i have been going out w/ my boyfriend for almost a year now and he always puts others before me. i even have a car now! all his friends live near him so its more convienint for him to chill w/ them than me. i know hes not cheating on me for a fact, but i do everything in my power to make him happy (i helped him out w/ gas money,his hw,clothes..ect.) and i want to give up on him. He says he loves me and needs me but it just feels like an inside school only relationship. what should i do?

Firstly Spending Money Only Helps With His Problems And Does'nt Give Him Any More Attraction With You, Look AT It This Way, If He Way Paying For You And Buying You Clothes And Stuff You Won't Feel Any More Of AN Attraction But A Feeling Of Comfort - Why Not Give Subtle Hints Of Love Through Other Cheaper Means.....I Like Giving Out Notes With "Thinking About You" Slipped Into There Jackets Or So\n\nYou Can Always See Other People And See If There Fun, Remember Though No Kissing But Flirting Is Fine, As it A Selection Process And Not A Sexing Process, You Understand Pretty ALien


i have the choice of either smoking pot or cigarettes, what do you think i should go for?

If you want to be a pothead, smoke pot\nIf you want to be a butthead, smoke cigarettes


I'm interested in finding out if anybody has experimented with non-traditional (herbs, etc) ways to reduce either their cholesterol or triglyceride levels?  I am currently taking gemfibrozil & niaspan (2000 mg) and I can't get below 400 on my triglyceride level.  It was 1,400.  It is genetic, but I could still help myself out by eating better, believe me.  Easier said than done, though.  I worry about my liver functions holding up over time with the conventional medications.  Last summer I was in the best shape of my life and I still had high ldl, low hdl and high triglycerides.  Much improved, but still not a pretty picture.

There are several effective ways to reduce high triglycerides:\n\nReduce your intake of carbohydrates. Avoid refined flour, sugar, etc. It is simple carbohydrates that cause an increase in triglycerides.\n\nAvoid alcohol, especially beer.\n\nExercise regularly.\n\nIf overweight, lose weight.\n\nDo not smoke.\n\nTake a psyllium type laxative preparation (such as Metamucil). It adds soluable fiber that can cut triglyceride levels in half.\n\nTake fish oil capsules, which reduces triglycerides.\n\nHope this helps.


the tragedy were called "the titanic in the sky" it was a german's airship. it was burned on the 6th of May, 1937 at Lakehurst, NJ. 36 lost of lives. its still a mystery of how it burned..\n*it was named after Paul von Hindenburg, second president of\n Germany (1925-1934)\n*airship's number D-LZ129

Mysteriously filled with hydrogen which caught fire and destroyed all aboard


1. Free medical care for my entire family.\n2. English-speaking government bureaucrats for all services I might need,whether I use them or not.\n3. All government forms need to be printed in English.\n4. I want my kids to be taught by English-speaking teachers.\n5. Schools need to include classes on American culture and history.\n6. I want my kids to see the American flag flying on the top of the flag pole at their school with the Mexican flag flying lower down.\n7. I will need a local Mexican driver's license so I can get easy access to government services.\n8. I do not plan to have any car insurance, and I won't make any effort to learn local traffic laws.\n9. Please be sure that all police officers speak English.\n10. I plan to fly the U.S. flag from my house top, put flag decals on my car, and have a gigantic celebration on July 4th. \n11. I would also like to have a nice job without paying any taxes, and don't enforce any labor laws or tax laws.

I agree with everything you said.  The USA is the "home of the free" but everything isn't free. . .to anyone!  Rather than immigrating to the USA, why not change things in Mexico to be more like the USA if it is so desirable! We've always welcomed foreigners who adhere to our laws and become legal citizens.


I have heard rumors that when Walt Disney came up with Mickey Mouse he did so as his second character not the first. The reason that he did not use the first was because another production studio or animation company was already using it.\n\nDoes anyone know what the first Character Walt Disney came up with before Mickey Mouse?

After having lost the rights to Oswald the Lucky Rabbit, Disney had to develop a new "star". Most Disney biographies state that Walt came up with a mouse character on his trip back from New York. It is debated whether it was he, or Ub Iwerks who actually designed the mouse (which basically looked like Oswald, but with round instead of long ears). The first films were animated by Iwerks, his name was prominently featured on the title cards. The mouse was originally named "Mortimer", but later christened "Mickey Mouse" by Lillian Disney.


Hope to get into my first marathon this autumn. Have already started some training, am now up to 10 miles in a time of 1:15. However, I need to improve my speed and gain more endurance over the next few months. Am also interested in any tips to avoid injury, have had dodgy knees in the past.


Crack cocaine comes from the coca plant. Heroin comes from the poppy plant. (The same plant that morphine and opium come from) Both of course are refined, cut, and generally messed around with a bunch of chemicals which I dont know anything about. All I know is the different plants they come from. You can probably google it and find out. Id do it for you but I'm too lazy.\n\n\npeace


To many people this questions must sound very weird. The fact is that my church teaches that women should not pray (I mean lead the prayer) in a place where there are men present because in that case they would be "directing" men. This is a theological point based on the teachings of the apostle Paul. I would appreciate answers from people who are mature in christ. Thank you very much.

Yes, I know, Dear. But, unfortunately, Paul didn't like women at all. He made certain the gospels of the followers of Jesus who were ladies were kept silent. It's been debated whether Paul himself was a misogynist or just gay. I am not being combative, I'm simply repeating what was in one of my religion classes. I see no reason why a Woman shouldn't lead a prayer. It's they who bear the children and cook the food. These are both sacraments in their own rights. God doesn't care about gender. God cares about what actually goes into a prayer and the faith of those praying it.


Lincoln, Republican\nDouglas, Northern Democrat\nBreckenridge, Southern Democrat\nBell, Constitutional Union\n\nAnd I agree with dac2chari - I shouldn't have answered this, she said what I usually say.  And yes, I used Google.


It seems to be about 2 km long, centred about 3 km east of Gretna. It is shown but not labelled on the OS 1:50,000 and 1:25,000 maps.\n\nOn Google maps: http://tinyurl.com/qhzrq\nOn Multimap: http://tinyurl.com/f5jbx\n\nThis question is is probably in the wrong category but since I don't know what it is (the thing I'm asking about) I can't make a better guess about its category!

While, it seems up til now that nobody knows.  And in this world, the unexplainable can make you rich.  Ignore anyone who gives you a logical explanation, because as soon as you go "oh yeah, that's what it must be," your millions whither and die.  remember that. whither and die.


I looked on the back porch a few weeks ago & noticed there were 4 baby squirrels laying around. I went outside to see if they were dead, they were still breathing (rapidly) & suddenly, the mother came out of nowhere. I already knew not to touch them so I went back in. Well, we found out her TREE nest fell apart. She still had a few in the tree, so they fell as well. It was disturbing. These babies fell about 12 feet from the tree. I'm curious, I'd like to know if the ones would have most likely died later from the fall?

Small animals can take falls very well, but those babies may have died anyway. They need to be in a warm nest, away from predators. Did the mother collect them?


site is now stupid, iposted an answer saying i don't know and i got violated. BS

I guess you shouldn't have answered the question ...


Is there any types of food I should be eating, or some kind of excercising I should be doing??

Honestly, its better you consult a specialist to find out what's best for you. I really want to help but I don't think I can give better answers than specialist do. Sorry.\n\ngood luck\n\nLove is omnipresence, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.


THe thermometer broke.  The mercury is gone..

No Keep it warm you never know who might visit.  ;-)


I cheated on my ex, she found out left and now she is married, she forgive me but I cant seem to forgive myself what should I do? I want to move on!

Forgiveness is tough, but it liberates us in the same way that God's forgiveness frees us. If you never say "I forgive" then you will never let go of the hurt. The past will haunt your present and your future. Forgiving does not erase the hurt, but it will free you from the threat the hurt will stick with you for life. You can pray this prayer "Help me learn from you, dear Jesus, how to forgive, so that I might live fully and freely. Amen"


I'm Brazilian and always felt that this must be a terrible situation.\n\nI won't ask additional questions here,as I use too.Tell me about your pain,please,as much as you feel comfortable writing here.\n\nKnow that my heart and my toughts are with you and your family and friends.:)\n\nThank you very much for sharing your life with me!:)

Moon love, you know how difficult this is to answer, and I would invite others to know, but I have made my 360 only available to friends.\nYes my loved one made his choice when the war was already underway. But his family and friends know the heart that drives this man (who was once a boy in my arms), and we believe in him and his fellows. We do not believe in this administration, and how they have handled this effort that has cost the lives and limbs of so many.\nBut take me out of the equation for a minute, after all I haven't seen day one of combat. Let me share from someone who has:\n\n"As a First Lieutenant and Infantry Platoon Leader for the U.S. Army National Guard charged with leading thirty-eight men in Iraq, Paul Rieckhoff followed in the footsteps of his father and grandfather. After Rieckhoff volunteered to take part in the invasion of Iraq, he and his soldiers spent almost a year in one of the most dangerous and volatile areas of Baghdad, where they struggled to maintain order, protect Iraqi civilians, track down insurgents, and defend themselves against sniper and roadside bomb attacks. \n\nBut it was clear to Rieckhoff almost from the get-go that America's mission in Iraq was deeply flawed - and that his platoon was overchallenged and underequipped. If there was a plan to stabilize Baghdad after the invasion, no one had let them in on it. And with so many obstacles to overcome, they faced enemies that included thousands of armed, angry, and unemployed men who had been unleashed into the streets when the U.S. government disbanded the Iraqi army."\n\nThat is just a sampling of the book released just recently by the former platoon leader. He has served, and he wants the American public to KNOW the troops need more than just their love and support. The troops need a plan, they need someone to understand what it is like on the front lines, and they need the forces behind this war to come up with a reasonable and timely exit strategy.\n\nFrom my heart, yes we are in this horrible mess under false pretenses, and I know Dubya, Dick and Rummy all brought us in to pay for their luxuries in life, to extract vengence on their behalf, to stock their coifers... it just goes on. Yes we can't just pack up camp and go home, things might very well be worse than how it was before we came over.\n\nDubya, let me tell it to ya straight. Ya ain't never gonna win a place in this heart, you have lied and cheated us too many times, but the least you could do for the history of this country, is drop everything and I mean everything, and gather every brilliant mind and former general into a think tank to break this stalemate and get us the H E !_ !_ outta Iraq, before you cost one more life or limb. And you had better do everything in your power, combined with the people of both Houses to repay the American people who've lost family and friends. You owe us way more than that, but I guess I could call it even.\n\nOh and one more thing, should a hair be harmed on my boy, hear me loud and clear...\nThe UNIVERSE has witnessed no fury, like this Nearly Demonic Momma Grizzly!\n(Cindy S. will seem like a long lost college drinking buddy, comparativly!)\n\nNo one's husband/wife, mother/father, sister/brother, uncle/aunt, and most especially son/daughter should pay with any hurt upon their being FOR YOUR MISDEEDS.


I have a football helmet that is yellowed and nicked up.  What can I use to clean it?

If it's going to be used for football, only water and very mild soap (harsher cleaners can chemically damage the plastic and padding, harming their protective abilities) - if only for viewing/decoration - use as strong of cleansers as you want, bleach even if it's a white helmet.


what r the disadvantages of Human cloning?

The disadvantages is that something might go awry, your clone might commit a crime and the one being caught is you. The clone knows your secrets and might betray you, he knows your feelings and weaknesses and can overpower you. Human cloning also resembles the making of another person which is forbidden by some religions as only God can create lives, not men. If men clone, they are implying that they are omnipotent which they are not.


the letters FINISI/ORIGINE are shown across the patch

Latin Definition:\n\nFINIS ORIGINE PENDET.  The end depends upon the beginning.  --Motto\n\n\n\nThe patch you are looking for is the 441st Chest Patch.


Certain football players and leagues seem to always be diving. What's up with that?

You forgot one more football league\n\nEnglish Premier league and in influx of foreign players who's main contribution to the beautiful game has been the 'art' of diving\n\nA certain German (Mr Klinsmann) started the ball a rolling on his initial term with spurs (tottenham hotspur)


Isnt it the best movie in the whole world?!!!

Yeah, it is pretty good (acting and music), I especially like "I should, should I" (I think that's what the title of the song is, don't have the cd yet) but the ending was a little weak.  Without giving too much away, one of the characters recovers too easy.  Recovery should have taken longer to fit in the theme of one year.


If i wanted a cam to provide a pause at the top of a motion and another at the bottom. What cam shape would i use?

You would start with two concentric circles.  When the "tooth" is on the outer circle of the cam, it will be on its low point (if it is pointed downward from the cam).  When it is on the inner circle, it will be on the high point.  As long as it is on either of the circles, it will be paused.  To go between the two points, make a path going from the outside of the larger circle to the inner circle, and vice versa to come back out.  When the cam runs with a tooth, it will pause at the top and bottom. The cam shape should look like a ginko leaf with a quarter over the center of it.


I just got the photo in an email, looks real, had just seen the pictures of the comet breaking up; but it feels like one of those urban myths.

It's actually a composite of photos (as are most photos of space).  Some more information is here:\n\nhttp://antwrp.gsfc.nasa.gov/apod/ap000828.html\n\nwww.snopes.com has some information as well.  Type in Eye of God in the search box.


Think ballack has awrite to come chelsea because chelsea has got the best coach in eroupe as well as in the world who is jose morinho.may be ballacks coming to stamford bridge will create more chances of winning trophies in Europe.like champions league and FA CUP. PRIMIER plus carlling cup.

I don't think that Ballack is well known for having a particularly strong sense of loyalty so if Chelsea offers the right amount of money, I think that he will sign for them.\n\nI personally don't see the need for Chelsea to sign Ballack seeing that he plays in essentially the same position as Frank Lampard does right now and is the same type of player - a midfielder who is creative and scores a lot of goals. Ballack is probably slightly more experienced that Lampard and is a better header of the ball, but there is no way that they are leaving Lampard on the bench.\n\nI also can't see Mourinho playing Lampard and Ballack together as Makelele is very effective in the holding role in midfield and Mourinho's formation pivots around that position.\n\nI think Chelsea would be better off buying another striker to be honest. Drogba and Crespo haven't really been as consistent as other top class strikers in the Premiereship.


just wonderin. Mine was to a Green Day concert.

I liked the Metallica tour a couple years ago. Motley Crue was also very good


When identifying parasites, I use the CDC Control of Communicable Diseases Manual.\n\nOtherwise, I may recommend http://www.cdc.gov or http://www.webmd.com\n\nIf you REALLY wanna know, though, you need to see your doctor an provide a stool sample. Lab tests are pretty good at identifying the types of parasites. Trust me, you should know sooner than develop visceral larval migrans later.


with lessons..\nIt is the hardest stroke to learn..\nalas when swam correctly can look quite beautiful...\nI suggest you get someone to teach you...\nits a stroke that every one has there own technique...


i have a i-search project due and i still need 1 more thing and that is i so can u help me?!!!!!!!

The skill of kicking a ball into a small net was used by the Chinese military during the "Han Dynasty". But it became a game more recently. Soccer actually is short for Associated Football. British college students started calling it "soccer" as a shortened word. \n\nAs for WHY soccer was invented, I guess to have a good time and to compete with other people. It improves your foot-eye coordination too...


why do white gurls like playing with guys minds.........pretty much playing games

They are not playing, They are really that stupid!


I love the movie, and was just curious to see what people thought of the music

I greatly love most of the songs, but the All I Ask of You Reprise is my favorite just because of the great emotion you see in the Phantom as well as the lovely vengefulness.\n\nYou will curse the day you did not do ---- All that the Phantom ---- Asked of YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUU!


Just found this in my SHARED DOCUMENTS and have no idea what it is. Would it be harmful to the computer?


This is concerning my filing for Social Security Disability Benefits. I have been through the complete appeal process, been before a Judge at the second/third appeals hearing, and sent to a doctor of their choice... This doctor has already sent his report in. I have been out of work and unable to work since 16 May 2002, which is almost four years now. My children and I will soon be homeless, and are already on starvation, or at least having to accept help in this area and others by our family and church friends/family. My present attorney has lost all my convidence and continues to treat me badly, taken away my dignity, and just does not treat me with any respect what so ever. What are my legal options? If any? Can I fire him, and how? I desperately need help before we litterly loose everthing!

yes, u can hire a new lawyer anytime and fire your current one.  u prob signed a contract of some sort in the beginning stating that if u seek other counsel, u must still pay him a set hourly fee for the am't of billable hours he has already put into your case.\n\nu can also contact the bar association to report the abusive behavior u have rec'd.  he will be investigated and such.  perhaps receive a reprimand or some sort of suspension, depending on how well u can prove your case.\n\ngood luck!


ocd stands for obssive compulsive disorder

As in X or Y chromosomes??  Don't know,but I do know that OCD is due in part to an imbalance of serotonin in the brain.


I didn't do anything in high school except hang out in my van with friends after school and listen to stupid hippie music.\nIn college (2 year degree) I wrote a humor column for the newspaper and worked on the Literary Arts magazine.\nNow I'm part of an advertising group on campus.

I did lots of things, as I could remember, I attented thee National Day of Youth here i the Philippines, I also participated in the Gawad Kalinga (it's an orgamization which gather youths together and build homes for the needy, I also did lost of writing in school, I am actually part of the school publication team, I am also sent to different schools for different competitioins, that's some of the extra curricular activities that I did.\n\nWrting a humor column for the newspaper and literary arts magazine and being a member of the advertising group of your campus, whoa! that's a lots of extra curricular activities already, only a very few people are given the oppurtunity to write in a newspaper, being part of a literary team of an arts magazine is a tough task.\n\nAll that you did now are extra curricular and hanging out with friends after school and listening to hippies music and going to concerts are still considered "extra", right?


what is another name for the musical sounds represented by notes???

Strange question, but I guess the answer would be "tones"


The Country Greece, how much is development there, is it an europian country, what type of business can one find there and which curency (money) do they use?

Greece is a European Country. Europe is a continent. (the name Europe was taken from a girl in Greek Mythology!) \nContinents are Europe, Asia, Africa, Oceania, America. Have you ever seen the Olympic flag? every cycle means one continent. Olympic games born in ancient Greece. The first Olympic Games hosted by Greece too in 1896.\nHave you ever heard, Hercules, Alexander the Great, Plato, Socrates... all Greeks! \n\nYou can find anything here, we use EURO currency.


There is a very good friend of mine who has undergone his surgery for appendix on Monday!!! I was wondering that if you have suggestions to how to make him feel better. He is perfectly fine now but do u have some more suggestions!!


They discovered it a few years ago, the small one.


i cant seem to find any graph showing me the future outlook for a radiologist please help


i ofter feel that i am taking school or education tooo serious. like i'm missing out in life. i know it is very important and it will one day pay off, but i feel like a teen who really  doesnt have a life

If school and education is important to what you hope to do in the future, you should take these very seriously. That said, it is important that your life have balance. When you are applying to colleges, they want to see that you have activities and passions outside of the classroom. Whether it's sports or clubs or volunteer work, you should spend at least five hours a week doing something constructive that isn't school work. And you should have down time as well -- time to hang with friends or family and have fun. You do need to have a life, but it doesn't mean you have to give up on your long term goals. Work hard but schedule some time in your life for stuff other than school work.


Without getting a job how do we get experience?

It's cheaper for businesses to employ staff with experience since they don't have to spend time & money training them.  If you want to get experience in a particular industry & are having trouble finding a job, why not volunteer?  Even 2-4 hours a week for a month or two, then you have a job referee & you have "experience".  You can then put this on your resume when applying for the next job.


I know some animals die after mating but is there any animal that openly kill themselves?

no. Some animals such as penguins will commit suicide by going into water that they know is plagued with predators. Also studies have been done with cats, dogs, and other animals. They usually get depressed and there is actually medication for these animals so they will not commit suicide.


Have you ever had eyelash wrestling matches with your partner? Get up close and personal, engage lashes, no blinking, first one to pull away loses.\n.\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\nYeh thought it was just me.

nope, but might try that\nit sounds cute =)


My credit really stinks (non existant @ this point). How do I go about starting my own small business. I was told to start a corporation, so if my creditors find me, they can only take the business $$$, not my personal $$$. True?

true and false yu hace to make sure which corporation you list under like s corp, find an accountant which will help u , shop around it should cost under 200.00 to set u up, chex ur state web site i live in fl and www.myflorida.com has all my states answers on it under bussiness im sure yours does too, also my champer of commers wed site was useful in tax laws and inspections ect...  agian look around for an accountant who doesnt over charge ask abound and call  good luck


with things like GD DM (sorry but thats what they say), Do you girls like this? I'm a guy and I dont. does it work?

Nope.  Its stupid.  Tell them, man. Don't whine about it, but just let them know that its not cool.  And then, if you really wanna drive the point home, go up to a girl, be respectful but let her know you're interested in her, and show your buds that its easier to pick up chicks when you're respectful instead of catcalling them.  Good luck, dude!


If there is no god then there is no devil and no heaven or hell so what happens?

ashes to ashes and dust to dust.  aka worm food.


say there was no prophets and you did not hear of Abraham, moses, Jesus, Muhammad or any other prophets. and there was no holy book (Torah, Bible, Quran) that you can look at to guide into believing. what your heart will really believe? \n\nbe honest.\n\ni believe the heart has a secret code that has the answer for faith. for example when we hear this senstence (God is only One) we know it's the true but we don't why it's true. our hearts told us that whoever created all of us is just One God. so what truly ur hearts says (ignore your religion for a while)

Okay, I think I can answer this honestly because I do not practice an "Organized Religion".  \n\nMy heart says we are all the same and we all have the same Creator.  I feel that because our Creator is so vast his children exemplify a mere fraction of what is possible within Him, but it would explain why we come in many shapes and colors.  \n\nI feel that the many religions popped up because many prophets were sent to Earth to teach us.  After the prophet ascended to Heaven people took note and began to practice their teachings and this would explain why we have several different religions.  \n\nI feel we are simply here to serve and help one another and protect the earth.  I feel we must acknowledge our creator and praise him through prayer, giving thanks and by living harmoniously.  It is like you said, faith comes from within and it's home is your heart so I think as long as you acknowledge your higher self and your creator faith will lead you in the direction of the Divine.


yup thats why most of the people with weak eye wears green glass. Because green helps to activate the immune and strength the power of our eyes.


I have 2 out of print cassette tapes that i'd like to preserve on CD and transfer to my MP3 player.  (I've tried to get CDs but they don't exist.)  What program and/or equipment do you recommend that you have used?  Thanks.

The most important thing - you will need a sound card that accepts the input from your cassette deck.\nI have a Soundblaster Audigy card, and it has a pair of RCA jack inputs right in the front of the card - I then have a standalone Denon cassette deck that connects directly in.  Of course that will run you some money.\nYou probably can get an RCA-to-mini adapter if you have a standard sound card just with mini inputs.\n\nAnother option is to buy one of these new direct-to-computer Cassette Players with a USB line out.  You can then connect the cassette player digitally into your computer, and that will save you from buying an expensive sound card... but of course those cassette decks are more expensive than normal ones.\nSoftware is not a big deal, there are tons of different programs out there that will accomplish the same thing - recording the tracks from your cassette input and converting them to mp3 or cd audio.  I personally use SoundForge, Cakewalk Pyro is also good, there are a lot more...


Do you have them at your school or workplace?

Their style of dress and behavior (out of the norm) demands attention and then, when you are caught looking at them, they want to kill you...\n\nI find them to be a major annoyance, just a wrench in the machine - never contributing to anything - just negative, negative, negative!\n\nand if you read this - get a life - you are NOT ORIGINAL, you are a cliche!!!


I dreamed that I had taken a little snooze on the couch while my husband was on the computer.  When I awoke from my dream (in my dream) I noticed big orange baloons outside, I got up from the couch and saw there were baloons hanging on all the lightposts down the street. It turns out my husband had placed them there for a surprise birthday party for me.  Any clue what this could mean?  My birthday is not until November and my husband never does anything like that...kinda strange

The husband represents the aspect of yourself that loves and takes care of you. So that aspect of yourself gave you an uplifting (balloons) gift/surprise to just brighten up your day and make you feel special and worthy. Orange represents peace and love, that is why monks wear orange. Didn't you *feel* special and worthy, even loved with that kind of attention? Birthdays represent celebration of a new aspect within yourself. So realize you do have the ability to do these things for yourself from within.


There are more than hundreds of thousands of listeners of a genre known as go-go that developed in the late 70's in Washington, DC. The music is popular in select areas, namely the Wshington metro area, a bit of VA, a bit of MD, scarce in NC and i've even heard of a growth in Philly. Strangely though, unlike other alternative music like death-metal and goth rock who has fewer (and whiter) audiences, Go-go has never really gone that far. Why is that?

maybe they didnt sell out to mtv and the other promoters who kill any semblance to talent or good music.


I don't watch sports, but I hear a lot about the draft. So do the players not get to choose which team they want to be on? It seems to me that the teams choose the players and the players get no say in what team they get to play for. Is that the case? Because I thought some players had contracts and that with teams...

I believe it is like the WWE Raw/SmackDown Draft they have once a year.  But I believe the NFL draft really is random unlike WWE.


Here is the link to the profile of the FIGHTER TOADS-\n\n\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fighter_Toads_(comics)

Ninja Turtles!!Because Toads are too young to defeat Turtles!!!


On the news about a decade ago they were talking a lot about high temperature superconductors.  They were talking about superconductors of electricity.  Are there other types of superconductors, like maybe a superconductor of heat, or a superconductor of sound, or a superconductor of light?

Superconductors conduct electricity with little or no resistance. Organic superconductors contain carbon and are less dense than their ceramic or metallic counterparts; they also offer unusual potential for fine-tuning of electrical properties. Argonne National Laboratory long has carried out the major U.S. effort to synthesize and identify organic superconductors. Nearly 100 new superconductors of this type have been produced, with critical temperatures (at which a superconductor loses all electrical resistance) as high as -260 degrees C, or -434 degrees F. Recently, the first superconductor composed entirely of organic components (with no metal atoms) was synthesized, with a transition temperature in this range. Although this remains far lower than the highest known transition temperature for ceramics, scientists still expect that a high-temperature organic superconductor may be possible, such that liquid nitrogen (at -196 degrees C, or -321 degrees F) could be used as the coolant instead of the more costly liquid helium, thus making practical applications more feasible. The new compound has a two-dimensional, layered structure, which may provide significant insight into the nature of superconductivity.


When he steps out the shower with that itbitty towel around his hips and that lone drop of water runs down his chest, over his abs and disappears into his towel, man my knees get weak.


I'm looking to buy a computer for college, but I'm not sure what the best computer for me is. I'll be doing a lot of school work on it, but I'll also use it for music recording and pictures as well, but I will also be traveling home a lot and I would like to take it with me, so its a catch 22. What would you suggest? My price range is between $1,000-1,200. \n\nAny help is wonderful!

A laptop will take up less space, plus you'll be able to carry it to class if allowed, and it will help with note-taking when you're studying at the library. You'll even be able to use it to record lectures.\n\nA desktop, on the other hand, will give you more computing power for the money, is generally easier (and less expensive) to repair or upgrade, and being less portable, it's also harder to steal. Or lose.


Both the Bible and the Koran mention Abraham and that he was born in Sanliurfa. (Turkey)\nWith such similarities it becomes easier to believe that the events of the Scriptures of the different religions are based on actual events and people.  That they were based on similar occurrences/ people but were then changed by man to better suite the needs of the then ruling religious men in power.  From this point of view could Jesus and Muhammad have been based on the same person, i.e a great philosopher/ prophet/ spiritualy advanced person of that time?

The Koran considers the Old Testament, and some of the New to be holy texts. It considers itself a religion that builds off of Judaism into something new. Jesus and Muhammad were not the same person. There are a few centuries between the establishment of Christianity and Islam.\n\nSo while both are Holy Texts based on the Abrahamic tradition, they aren't mirror images of each other.


i am black and i am so ashamed to say that i cant even shake a lil a.ss to save my life. any tips on learning how to? videos? etc?

I don't know either.  Somebody, answer-I have this on my watch list.


IF your as bored as I am,lol,take the small quiz and post it here. I know,I know,it's not a question,but hey,it beat's a lot of the questions I've read around here,lol.\n\nYou Are a Natural Flirt  \n \nBelieve it or not, you're a really effective flirt.\nAnd you're so good, you hardly notice that you're flirting.\nYour attitude and confidence make you a natural flirt.\nAnd the fact that you don't know it is just that more attractive!\n\nhttp://www.blogthings.com/whatkindofflirtareyouquiz/

Well i figure whatever kind of flirt i am, it is not working. I am still single


A lot of the top schools discriminate if you are indian vs. non indian since there are a lot of indian technology applicants. This is simply unfair. Even if you are indian but dont come from India and do not come from an IT background, you are still classified with the same stereotype. This is an issue since the definition of diversity in the class to these top schools is considered to be race based instead of a mix of upbrining, industry experience and educational background. We must highlight this issue and ensure that the admissions committee realise the flaw in this approach.

so if the program was completely filled with only indians, would you find this discrimination against other races? what if it was only white people, would it make a difference? my best guess at quota systems is that they are designed to prevent racial monopoly. ie all white schools have to let in other racial groups. the whole thing is racism regardless of fairness. no race should create a monopoly in any resource and then block out other races from having equal oppurtunity.  maybe this is not happening in your situation, then im sorry if your being discriminated against


What if you saw Adolf Hitler in Heven because right before he commited suicide he asked for forgivness for all of his sins and according to the bible if you repent your sins you will go to heaven.  So he is there in heaven with you and you have to sit next to each other every day durring bible trivia.

I'd smile and say hello. Not because I agree with the horrible things he did, but because he was human. If he truly repented and was saved, and he truly went to heaven, that is a wonderful thing. It's wonderful if anyone does. And if God is able to forgive him, imagine how loving God must be!


What is your weakness?... Anything under the sun!!

Externally I would say a man with nice eyes and a nice smile (dimples make me melt) does it to me everytime.  I love a man that is fit also.  I like a man with define arms to just hold me tight and make me feel protected.  A nice toned stomach and ass.  I don't need a body builder but a man that cares enough about himself to take good care of his body and essential mine!!!\n\nBut all of that isn't so attractive if a guy isn't intelligent.  You can only pretend you like sports for so long then it gets boring.  ALSO a gentleman is VERY SEXY.  A man that will take care of you.  Sometimes you just want someone to take the lead...


We only see each other maybe once a month and only for a couple of days. Is there a site where I can find someone to just hang out with? I'm a female and it wouldn't matter to me if the person was male or female. In need of an in between companion.

Myspace. Try to find a friend in your area. But don't ever forget that your relationship deserves a fighting chance.


I do high impact aerobics and i walk alot.  I am so much more hungry, it seems that i cant get full.  If i dont eat i get really weak.  I dont eat fast food, or junk but im tired of eating.  I also drink lots of water.  I have to eat because i stand all day long.  What can I do so i dont have that starving feeling?

I am 25 years old and weigh 200 lbs. That may seem insignificant, but i was an offensive lineman When I played football a few years ago and back then I weighed close to 300 lbs. I soon found out that being that heavy made u a social pariah of sorts and set out to lose weight. The method that worked for me (and might work for you) was not a diet at all. It was merely a time-control thing. Every 3 hours you ate. And every 6 hours you ate a meal. You go to sleep at the same time  every night and what happens is that you set a program for your metabolism so that, given time, your body realizes when its time to start digesting the food. Even with my own personal experience I am not an expert on the subject. I suggest that you look up the guy who did '8 minute abs' I got the gist of the idea from him.


Does anyone know what that phrase means? I have an idea but it is kinda vague. Here it is....only by God's hand can someone or something be affected in the harshest way...\n\nEX:someone going from being the richest in the world to the poorest of the poor or someone with very little and the little they have is taken away. \n\n0All i just said just managed to confuse me even more. HELP????!!!!

Just thank God for who you are and what you are.  Don't wish to be someone else or wish to walk in someone else's shoes.  Be careful what you wish for.


He tries refusing to do his work but when he does finally do it (after my pleading with him for awhile) he does a fantastic job!  Are there any other parents out there having a time trying to get their young kids interested in doing homework?

Make it fun for him. I use reward stickers. Each child has a calandar and each time that they complete their homework they get to choose a sticker of their favorite princess for my daughter and bob the builder for my son. They love filling up the calendar with stickers but know that they must earn the stickers. Make it a game and when he is done, reward him. When homework becomes fun, the children become more engaged in learning and will want to do more. I have five children and all are honor roll students.


What are ur top 5 song from tori amos, and why.... u have to impress me!!!... please! dno short answers ...

A sorta fairytale\n\nCaught a light sneeza\n\nWinter\n\nTear in your hand\n\nSilent all these years


..... but when you check the person's post, you can find tons of mistakes too?\nI remember someone posted: "Ive never seen so much  Bad grammer and so many spelling mistakes befour" \n\nIt's like a donkey making fun of a rabbit for having long ears.\nDon't you find that Ironic?

yeas, it tis a dankiy miking fon af o robbet foer hiveing lanng aers. yeas it tis eiranic.


any reballion or other civil disobediences acted between or in August of 2005 and/thru April 2006.

Any of the students illegally walking out to go to marches. With the immigration debate kids walked out in Dallas and San Antonio, TX and all over California. Many of these kids are facing truancy charges.


I had a friend who returned from playing basketball and had white crusty lines on his face, we then had a debate about it.  He told me it was sweat, I said it wasn't.

When sweat dries it leaves behind salts.  That's what was white.


When I click on download it downloads, but the option to install doesn't come up.  It says that when the Flash Player is done installing you will see the Wink in the box on the right.  All I see is a little square with no picture at all??\nI've tried changing my settings, I've tried turning off the pop up blocker??  I've even disabled my Anti-Virus.  Why can't I install it??

Flash payer can be a real pain to install/download...\ndo a search for the complete version or contact support...\nI know they have it hidden on there site..why i dont know...


What's the big deal about cyber sex?  I mean what do these people get out of it?  You're in front of a desk or something, palying with yourself...  I just can't seem to find the part that's sexy about that, maybe it's just me, though.  What do you guys think?

Oh come on now desperate lonely people need loving too and if there hand is all they can get give them a break and let them have at it....at least they aren't out there reproducing.


i am a 4th sem IT student pursueing B.E. in IT at ld college of engineering at ahmedabad and would like to know which are the top 100 companiesin IT in india.


I asked this question, too.  Here are the responses I received.


Does it matter what type of bushings I buy for the fit... im not talking about hardness levels... also do you know of any\ngood online vendors? ! already know about solidskate and longskate and ALSO anyone ever ride the deep carve gullwings what is the real name of them and do you know where I would get them. THANKS!

I ride a Gravity.  Independent trucks are the way to go. I'm sure they have their own website you can checkout.


I'm too cheap to dish out 20 bucks for a CD... so i was wondering if anyone had the recordings of the grade 7 pieces.. and would be so kind as to upload it on yousendit.com or something for me... =)\n\n\ni would seriously lurve you forever.......................

Soliciting theft on the Internet, I love criminals.


not that i have them to give away, i jst wanna c wat u cum up with!!!

..."Because i want to be a part of history where team spirit and sport are the theme vs death, terror, hunger or any other misery"...On the flip side can you elaborate on why you selected this tease of a question in the same 25 words...


How do I get my myspace off of private? all it says is i have to have them as a friend before people can see my site. so how do i make it so that everyone can see it? HELP!!!

Please take a look under 'Account Settings' - 'Privacy Settings'


is that better than waiting outside in the cold and wind. am i right or wrong. the child does want the parents there and he does not ride on a bus.

It depends on the severity of the child's disability. I have spinal muscualr atrophy and was appointed an aide until I was in grade 3 or so. I didn't really NEED one, however the schoolboard felt it necessary to have one around. \n\nPersonally, I think it is good to NOT have the aide or parent around all the time. Let a kid be a kid. Sure being disabled is going to make things different, and kids might approach him/her differently... but all kids are going to find something different about someone. Adults do it too.\n\nBest thing to do, is ask the kid. Does he/she feel ok about being left alone for a while. Does the kid have any friends? Let the friends watch over him. Kids are suprisingly good at caring for others. I know I had lots of little girls who offered to help me get my jacket on and off , put my books in my bag/locker, and that kept me company waiting before school.\n\nDon't shelter the kid, unless it is absolutely necessary and because of some health issue. Alone time and exploration of normal socializing and experiences is necessary for everyone. Disabled or not.\n\nHe/She may grow up stronger for it.


Wrangell - St. Elias National Park and Preserve is the largest in the NPS system at 13.2 million acres (20,625 sq miles). Until Wrangell - St. Elias was added in 1980, Yellowstone, at 2,219,789 acres (3,472 sq mile) was the largest and still is the largest in the lower 48 states.


dont they hire people already in the country....which the govt should have checked before they enter into usa? so is the govt actually at fault?

They are the problem, they should have to pay huge fines and jail time. The people coming here are just looking for a better life. The people that do the hiring should have to do background checks and not hire ILLEGALS.


the languages are: Akawaio, Arawak, Atorada, Berbice Creole Dutch, Carib, Guyanese Creole English, Hindustani, Caribbean, Macushi, Mapidian, Mawayana, Patamona, Pemon, Waiwai, Wapishana and Warao. but the official language is english. go to http://www.ethnologue.com/show_country.asp?name=Guyana\n\nPS Rock On!!!


hello.\n\ni currently have a phpBB hosting website and would like some views from the people of yahoo answers on what they think of the site and if they know of any ways in which it can be improved to make it better.\n\nwww.gadgetforums.net\n\nas much feedback as possible please, and be descriptive please.\n\nthanks :)

You should skin phpBB to match your home page.


I am doing a project for school and am trying to find informaiton on deformities that were caused for women taking it for morning sickness.

You will want to refer to the following sites for your project:\n\nEnovid (CAS# 8015-30-3) Carcinogenic Potency Citations \nhttp://potency.berkeley.edu/chempages/ENOVID.html\n\nMentions Enovid adverse effects\nhttp://www.tylermedicalclinic.com/clinicaluseoforalcontraception.html\n\nYou will also want to go to Pubmed at http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?db=PubMed and put in Enovid as your search term.  It returns 163 results which you can glean through for relevent information to your project. Pay particular attention to the study "Reversible "cancer" and the contraceptive pill. Report of a case," in Obstet Gynecol. 1968 Feb;31(2):190-2.\n\nGood luck with your project.


That is the Oil Companies profit margin!!

Probably about average. 20% of price is from taxes. The main problem is world demand. In Asia, people are not riding water buffalo anymore. Plus we don't have enough refineries (thanks to the tree huggers and hurricanes).


Someone came up with this basic list of words, and if you were able to understand all of them, you were supposed to be "competent" or able in English. But I forgot the name of the guy who created this list.

It was Charles.K.Ogden with his 'Business, Administrative, Scientific, Instructional and Commercial' (BASIC) english word list.\nCheck out the link below ;-)


how do u know when guys are cheating on u?!

You don't unless you cacth them are they tell.*\n\nEyes, Voice, Habits change.


I just want to know is this true.becouse i heard it lots of time......is this scintficaly proved

your dam right it's true they adjust don't like to admit it and act like they have more self control but don't let them fool you they just hide it better than men do.


Kobe is always taken out in the third qtr when the Lakers have a big lead.  I think Kobe could have had so many more 81 point games this season already.  He's definitely MVP in my book.  Fans like scoring more than assists.  Nash is the best at assists (also leads NBA in turnovers).  Kobe is the highest scorer and plays good solid defense.  On a passive Laker line-up someone has to score.

Look.  I'm going to tell you this, and please don't feel like you need to respond, or defend Kobe, since you are obviously a fan.\n\nAnd what I have to say is this.  Kobe Bryant is one of the three most talented players in the league.  However, he is the the most selfish player than has played, since Wilt Chamberlain circa 1961, and that's covering tons of players.\n\nThat 81 point game was the most sickening display in basketball's most recent history.  It was like watching a gangbang, that lasted on guy too many.  Yes......it was that disgusting.  They stood around and he continuously shot the ball...regardless of where he was on the court, and if there was an open man.  \n\nWatch the game again and look at Phil Jackson during this exhibition.  He looked like he wanted to vomit......the entire time.\n\nKobe is not an MVP.  He has MVP talent all the way around, but don't gush all over this guy.  I do like that he is becoming a leader, but he still is not well liked by a lot of people in his locker room.  Unfortunately, he HAS to score....so it's a license to score, similar to Dominique and Jordan of the 80s.....but at least they tried to involve over people i.e. Pippen, Grant, Doc Rivers, Kevin Willis....\n\nWhat will happen is a talent like Chris Bosh comes to LA?  My money says Kobe attempts to eat him alive, and Bosh's career will go down the tubes because if it.  Kobe's middle name should be lymphoma, because he is definitely a cancer on the team.


how do i get yahoo spider to find my website

This is from Yahoo FAQ site on search engine submission:\n\nQuestion: \nI have submitted my website to Yahoo! several times and I have yet to get listed. What am I doing wrong?\n\nAnswer:\n\nChances are, the submissions your doing are fine but there are a few tips you should follow when submitting to Yahoo. In no particular order, here they are:\n\n    * Pick only the most appropriate category. If you believe your site should be listed in more than one category, only submit your website once and indicate on the form while submitting what the other categories are. Try to limit yourself to only one additional category.\n    * Yahoo wants to offer unique sites. If your site has nothing new or different from the other sites already in Yahoo, chances are you won't get listed.\n    * People list Yahoo. Yahoo is not like other search engines, an actual person will visit your site and determine if your pages are worth adding to Yahoo. Make sure that what you have to offer will appeal to Yahoo's users.\n    * Get popular. If your a popular site (ie: lots of other sites link to you), then your site will become more noticed and all the major search engines (including Yahoo will begin indexing you).\n    * Avoid sending multiple submissions, submit once and wait at least 2 months before trying again. Swarming Yahoo with submissions will only get you blacklisted.\n    * Get regional. Try submitting your website to a section of Yahoo under your local state/province or city. Chances are, the editors in these smaller sections of Yahoo are looking for community involvement and will list you.\n\nOn a final note, getting listed in Yahoo! can sometimes take up to 8 weeks. Yahoo! is by far one of the top search engines and as such takes a very long time to get listed so above all, have


The metric prefixes would dictate that it's 1000 MB in a GB, but computer bytes are usually tracked in powers of two, so it's actually 1024 MB in a GB.


In light of the new information contained in the gospel of Judas. Christ knew if his revolution was to succeed someone needed to challenge the power of the priests in Jerulslem and make a stand for self determination that is within us all. Most of the apostles told Christ to leave and live a life on the run to preserve the knowledge he taught.\n\nWhy did Judas do as Christ wanted and the other apostles waver at his request to turn him in to the authorities? \n\nCould it have been Judas and Mary Magnalin were given secret knowledge the others were not privy to because of their strong faith and knowledge. \n\nDid the other apostles have remorse that they did not join Christ, Mary Magnalin, and Judas in the desert for 40 days to learn the lessons of succession Christ had to give them the truly faithful?\n \nOr could it have been the apostles that were left out, were vindictive of the knowledge Christ gave them because they had faith that the other apostles did not have?

I don't believe this so called "Gospel of Judas". I don't doubt that it exists, or that it was written when it was supposedly written, but I do believe the writer skewed the text to reflect his/her thoughts and that it is not an accurate account of the facts. Yes, Judas betrayed Jesus and yes it was a part of the grand design that God had planned for the salvation of man. I don't think Judas necessarily betrayed Jesus because Jesus told him to though, I think Judas didn't realize at the time of the betrayal that it would end in the crucifixion of his Lord. That's why Judas tried to get the Pharisees to take back the 30 pieces of silver and why he ultimately committed suicide. This is simply another example of how satan tries to confuse the truth and turn people away from God.


I recieved a large sum this past March, but do I have to wait until 2006 tax season comes around?

You will have to wait until next year to file that income since it was recieved in 2006.  What you can do is pay estimated taxes on the amount you just recieved if you haven't already been taxed on it.


if Hillary Clinton ran for the presidency who many of you would vote for her ??????

I would vote for her; she is very smart. I think she could run this country better than a man. LoL!!


My one of my friends is 13yrs, wears a size 6 and a half to a size seven and a half in womens shoes, and is 5 foot 2 inches. She wants to know if shes going to get taller are be short? What do you think?

Wow... Your friend sounds a lot like me.  I'm a 6-7 shoe size wearer and I'm 5'2.   Personally, I don't think I'm going to grow because right now I'm taller than my mom.  You can tell your friend that, but tell her that she should look at her family and whether they are tall or not.  If they aren't tall, she doesn't have a very big chance.


Particularly in the educational setting, should Interpreters be considered professionals? If not, why?

Professionals!  Most places require a degree and certification.  Interpreters have a huge responsibility to their clients and can be held responsible for information interpreted wrongly or information that is left out.  Educational Interpreters should also be certified but many schools will hire uncertified interpreters.  This is detrimental to both the student and the educator.


ok, does anybody have any ideas?\nIf you drop a raw egg 3 meters and you need to make some type of catching device and to make the catching device you can only use 50 straws and 2 meters of masking tape, how would you make the catching device?

Last time I did this, we made a basket kind of thing an place the egg inside it. Remaing straws we pulled it to make it long n tied it to the egg(in the basket). Instead of throwing the egg, we slowly release the straws (straws act like a rope) so the egg reached ground safely. just make a simple catching platform in your case. Concetrate your resource for the rope and basket. \n\nThis exercise want us to think outside the box.Hope this help.


Besides finding an exercise I love to do. I love particular exercises and still wind up slacking off.

Put a picture of a really good looking women in a two-piece up on the mirror, so every time you see you think, "man I'm going to workout today!"!!!!


My girlfriend was divorced not too long ago.  She got a bad deal.  Lost the house, kids, etc.  She had representation through legal aid.  Since the divorce is over, she doesn't have someone she ask for advice or help with enforcing things like payments and such.  She also would like to try to get custody of two of her children in the near future.  I want to help her as much as I can financially but can't afford a high priced lawyer as well.  We've tried some web sites that recommend some lawyers but have not found any that are low priced or take on cases pro bono.  I know it's out there but don't know where to look.  If you know of someone that knows someone who can help, we'd appreciate it.  Thank you.

I did a yahoo search.  Below is a link of a site that lists many pro bono lawyers in Austin.


do you lie to people you love cuz i dont

People lie all the time,hell, the president lies .Its just a bump in the road that you two have to work out . just hang in there


Just wondering if there were any other guys around who are involved with a married woman.\nWould love to hear/share/and talk about experiences, both good and bad.\nI'm on IM as daves_1348

when I was in college I was, I can't access IM right now due to my location, but I will tell you this. I sped up her divorce, which was good for him and her. I was her Rock, because her family didn't like what she was doing and basically shut her out. After the Divorce her family started to accept her again and at the point I became "to annoying to be with" and now she is living in AZ somewhere with her dream man from HighSchool. So in a sense I ended a bad relationship, Got really really heart broken (which I learned alot about myself) and now 2 other people are happier because of what I did


I can't stop laughing at the thought of Bush being smart!!!!  The man can't even give a prewritten speech correctly!!!\n\nHowever I will continue to pray for him because he is the leader of this country.


command to display the name of the services installed date

If your question is about checking what has been\ninstalled, you may be looking for:\n\n    pkginfo\n\nIf your question is about what "services" are available\n(in the sense of "network services", take a look at:\n\n    /etc/services


I have a great idea for a invention,or to improve a invention . I need help on how to get the plan in motion before someone eles comes up with it. I'm tried of working three jobs just to get by. Please help me get things in motion to make this happen. If you help me I sure want forget who you are and will email you as soon as you answer my question,or you can email from my profile page.Please me serious,I don't have time for the jokes.I just want to make money and take care of my three kids,so me and my husband can stop work 7 days a week at least,and have more time with our children. If you have any information regarding how I can make this happen,and its information that will really help me email me so that i can give you a call. I'm not a physco,and I'm not a purv. I just trying to geyt some of that money out there to give my children and their father the life that they needed.

You may start by reading how to go about this process so you won't be blindsided by scammers, ripped off by other companies or your idea stolen from you:\n\n5 Actions You Must Take to Assure a Successful Invention http://www.powerhomebiz.com/122005/invention.htm\nHow to Make Money from Your Inventions  http://www.powerhomebiz.com/vol121/inventor.htm\nHow To Protect Your Idea http://www.powerhomebiz.com/vol81/protectidea.htm \nHow to Get Your Consumer Invention to Market\n http://www.powerhomebiz.com/012006/invention.htm\n\n\nHere are books I recommend:\n\n- Protecting Your #1 Asset : Creating Fortunes from Your Ideas : An Intellectual Property Handbook \n- Patents and How to Get One : A Practical Handbook \n- Patent It Yourself \n- Protecting Your Ideas : The Inventor's Guide to Patents


how do i get rid of the thumnails (pictures) on folders that contain pictures, videos or music

Click on "View" on your main menu panel and then choose your preference. You can choose from thumbnails, filmstrip, filenames, etc.


I am in a Chapter 13 bankruptcy plan and know I need to start re-establishing my credit.  Should I do this by applying for gas cards, store credit, major credit?

Re-Establishing Credit\nFiling for bankruptcy will negatively affect your credit history. You may find it difficult to get a new credit card. However, you might be able to obtain a secured credit card when your bankruptcy is final. Even people with damaged credit may be able to obtain a secured credit card by depositing money in a savings account. Your line of credit on a secured card usually is the same as the amount of money you deposit.\n\nIn recent years, some credit card companies have started to offer new credit cards to people who recently filed for bankruptcy because they know that people who have filed for bankruptcy cannot file again for several years. These offers are likely to be for credit cards with very poor terms, such as high interest rates and penalty fees. Be very careful about responding to such offers.


My son is 7 and getting ready to enter a residential treatment facility for a year or so. He has Rapid Cycling Bipolar and he is very out of control. He sets fires, bites me, spits on me and screams at me all of the time. I know he has to go to the facility to get help, but I am feeling so much guilt that I can not help my own child. How do I stop crying about this?

My mother was bipolar and had to take Lithium all of her life.  This was something that she was born with and finally when she was in her early thirties she was diagnosed and received treatment.  She suffered a lot in her life, but once she got medication and therapy to understand her mental illness, she was more able to cope and be happier in her life.  It was 1972 when she started Lithium.  Today doctors know so much more about this illnes which stems from having a chemical inbalance.  I think it is a good thing that your son has been diagnosed now instead of years form now.  He will be in treatment and he will be helped.  Early intervention is on his side.  Be thankful that he is getting help now and hopefully will be avoiding years of unbearable pain.  Before my mother was diagnosed she tried multiple ties to commit suicide.  I am hopeful that your son won't go through that because he is getting help now!  He will learn with the help of therapy and faithfully taking his medications how to cope with this.  As far as you feeling guilty, this is a normal reaction considering he is your son, your flesh and blood.  But, the truth of the matter is that you are not to blame.  He was born with this.  It has to do with the makeup of the brain. You are being supportive and doing the right thing to let the professionals take over at this point.  Remember, you got him the help that he needs.  You love him and you'll be there for him.  I hope this helps you.  Hang in there, you sound like a good mom!


the seconds, the minutes, the hours, the days, the weeks,the months, the years are still passing so is generations and one day you are to dye like everyone will and still the said there will be an end to this world one day. when, where, how????????????????????????

:0\nYes\nIt had a beginning\nAll three major monotheistic relegions record it to have occurred less than 10,,000 yrs ago.\n\nScience agrees it had a beginning but would say it was much longer ago.\n\nIt will have an ending   All three major monotheistic relegions predict similar soon to come end-time events including total destruction by fire.\n\nScience agrees but predicts a more distant time of occurrence.\n\nReligions feel that science has made the error of measuring time in a straight line, rather than allowing for the curves which the Theory of Relativity would predict could and probably would occur on both ends, thus accelerating time.\n\nRegardless of which you believe the answer to your question is YES. The end is coming.\nAnd your own personal end is coming. Regardless of whether or not your personal end coincides with the ultimate end, It behooves you to conduct your life as if all is finished in a fairly short period. Just make sure you are ready and it will not matter when it all ends.


I have found cheap(er) cigarettes online (I live in NYC). Is it legal to purchase from these sites? It would let me, but I have been afraid to press "Send" on the order!

It is not illegal to buy cigarettes online from a diffeent state.  It IS illegal to fail to pay New York State and City cigarette sales tax on those cigarettes.  You should buy the cigarettes online, compute the tax on the cigarettes and mail it to the city and state.  Otherwise, you are breaking the law.\n\nBut, of course, what you should really do is what New York City wanted you to do when they raised the tax in the first place - quit smoking.  One half of all people who smoke will die from it.


I asked this question, not to disparage them but due to these facts:\n1. Some of the great inventors were deeply religious--like Newton, etc.\n\n2. The greatest lawyers--like Black--were deeply religious people.\n\n3. The Atheists could come up only with Darwin and Marx? What did these guys accomplish?

A question sprung up in your head and you decided to post it on here, that's great, but before you decide to act like you know what you're talking about, you should do some thorough research. For example, in your additional comments, you mention that only humans are capable to love and to be loved.\n\nLet me answer by this: Did you know that there's one species of eagles, called mountain eagle if I remember correctly, that chooses a partner for life?\n\nNow go look on the net for more species that have the same characteristic and who knows, you might stumble across the answers to what you posed.\n\nGood luck & good reading!\n\nP.S.  You should adopt an ostrich as a pet...


if you are an alian add yer name to the i am an alian list !

No, I'm Not. but, here's an interesting theory as to their Guidance System to Find Earth; The Pyramids of the Eastern [Egypt] Hemisphere, and of the Western [Mexico , Central America] Hemisphere are Aligned in Such a Way, and Constructed of the Proper Materials that the Energy of the Earth's Magnetic Poles are Naturally Focused Upon the Pyramid Structures. The Claim is that the Earth Resonates at an Inaudible Frequency of 8 Hz. That, combined with the Polar Magnetic Energy Focused onto all of the Earth's Pyramids Generates a Beam of Energy which can be Detected Far Out into Space, well Beyond Our Solar System. NASA Supposedly has Proof of this from Voyager I and II , which are both beyond our Solar System. Supposedly there is also Proof that if the Pyramids had been only a Few Miles Apart from where they were Built, and not Made of the Same Materials of which they were Built, they would not be able to Emit an Energy Field that can be Detected, Perhaps Light Years beyond Earth! If that's all a Coincidence, along with the Prehistoric Drawings of Space Vehicles found on the Walls of Caves in France, then so be it. Also, Read the Bible, "Ezekiel saw the Wheel, way in the middle of the Air"


I'm not looking for the best or the most expensive clubs.  Just a good set that will last for a few years and help me improve my game.

Make sure you get to hit them first \nYou should go to demo days and club fitting. You can find demo days by going to vendor web sites. You can sign up for free fitting with local golf pro at www.playgolfamerica.com \nGood luck


I admit i dont eat healthy everyday....H*ll i jus ate Mcdonalds.I want to have a better intake, and consume what is necessary for my body.I think I am gonna just take fiber,vitamins ect.Is this suggested.Whats the best types on on the shelves.Will green tea caplets be a positive step in this process, and also help me loose some weight for the summer???What should I do!!!!!

Regardless of what supplement you choose, make sure the supplement is "Chelated". This means that it is tagged with an amino acid so that your body can actually recognize it, and absorb and use it. Most once a day type vitamin supplements that you can purchase off the shelf at any retail store are not chelated. If you are using a supplement that is not chelated, then you are putting it in one end, and flushing it when it comes out the other! That equates to nothing more than a waste of time and money. I personally have a complete wellness system that I use, and all of my family members use. It has truly impacted my overall health and well-being. Write me for more information!\n\nTina Hodges\nVisalusLHP@yahoo.com


A firend asked me the following question.  Lend an opinion if you can.\n\nHey M I need some advice, i'm at a fork in the road with my education and I know you can probably relate, I think I want to change my major from business to Economics. If I keep with Business I have 2 more years and if I change I can knock out a degree in a semester or two. I don't know what to do!

Well basically your friend can change it if she wants to. Since business does relate with Economics, it would be easy to do. How long has she been in college? If she wants to get out really bad then she should change it, but only if she really thinks that she will be happy with it. I mean it is her future and there are many paths to take.


Need a chemical name and chemical formula.

Alkaline earth elements are the elements of the 2nd group in the periodic table. The hydroxides formed by Calcium(Ca),Magnesium(Mg),Beryllium(Be),Strontium(Sr),Barium(Ba  \n\nSo the chemical formula for alkaline earth hydroxides can be:\nCa(OH)2-Calcium hydroxide\nMg(OH)2-Magnesium hydroxide\nBe(OH)2-Berellium hydroxide(unstable)


I'm trin' to start an book store with my own money, I know some books that I can buy wholesale but I need more is there any way y'all well know how to help me. I startin with my own money and I don't need any more loans.

I suggest you start by reading more about how to start a bookstore business:\n\n- How To Start & Manage A Bookstore Business: A Practical Way To Start Your Own Business by Jerre G. Lewis, Leslie D. Renn\n- FabJob Guide to Become a Bookstore Owner -- by Grace Jasmine\n\nStarting a small business takes a lot of courage. But, as they say, courage does not pay the bills. To be successful – to stay in business – you need more than courage. You need a combination of hard work, skill, perseverance, and lots of luck. \n\nSome things you need to consider:\n- "How can I support my family while I build up by business?" \n- "What are my abilities?" \n- "Is there a market for the product or service I have chosen?" \n- "How long will it take this business to reach the financial goal I have?" \n\nYou may want to read the article "How to Start a New Business Successfully" http://www.powerhomebiz.com/vol51/launch.htm , which lists six steps to launch a new business successfully:\n\n1. Provide a benefit.\n2. Determine the fit with your market.\n3. Right timing is everything\n4. Be ready to support your business\n5. Develop a blueprint for success\n6. Market, market, market\n\nI recommend that you read the following books:\n\n- What No One Ever Tells You About Starting Your Own Business : Real Life Start-Up Advice from 101 Successful Entrepreneurs \n- Starting From Scratch: How To Start A Business When You Don't Have Money \n- If You're Clueless About Starting Your Own Business and Want to Know More \n- On the Move : How to Succeed and Survive As an Entrepreneur \n- How to Make 1000 Mistakes in Business and Still Succeed


This could be about anything from sports to relationships.However it pertains to you. Wish people wouldn't play favourites and be impartial until they know all the facts. \n\nOpen to interpretation.

BIAS STEMS FROM A LACK OF EDUCATION AND AN UNDERSTANDING OF OTHER FAITHS AND CULTURES! ALSO PEOPLE FORGET THAT OPINION IS NOT FACT AND EXPECTING EVERYONE TO LIVE BY ONE NARROW MINDED VIEW IS WHAT STOPS PROGRESS! \n\nWE LIVE IN A SOCIETY OF MULTI CULTURES, SHOULD WE NOT, AS A SOCIETY, BE MORE ACCEPTING OF OUR NEIGHBOUR? WE SHOULD BE EMBRACING DIFFERENCES INTEAD OF FEARING THEM!\n\nEVERY LIVING BEING HAS THE SAME INSIDE SO WHY DO WE CONCERN OURSELVES WITH THE OUTER IMAGE! I MEAN WOULD YOU BUY A MAGAZINE AND JUST STARE AT THE COVER?   NO!! YOU OPEN THE PAGES AND DELVE INTO THE INTERESTING CONTENTS!\n\nWE SHOULD ALL BE LOOKING DEEPER THAN THE OUTER LAYER AND ENJOYING WHAT IS IN THE MINDS AND HEARTS OF OUR FELLOW MAN!


So many people seem to doubt them. Just wanted to hear some mlb fans thoughts.


I am looking for satellite feeds for our PEG station. Can someone help us to look for free satellite feeds?

Try writing to other PEG channels and see what they're using for feeds. They'd probably be glad to help you out. You might find some addresses and/or websites here:\n\nhttp://www.bevcam.org/peg/index.html\n\nType "free satellite feeds" into any search engine, and see if anything comes up that you can use.\n\nThe Pentagon is (or was) offering free feeds, and the Special Olympics has them, too. That's two among many.


I'm engage and my finaice dating this girl name erin seven years ago. He hasn't talk to her and now he is. When they were dating he was smoking weed and try to kill himself. After he broke up with erin he wrote a book about her. I ask him if he would write a book about me but he said the last person he would write a book about would be him. I'm afraid that he going to stop loving me or something going to go wrong on purpose and he going to drop me like nothing ever happen and go straight to her. I couldn't sleep cause I was crying my eyes out. Should I be worried that he wrote a book about erin or I'm I making a big deal out of something. I know I need to tell my finance how I feel but it was very hurtful cause I wanted him to write a book cause we are starting to get married and have kids

I WAS IN A SIMILIER SITUATION, BUT NOT ENGAGED. I WAS DATING A GUY FOR AWHILE WHEN HIS EX WHO HE HAD DATED FOR 3 YEARS STARED CALLING HIM AND TEXTING HIM ALL OF THE TIME. WHEN THEY HAD BROKEN UP HE WAS SOOO... HURT HE STARTED SMOKING WEED AND BASICALLY COULD HAVE CARED LESS ABOUT HIS LIFE.(THIS WAS ABOUT TWO YEARS BEFORE I HAD MET HIM THAT THEY BROKE UP)SHE WAS A THREAT TO ME BECAUSE I KNEW HOW MUCH HE LOVED HER, EVEN THOUGH HE WAS MADLY IN LOVE WITH ME I STILL FELT JEALOUS AND BETRAYED BY HIM TALKING TO HER.\nWHAT I DID WAS I SAT HIM DOWN AND SAID "LOOK, I LOVE YOU AND I KNOW YOU LOVE ME ...BUT, I DON'T LIKE THE FACT THAT"SHE" HAS BEEN IN CONTACT WITH YOU AFTER ALL OF THIS TIME AND NOW YOU ARE WITH ME AND STARTED YOUR LIFE OVER, YOUR PAST IS YOUR PAST AND IF YOU WANT TO GO BACK TO THAT, I AM NOT GOING TO BE HERE TO LIVE IN THE PRESENT WITH YOU."\nWE TALKED ABOUT IT AND HE UNDERSTOOD MY FEELINGS AND JUST STOPPED RETURNING HER CALLS AND TEXTS. WE ARE NOW MARRIED AND VERY HAPPY, BUT I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I WAS IN THE SAME PLACE YOU WERE, UNTIL I OPENED UP TO HIM AND TOLD HIM HOW I FELT..AND IT ALL STOPPED. YOU ARE MORE IMPORTANT TO HIM THAN HER IN THIS STAGE OF HIS LIFE...KNOW MATTER WHAT..SO IF I WERE YOU I WOULD EXCEPT THE BOOK THING AND JUST CONSENTRATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND LOOK FORWARD TO STARTING YOUR LIFE TOGETHER..AND TALK TO HIM IT WILL HELP YOU AND THE STRESS YOU ARE UNDER. I'M SURE DOWN THE ROAD, WHEN THE TWO OF YOU ARE MARRIED WITH CHILDREN HE WILL WRITE YOU A BOOK ON THE WONDERFUL WIFE AND MOTHER YOU HAVE BECOME.\nSO...JUST LOOK FORWARD AND BE HAPPY! GOOD LUCK!!


I trust my boy friend completly and he feels the same way...he's told me...we have talked about it and talked about usin a comdom we're both 14 and we have been together 4 1 year and 4 months should i have sex wid him?

what about after having sex?\ndid you ask that?\nwill he tell to all his friends what he have done to you at bed?\ngirls don't ask herself those trivial questions?\n\nwill he leave you after that?


She is claimed on my return. I can find where she can deduct only $250.oo, and it does not seem right she should have to pay so much on only $2000.

YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO DEDUCT SOME OF YOUR TUITION AND SUPPLIES.  YOUR SCHOOL SHOULD HAVE SENT YOU A FORM FOR TAXES!


am i missing something i just tried to reply to a message but it wouldnt let me because it said i exceeded my daily allowance what is that about

It means you have answered as many questions as you're allowed for the day. As you move up point levels, you're allowed to answer more questions.\n\nTake a look at this link; it explains it all in detail.


Let's say that a wall or fence will not be the solution. What else can the U.S.?

What can the USA do? I believe there are lots of things to be done. \n\nI believe there should be a negotiation betwen Mexico and the USA, to get the immigration rules rebuild. There is a need to create some new mechanism, so the companies owners can get the labor they need, and the immigrants can get the work they are looking for in a legal way.\n\nI believe our goverment should start working togheter to make that a more secure border, besides of making better rules to our economical relations.\n \nI'm sure Mexico has lots of work to do in that matter, as well. We need to create enougth jobs to compete with the job market, so our conationals can comeback and stay in Mexico, that's why we need to vote very carefully in this elections.


What is the meaning of "start date:asap"\nwhat "asap" does covers?

Start date-\n\nWhen will this begin to take effect or\nWhen will you start the job\n\nASAP - As soon as posible\n\nIn contracts, a start date is normally required. ASAP is a popular answer to this this question. In simple language it means right now or as soon as you can gather your things together.\n\nTime is of the essence. Don't delay any longer than absolutely neccessary to begin.


I came to know that US milatary caught a person or forign body who Wo'nt eat or drink even water,but need more and pure oxigen than us, after a blast in unidentified forign bodies -ie flying saucers .They identified that the body strecture of them is entirely different if we compare with human beings.No male or Female sex in them.But it is clearly showing they are intiligents than us because they invend earth before we identify their home.This investigation will give US golden opertunity to gain some more devolopment or intiligence in knowing about UFO's and getting their techonolagy which may lead the world for some more years.

Think about it, kiddo. Do you know how far we are from the nearest star? It would take generations of alien pilots on an uncertain journey to reach Earth. \n\nInterstellar flight is impractical, especially since they would have no way of knowing we would even be here.\n\nWhat you "came to know" was just another conspiracy theory pumped out by UFOLOGISTS or, as they are more commonly known, morons. \n\nUnless you see physical evidence of something so implausible, then you're just wasting your life on this stuff.


im not sure..man have mammary glands but it undevelopment.


im planning to buy a Deore LX r.d.,to upgrade my acera r.d., would a long cage rd be good enough for trail riding?

The cage length affects capacity. Capacity is defined as the difference between the number of teeth on the largest and smallest cogs, added to the difference between the number of teeth on the big chainring and the small chainring. Long cage rear derailleurs have a high capacity, and can therefore handle a very wide range drivetrain. Short cage rear derailleurs are more limited in their capacity, working best on a drivetrain with closer gearing.\n\nShorter cage rear derailleurs take up less chain slack than a long cage rear derailleur. The chain is held more snugly, which can result in smoother, more precise shifting. However, longer cage rear derailleurs are capable of taking up more chain slack than a short cage rear derailleur, allowing you to run a wider range drivetrain than would be possible with a short cage rear derailleur.\n\nFor road bikes, your choice is fairly straightforward. If you plan to use a double crankset, stick to a short cage unit. For triple cranksets, you'll want to use a longer cage rear derailleur to handle the increased chain wrap necessitated by the wider range drivetrain.\n\nOn a mountain bike, your choice is slightly more difficult. Less experienced riders, or riders who ride frequently in steep terrain should probably stick to a long cage rear derailleur. This, combined with proper chain length, will allow the bike to be safely shifted into every gear on the bike. Racers might appreciate the lighter weight and slight shifting improvement a short cage rear derailleur offers. However, these benefits come with a tradeoff - because of the decreased capacity a short or medium cage rear derailleur offers, it may not be possible to safely use the small chainring in tandem with the smallest cogs. (The derailleur simply can't take up enough slack in the chain)\n\nFor mountain bikes, when in doubt, choose a long cage rear derailleur, unless you are certain you understand the limitations of a short/medium cage derailleur.


Hey! I'm a dancer and I have lots of male friends who are in Ballet. And of course they have to wear tights...\nThey've gotten used to it so it doesn't phase them.\nBut what do non-dancers think when they see a man in tights??\nDo you see it as a work uniform, or are you just simply grossed out?

I went to a ballet a couple months ago, and i wasnt GROSSED out.. but i was surpised-- they're quite tight :O\nbut.. they were awesome dancers, and it IS part of a typical ballet costume, so i didnt really think it was that weird...\nlol... and they have quite muscular legs!


Ive been reading many of the questions and answers and i was wondering how many of yall were Christians, atheists, agnostic etc.


ten points if you can figure this out first .. right?? \n\n\nANU!!


its time for a person who knows how to treat the working people of america.a chance to get to the real reason why fuel prices are so high.bring em back down.get our troops out of iraq.care for the elderly.more jobs.with higher pay.a government that would come up with a low cost auto insurance.that people can afford.i have many ideas.and cant say them all on yahoo .but im serious.i want to be the next president of the us.i need a running mate.anybody.want to talk about.this.thank you for your support.

Before we can throw support in your direction, we really need to know where you stand on issues, and even more than that, your proposed plan for bringing about these changes.  I really like your spunk and the idea of `a man of the people' being on the ticket.....but, and I hate to throw water on your fire, there are some hurdles here:\n1) A Lone Ranger president is going to have an near impossible time of building a constituency among the congress, remember, you are going into the arena of politicians, so you have to play their game....to a certain extent.\n2) I do not believe one man (President) can truly be expected to handle the Executive Position....so I would want to know as much about the people you plan on running your Cabinet as I do you.  \nThese are my first questions for you, however, as I said, I like your moxie, come up with a plan and let's see what we can do.


Do you prefer to wear underwear/panties or go au naturale'?

I like the boys to stay exactly where I left them.  I don't wanna be sitting on them by accident should they go flopping about while I'm not paying attention.  Thus I wear my tightie whities.\n\nI am kinda wondering why this question is in Zoology though.


It would be very much appreciated. Even if its just the tiniest of tips. all tips are welcome.\nThanks soooooo much! Have a wonderful evening and day! \nHuggles and Kisses,\nMariah

Smile all day long. People will wonder what you got they don't, why you're happy when they're just pushin through.


Can we see atoms or molecules and other subatomic particles using latest technology microscopes... If yes please tell the name of device used

I think the other answerers have a few misconceptions.\n\nThe problem with your question is the use of the word "seen."\nSo I will answer your question in two parts.\n\n1) The best visible wavelength (optical) microscopes cannot see atoms. The best they can probably do, is see some of the fine detail of biological cells, nothing more.\n\n2) Using the term loosely, electron microscopes or atomic force microscopes can "see" atoms, and even electron clouds, but one should not take the word "see" too literally.\n\nAn atomic force microscope works by moving a very fine tip  over a sample. Without going into the specifics of it, a computer can build up a model of the shape and dimensions of atoms in the sample by measuring the forces that the atoms exert on the tip.\n\nSo I will state the answer to your question as this:\n\nWe CAN OBSERVE computer images of atoms; by this i mean that we can view computer images of atoms - but these are more like graphs of interatomic forces than actually viewing atoms.\nThe highest precision that can currently be achieved is viewing the electron clouds of various atoms. We cannot directly observe anything smaller than this.\n\nSo, you might ask, how do we know about the existence of particles like electrons, protons, neutrons, or even quarks?\nWell, that's because their existences can be inferred from various experiments.\n\nE.G. Rutherford's Alpha Scattering experiment showed that atoms consist of mostly empty space (in support of our massive nucleus and electron clouds model)\n\nAnd particle physicists can use devices a bit like cloud chambers to "observe" fundamental particles like quarks by accelerating e.g. protons high speeds and then making them crash into each other. This liberates particles smaller than protons, giving evidence for the existence of quarks.\n\nHowever, these particles are "observed" by the effect that they have on the surrounding medium, not by direct observation.\n\n\nSo to sum up, the atomic force microscope is the best microscope for "viewing" atoms, but don't take this literally. It's resolution allows us to examine the electron clouds of individual atoms.\n\n\nAlso note that "Electron clouds" is also not to be taken too literally, as anyone who knows anything about quantum mechanics will tell you.


I have had feelings lately that my husband is ready to leave.  We have talked about things and nothing seems to change.  He doesn't show affection and sex has stopped.  Am I soon to be single?

Maybe he has erectile dysfunction and doesn't feel like he can talk to you about it.  Maybe it is a similar issue, why do Women always jump the gun, unless you want it to be over and in that case why would you ask us (Yahoo people).  If you are ready to move then don't try and find every little 'bad' thing about your man, just do it.


hoow did slaves set traps while escaping slavery

Their minds were focused on one goal:  freedom.\n\nWhen you set your mind on something, you achieve it.\n\nUnfortunately the owners took slaves for granted.  As a result, they were not prepared for traps.


I have known my neighbor for all my life and he always walks around his house naked.  At night when its dark I can totally see everything that he does because the windows are always open.  Recently, I saw someone that goes to my school at his house and I wanted to know if I should do anything or say anything to anyone?

My question to you is why are you looking into his windows? Also, if it is dark, how do you "see everything"? Do you have infra-red goggles? If the person at the mans' house is a juvenile, you should contact the authorities. Then stop looking into the mans house at night.


i know this question is gay but it happens everyday. i mean ive been hit with a bar by a guy and i have a lot of friends that have been raped.

Not all women are innocent. Tired of people phrasing a question about rape and abuse like it's every mans fault. It's like that one bad apple makes it bad for everyone. Get a real life and ask at least half way decent questions.


i want to be a child psychiatrist when i get outta high school...and i'm tryin to find the right college to go to.


I know it sounds rough, but this is reality people.  I need to know if I'm taking too many craps.

2.  But it depends on your body, if you take approximately the same amount everyday it is normal for you.


i have been with my husband for 3 years but been married to him for almost a year. and we have a little girl that is 3 months old. she has been stay with my grandmother for last past 2 months and my husband is getting upset with me because i won't go get her because where we live isn't the best place for her. should i go get her and bring her back or let her stay where is safe? we have been fighting over this for the longest time. and my grandmother said that she is going to take me to court to get rights for her and the doctor said that we weren't feeding her and all the stuff and i'm so scared that they will take her away from me. and i don't want my family mad at me and i don't want my husband mad at me. what should i do

What your Gma wants and what your hubby wants is not relevant right?\n\nAs Mothers, we are expected to do what is RIGHT for our children - at all times.  If Hubby is mad, then he can do something about it, by finding a new place/safe place to live and provide some decent food etc..\n\nGma, she needs to be seriously thanked for what she's done.  She probably DOES have some grounds for taking custody, because it cam be perceived that you abandoned her.\n\nEither way dear, someone is gonna get ticked off right?  So WHO is the priority?  Your Gma, Hubby or your child?  For me it would be my child hands down.  I would not let myself be separated from my child at ANY cost unless absoultely necessary.  \n\nNot having a safe place to live, proper food are good reasons, but see..... I'd be out the door WITH my daughter and saying hubby, when WE can work out a safer place for our daughter, we can reconnect.. until then, I'm gonna stay wih Gma (or any other relative that would help you).\n\nYou need to 'define' how you can get yourself out of this mess WITH the best interests of your child at heart!  That has to be # 1 for you.  And sometimes those choices are hard, but NECESSARY as I that you are missing VALUABLE bonding time with your child, and these first few months re very important!  There becomes an attachment disorder of sorts, when the mother isn't around.... please be careful of that.  \n\nI wish you all the best, and your family too.  No mater how it works out!  God Bless the baby, she is the true innocent here, as she cannot speak/defend or noursih herself.. much less 'speak to where she'd like to live"


he bowls properly.The point to note when spotting a chuck er is that his arm must be straight at the point of delivery.when i say straight i mean the wrist , elbow and shoulder must be in a straight line drawn above the shoulder.if u see malingas action u see that he maintains a straight line.Yes his action is a bit freaky ,but such bowlers have always existed in cricket(Paul Adams Of SA).


Almond milk? Raw goat or cow's milk? Natural made formula? Something else? 4 month old baby.

Mother's Milk is the best.  Of course.  As for other formulas you really have to just give them a trial.. If your child has sensitivities you are best staying away from Goat or Cow's milk.  You can try Soy formula, you must make sure it is OK for the age of your child.  Really trial and error.  But keep in mind the sensitivity part.  Always watch for reactions if any.  good Luck


Just wondering what's common for what age-range.\nI'm 27 and want some more band-mates (drummer and bassist to be precise).

I'm going to be (gasp! choke!) 33 at the end of May. I have a lot of UNREALISTIC desires that I still kind of pine away for in my head, but as far as 'realistic' ones go- I'd have to say that I'd really just like to get to a point where I can be at peace with my past & with who I am. \nI'd like to believe that all of the other inconsequential stuff would kind of fall into it's proper place if I could get myself in check, you know?


Yeah...I'm also talking about the wildest desires in your heart.Please tell me if you're male or female!!!!!!

Repression and expression are normal. Repression of one's deepest desires is called a fantasy. Fantasies and dreams are an integral part of coping with day to day mundane occurrences. Expression of those desires is an award of sorts, and can become addictive. The more expressed one becomes, the more often they express the wrong things at the wrong time and then have to cope with trying to repress those urges again. Otherwise, absolute expression of the self will eventually put everyone in a situation where someone else is going to repress them anyways.


I'm in the middle of course selection-\nI'm going to take AP English Language and AP US History and am choosing which honors to take.\nDoes anyone know if colleges will look more favorably upon Honors Biology or Honors Spanish 4?  I'm more interested in taking Honors Spanish but am worried it will seem like I'm taking the easy way out.  \nThanks!

Honors Bio is extremely hard and with two other college level courses on your plate, it would not seem like your taking the easy way out if you opt for Honors Spanish 4.\n\nHope that helps and good luck on your classes.


when i study or think about anything i start playing with my hair and pull it ,i have a long smooth hair and i feel im destroying it ,i have to stop this habbit ,but i cant conrtol my self,i tried to tie my hand ,it didnt work ? please anyone know about this situation?and what to do?

This is a genuine medical condition known as trichotillomania. Trichotillomania is an Impulse Control Disorder characterized by the repeated pulling out of one's own hair or eyelashes and eyebrows. It can be treated and there are a number of on line help/support groups. See your family doctor for referral to a psychologist if you don't have any luck with a web search - it sounds like you have tried your best on your own and to avoid permanent hair loss it would be useful to seek professional help.


I want to ask what contact lenses company has really the most comfortable and healthy lenses with a reasonable price ?

i get my contacts from Sam's Club (part of wal-mart). And i get nice brand of  contacts (acuvue 2) for like half that my optomotrist charges.


I just downloaded a file with this extension.\n\nWhat is this? How can i run it?

"Disk image format that supports advanced features, such as compression, password protection, and splitting to multiple volumes"\n\nhttp://www.poweriso.com/


It's only Japanese people, every one else is pretty cool. But every Japanese person I know instantly hates me, without reason. why?


A) includes substances such as creatinine.\nB) is a way for the body to get rid of unwanted waste.

Tubular reabsorption is a way to save things the body needs. The kidneys initially dump things from the blood into the glomerular filtrate (precursor to urine), then reabsorb some of it. Mostly water and salt, but also other ions and molecules such as folate. So, A's wrong.\n\nCreatinine is NOT reabsorbed in the tubules, although in very young (especially premature) neonates some of it does leak back across. So, B's wrong.\n\nAh, thanks for the extra info. The answer is C. Tubular absorption is both active and passive, but mostly active, and also D is internally wrong in that passive means NOT using ATP energy.


it goes something like this you cannot control me anymore my dear   please help because i love this song!!!

this is all i could find,hope this is it,\nMusic Lyrics Smile by Gufs\n\n\nSearch: \nArtist Or Title:      \n\n(G. Kralj, D. Kralj) I cannot control the way I feel She said won't you play with something real I was different than the other boys Always watching never wanting more I cannot control the things I do She said won't you come I wanted to Taken to another place in time Never felt this good or been so high Is it any wonder what are we doing here You cannot control this anymore my dear Is it any wonder what are we doing now You cannot control me anymore I tried to live with out you for a while And I can now control you with a smile I tried to live my life just for a while And I can now control you with a smile I can now control the way I feel She said all of this was never real I'm no different than the other boys I will leave you never wanting more Is it any wonder what are we doing here You cannot control this anymore my dear Is it any wonder what are we doing now You cannot control me anymore I tried to live with out you for a while And I can now control you with a smile I tried to live my life just for a while And I can now control you with a smile