much about the medical aspects of maternity that I was made a Case Manager for that unit (still got social worker pay though :)\n\nBest of luck to you...


I've always heard that a cell phone can kill your credit, but not build it, is this really true?

Ok, I don't think any of the other answers have a clue.\n\nCell phone companies pull your credit report to see whether or not you will have to put down a deposit.  They use yoru past credit to see how likely it is that you will pay your bill.  Techinically this inquiry counts as an inquiry on your credit report, but by itself will have no impact on your credit.\n\nSince a cell phone is not a credit account, it does not go on your credit report.  UNLESS you don't pay your bill on time or do not pay at all.  Then the company will put collections and other negative remarks on your credit.\n\nIt really won't help your credit at all because it doesn't go on your credit report unless you do something bad.\n\nBut as long as you pay your bill and never more than 30 days late, it will not effect your credit at all.


i feel he was targetted for releasing the death row guys before he left office, and i feel that that was wrong to do to this man.

My understanding is that it is part of an ongoing offensive against corruption in Illinois. Ryan isn't the only person caught up in it. Mayor Daley's former patronage chief faces trial shortly along with three colleagues. My understanding is that it isn't related to capital punishment.


such as car54 where are you, my mother the car,have gun will travel,rawhide,johnny quest. better quit I'm starting to feel real old about now.

77 sunset strip, Bat masterson , the saint, the untouchables, hawian eye mannix, nypd blue , juding amy\nhillstreet blues,palidon,, zoro, my firend flicka, sky king\nJust to name a few and may some before you where born.


I am a refugee young man living in a brutal life, having had many problems in my home country and still have got more thesame problems in the refugee camp. so how can I totally change my life?

I dont believe you. Refugee camp? Wow do they have DSL connections and Starbucks around the corner?


He is now at home being cared for by my elderly mother who is making herself ill now - I just wish I could be there to help her but I don't stay with them anymore and I have to work.   I don't think he has long to live and although we all have been preparing for this for a year I am scared how I will cope when the end comes.  Also. I have neglected my own husband as most free time is spent at my parents who live very local to me, trying to give support to my Mum.   In front of everyone I put on a face, but inside I am being cut up with the whole situation.   Whatever happens I have to be strong for my Mum

As I lost my husband to cancer and having adult children, I must tell you that your mother does need you. Your husband will and should understand. No matter what anyone says, to hear that he will be in a better place once the battle is over, will be of no comfort to your mother. It will not lift her burden of taking care of him for all this time either. It's not a burden when you love someone. I'd rather have my husband here. Yes, he's no longer in pain, and yes I'm happy he's not, but when that loss finally happens, you'd rather have him here regardless. \n\nYour mother will not be prepared for the loss when it happens, just as you won't. It's impossible to prepare for that even when you know it's inevitable. I was exhausted from caregiving, I felt alone. You find it hard to talk about your fears to your children, and you find it hard to relay these fears to the person you're taking care of. Your mother needs caregiving too, and she will need you there after your dad loses the battle he's fought so hard in. You will need comfort too, but realize how big of a loss this will be for your mom. You will get that comfort from your husband, but your mom will no longer have her husband to comfort her, she'll need it from you. You don't have to put on a face. Your mother knows it's ripping you apart too. Share that with her, listen to her and reassure her just as she would reassure you. \n\nI feel your pain and your mom's pain. My thoughts are with you.


I think this article brings up some very good points about Christianity and I would like your feedback on said issues\nhttp://cricamarvin.blig.ig.com.br/imagens/tubgirl.jpg

No one click on that link! Thats just plain sick! You sicko!


I am tring to learn C++ and need some advice on the best compiler (freeware). I am useing  windows XP. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.

Best and easy to use is Visual C++ Express 2005 (it's free)http://msdn.microsoft.com/vstudio/express/visualC/default.aspx\nand you can get complete information on Microsoft's Vc++ from http://msdn.microsoft.com/visualc/ infact there are video lessions and how Do I.. Guides at http://msdn2.microsoft.com/en-us/library/ms177549\n This will be the best compiler to use  as you are doing development in windows xp . As it will provide you with good API's (IT's a COMPILER + IDE)\nThere is another free compiler http://www.bloodshed.net/devcpp.html . It's a good compiler , if you want to be vendor neutral.\nThere is another free compiler called GCC (this is a GNU compiler (i.e Open Source and free too) you can get complete information on this from http://gcc.gnu.org\nand you can download the compiler from http://gcc.gnu.org/install/binaries.html\nWith this compiler you can do development on many operating systems with the same toolset.


Pick any 3 players in the world to be on your team as forwards. Football(soccer) question.


being almost 5'4 your healthy body weigh is between 120-130 depending on your body frame. at 112 you are already underweight. try exercise with weights or resistant bands to tone up you"ll lose inches but not weight.


how much could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood?????i didnt speel chuck right ddi i???????/

This has been ask so much hes too tired to chuck wood even if he could


my wifes a smoker but she's been lying about it. Maybe she is ashamed but why does she have to lie even though i have told her so many times that its okay, just don't fib about it so much.(actually its not okay to smoke your killing yourself.) do you think that its okay if a person continuallI lies to you?  I'm kind of getting to the point where i don't trust her about other things... please let me know what you think.

Relationships are based upon honesty and trust. I could not lie to my husband about anything even when i know that it is going to get me in trouble, the reason is is because I love him and he deserves to know what is going on and to lie to him is to dishonor him. \n\nShe is probably embarrassed about her habit, but she needs to realize that it is not okay to lie to you about it. It is not very honorable to lie to someone and I can understand where you would not trust her.  You probably almost feel like she is hiding something. \n\nI would suggest having a long hearted but gentle and calm talk with her and maybe counseling may be necessary as well


LeBron has been playing great this season.  Not only can he score points and play defense, but he is also a great team player.  I think he is the MVP this year. What do you thinK?

yes!!! lebron has 4 or 5 triple doubles this year. this shows that he works on all ends of the court. he scores well, he passes for the assists, he rebounds constantly, and he blocks shots for defense. you cant ask for more. not to mention hes 21. Nash and Kobe all deserve their credit but i feel that lebron is a better player. kobe is all about himself so he can score 40 in a game but has only like 2 assists. lebron scores 40 and has 11 assists. the only other person besides lebron that should even come close to getting the MVP award is Nash but it still should be lebron.


He's depressed about not having a girlfriend right now and he's only 19. I've told him many things, like stop searching and the right one will find you, and stop worrying you're a great guy and when you find someone she will be one of the luckiest girls in the world. I don't know what else to tell him, can you give me some ideas?

19 is a hard age to not have a mate, it seems most people are hooked up so that can make him feel left out.  It's important that he finds joy in LIFE, not in somebody.  If you rely on another person to make you happy, you won't be happy much at all.  What are his interests?  Many people don't cultivate their interests, they just watch TV and wait for life and love to happen to them.  He needs to get out there and develop interests in life, and not worry about a girlfriend so much.  I'm sure he has talents etc., so he needs to explore that and maybe the loneliness will fade.  Good luck!


she named him moses,now how does that go with apple?

Awwwww :)\nWhat a cute name.  I even like the name Apple.  Sounds so cute.\n\nImagine when the kiddies are older and getting into mischief though.  It would be hard using those names in a stern voice!


Santa Claus didn't have 6 to 8 reindeer, he had 6 to 8 black men (bucks. get it?) they'll fly if you hit them hard enough, and they can help santa get into people's houses...etc

Jokes are meant to make people laugh, they're not meant to hurt people.  If it made you laugh, then it served its purpose.  The way I view it is that comedians are making fun of a stereotype, not the people in the minority group.  Sure some of these stereotypes might hold true, but it's the individual's decision whether or not to follow them.


i just want to know what people think... feel free to honestly say what you think

I am a Christian. We are no better than anyone else. We don't proclaim to be self righteous. We are sinners saved by grace. The only difference between us and non-believing is we have accepted the free gift of salvation. God loves you and everyone else as much as he loves Christians. Jesus died for sinners. \nWe admit we are not perfect. We will not be perfect till after we are risen from the dead. Difference is we try to live a Christ like life. In the end we will all be judged for every deed we do and every idle word we speak.