Yeh, ok what happened: 2 "best mates" didnt like the fact me and my b/f were together and throughout the whole relationship told him things about me which wernt true - like I cheated etc {which I didnt}. I am seriously in love with him and want him back but he says he cant trust me as it's my word against theirs. He's not known me too long but trusts me, only maybe trusts the friends more than me.... He will not get back with me and says we'll never be together. I feel so bad as I have lost someone I truely love over a couple of petty jelous people. I can't stop thinking about him. He says it's not the lack of trust, but all these things are "messing" his head up... He just wont listen to me anymore. I need serious help as I cant live without him </3 {Heartbroken.} PLEASE HELP

Why would you want someone back who would believe rumors about you? He obviously doesn't "Love" you if he would believe his friends over you. You learned a very valuable lesson from this experience.  Even if you did manage to get back together, the same thing is going to happen the next time his friends or someone else spreads rumors about you. You need to realize that you deserve better than this and move on with your life. There is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and who will trust you. A good relationship is based on honesty and trust. Without them the relationship will fail. He doesn't trust you, so there is no way this relationship will work. Move on and live your life well. He is the one that loses. The best revenge is to live well. He will soon see what he has lost. Good Luck!!\n\nA.H.


Hard core and highly reflective. Snipers beware.

I am in the Air Force, and it is because we are turning into a safety first, mission second, branch of the Military I think it is stupid and shows how they Military is turning soft


i have to write a compare contrast paper or also known as a casual analysis and i have no idea how to start any suggestions   PLEASE HELP!!!!!!????????

From what I understand about compare/contrast/causal analysis, you'll need to write about how something has changed, explain why it changed (this is the causal part), and compare and contrast how it was before changing to how it is now.  How about writing about the role of women in American society.  Much has changed, even in just the last century.  Compare and contrast the role of women in the past to the role of women today in America.  Explain what happened to cause this change (voting rights, the women who began to take on men's factory jobs in WWII, the move away from agricultural life where the woman kept the home running to more urbanized life where women work, the decrease in the size of the average family, allowing the woman to take on responsibilities outside of just the home.


I've got an english test coming soon and i've done practices. I've just noticed how much my vocabulary stinked.\nSo I need advice on how to improve my vocabulary!! If its gonno take a year then just post it.

As an aspiring writer, this is what I do:\n\nA)I keep a pad of paper next to me while I'm reading a book and write down all the words I don't know, I'm unsure of, or I don't use enough. Then, afterwards I look them up. You can also practice using them in a sentence if you have time.\n\nB)I receive Dictionary.com's word of the day in my email. I read each one, delete ones I'm sure I won't use later, save the ones I will, and flag really good ones for later reference.\n\nI tried using programs that are supposedly made to increase your vocab; however, I found the words ridiculously easy - stuff I would have used in middle school or high school.


when you lock a mercedes benz it doesnt make a sound letting you know the car is armed but yet just blink the lights

European anti-noise regulations have reduced noise pollution in their cities - and forced automobile manufacturers to be silent about arming alarms.


If you are over 25 and single please lets chat.


it is a disease i have but have not been able to get many answers about it

surf the internet for lupous!\n\nyou can even check in a medical encyclopedia\n\nI believe lupous profudus is a type of skin ulcer---but surf the web for more info


wat happened for you to be suicidal?\nwhy do people take life and make it seem worthless?

I did after my little boy died. My brother found me sitting on the sofa staring into space. He came back the next day and I was still there. He told me that if I was planning to do myself in I might not end up with my son. At that time of unrational thought I decided it was a risk I'd rather not take.


Let's face it, the vast majority of you are from European stock.  Your ancestors invaded an already populated area of land before waging a campaign of ethnic cleansing.  Your culture even glorifies this slaughter and dresses it up as something righteous - cowboys, westerns, etc.\n\nI'd consider that to be illegal immigration.\n\nSo my question to you people is, why do think a white immigrant is better than a non-white one ?

Do you think that the govt has legitimate authority?  Based on your rationale it cannot, since it all goes back to property theft and ethnic cleansing.  If you do, then you also have to acknowledge that immigration is a matter which can legally be managed by the govt.\n\nDid we steal the land from the indians?  Maybe some of it.  What gets me is that there are rich people who are rich because of land.  But let's trace this back.  At some point someone claimed ownership of the land and didn't have to pay a dollar for it.  That's a load of BS.  So, now I get screwed because someone arbitrarily claims ownership of land.  I don't know how to fix, I just know that capitalism pisses me off sometimes.


i don't know how to tell if a guy is flirting with me because if he is then he is flirting with alot of other girls as well.

he is just playing the field - do you want that kinda attention - obviously he is will not be exclusive to you - even if you have him


What is your fav Queen song I LOVE them Song: Bohemian Rhapsody

Bohemian Rhapsody is the best Queen song ever. Proven by the fact that children in this generation know the lyrics to this song.  Are you of this generation?


having sex or seen pictures of you having sex? kid age between 10-14

"Pictures of you having sex"? Kinky! I think you'll have a fun time explaining. :)


My nefew gets tesed real bad. He won't even talk to anyone he don't have no friends cuz once one starts they all start. He is all depressed he don't care about school anymore and he blames himself. He thinks its something wrong with him when in reality its problems the bully has with himself. Kids can be so mean.  I'm not saying it's right but bullies is the reason Colinbin  sp?? school shooting happened.


I live with someone who is a staff member.  This person wants to leave but still wants to be a Scientologist. They want to do the right thing by this organisation but improve on their life as well. Yet the organisation is preventing them from leaving with BS courses to try and change their mind (we will call this delay tatics), insinuating they are following down the path of a suppressive person (lets call this threats) and not providing a routing form which is something required to find out how to leave. So far my friend has been trying for 4 months to leave.  So you all have a clear picture.  My friend is leaving because Scientology is mostly volunteer and believe it or not people need money to live in this world. As a staff member who isn't paid  you sign a contract which dosen't begin till you finish your training. But in this person case training hasn't finished even after 4 years being a staff member.  Constructive answers appreciated,not interested in people trashing Scientology

Hi there,\nI can help you with this. I am a Scientologist myself and also have been a Church member of staff.\nThere is a standard routing form which your friend's organisation\nshould be providing. The fact that who ever your friend is dealing with\nhas not provided it is totally against Church policy , since if he needs or wants to leave staff, he should not be prevented from doing so, or made to feel wrong in any way.\nI suggest that your friend write an Ethics Report on who ever is responsible for this problem and make sure he sends a copy to this persons senior, or as high up the Church channels as he needs to go to get this quickly resolved.\nThe policy reference for how to write this report and correctly route it is: HCO Policy Letter 1st May 1965 " Staff Member Reports"\nYour friend should read this reference which will be found in the Basic Staff Hat  OEC Volume 0. Pick which ever  type of report applies and then write up the situation fully and route the various copies as instructed on the communication channels that should be in place in the organisation.\nIf there is still no quick resolution, and he then leaves on his own determinism. ( which is in fact his basic right anyway)\nThis report will be on file for his future defence, should he need it.\nI advise him to make an additional copy for himself and keep it, incase\nhis report does not make it into his own staff ethics file.


Earth is in solar system,solar system is in a galaxy, our galaxy one in trillion in the whole universe.. where does it end? if theres beginning there should be an end.

There is no boundary as such because there is "nothing" beyond the edge; but the Universe in not infinite.  Difficult to get your head around I know especially as "nothing" in this case does not mean nothing as you understand it now.  If I go on you might blow a fuse so I will stop there.\n\n[re: above - "The Milky Way" is the name of our Galaxy not our Solar system]


That site isn't registered.  A quick check of www.register.com told me that the site was available for registration, if you want it.  :) \n\nMost likely, you've mistyped it.  Check where you got it from and try again.\n\nI searched online for 'Forest Waine' and couldn't find anything on a singer.  There were entries for 'Forest Wayne' but again I'm not sure if they were for a singer.\n\nWho is this singer?  You've made me very curious now!\n\nI did find this link to a singer named 'Forest Wayne'.  I added the link below.  Assuming that you meant 'Forest Wayne' there is a site called www.forestwaynetrain.com registered to David Perez in TX.  It has no content at the moment and is just being parked on GoDaddy.com.


I think that the Lions will make the postseason and win the NFC North Division this year.

yeah im the first to say this oh yes they will make the playoffs look at their division it sucks say what you want about the bears their going 5-11 and the lions will win the division


DOWNLOADED MOVIE THATS UPSIDE DOWN.USING WINDOWS MEDIA PLAYER

if you are having this problem with only this movie,\npress Alt+Ctrl+ down arrow while you are watching this movie.after its done, press Alt+Ctrl+ Up arrow to restore the monitor setting.


As in, "If your grandfather knew you were doing that he would roll over in his grave."

wHEN SOMEBODY SAYS THAT THEY MEAN THAT WHEN U DO SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T SATISIFED YOUR FAMILY DEAD. tHEY TURN TO LET YOU KNOW THEY ARE NOT HAPPY.


Which is thickist? Should either one of them be in power?\nYou tell me. :) or :(

Blair's foreign policy is to follow US foreign policy. They did that in the first Gulf War when Majors, A conservative was in power why deviate now?   Also, you just gotta give the guy credit he has to defend his policies not just against the media, but an arguing session against the other party.


There is truly only one color.  Do you know which color is responsible for increasing the heart rate and respirations?


How do you suppose this term of endearment started?

This phrase stems from a kissing booth at a carnival that was held in Podunk, Iowa.  It turns out that the young lady that was going to occupy the booth was thrown from the animal that she was riding on the way to said boot and injured her mouth so they decided to use the animal that she was riding, her Jackass.  So for a buck you could kiss to her jackass, or as she would say “kiss my jackass”, and over time it was shorten too, well you know.


A man is married and has kids with his wife, and all of a sudden learns he has another child from a long time ago....\n\nThe woman sues him for child support. But if the man makes the child support payments, he wouldnt have enough to support his wife and children. His wife cant work because of a disabilty. And their one of their children is on very expensive medicines and sich.\n\nCan the court lower of drop the child support case if it means putting the mans family and a financial risk? If he paid the child support, then he couldnt afford to pay for the children he has with his wife, and their expensies. What should he do?\n\nNOTE: He didnt find out about this other child until AFTER he was married and him and his wife had children alreday.

The courts will follow the law.  But there are also always exceptions.  There are laws regarding the order of the priority of the obligation to support a child.\n\nDo a google for your state and "child support calculator"  You will get a page that will help you see what the law says.\n\nThere are several things to consider.  \n\nFirst, HAVE A PATERNITY TEST DONE.  It costs about $100 and can save you tons of money if the child isn't yours.\n\nSecond, oddly enough, in the eyes of the court, there is only a small amount of money they have to leave you to support yourself and your family.  You will be able to look at the laws if you do the google I told you about.  Or google for your state and "child support guidelines."  But the standard is that you can expect to pay one weeks take home pay per month in child support.  And that is normal, not excessive in the eyes of the court.\n\nBut you really need a good lawyer.  Not knowing about the child does not remove your obligation, but your situation provides you with some compelling arguments for decreased child support to be ordered.  Plus there is the question, why did the mother wait until now to request child support?\n\nWhen you prepare for court, make sure you have details of your family budget, all your bills, the expenses for your children, etc.  Come up with any paperwork you can.\n\nBut I will warn you, if you have a nice house, nice cars, etc., the court is not going to have much sympathy.  It sounds dumb, because logical people can see that you worked hard to be able to provide your family with nice things and that you didn't budget for the expense of the other child, but in the eyes of the court, that child has a right to a percentage of your money, like it or not.\n\nGood luck.  And as expensive as it may be, get a good lawyer. It may save you tons of money in the long run.


She acquired citizenship last 2000, Is there any preference considered every country of birth? I am a filipino. Can anyone give information please?

Depends on several factors.  But if you're from Philippines then you have a longer wait than others, possibly a 10+ year wait.


ok i recently broke up w\ my bf, and went out with this other kid and were still goin out. but my ex still loves me alot and all my friends want me to go back out w\ him but idk if i wanna and then theres this other guy who likes me and hes my boyfriends best friend. so idk wut to do i like all of them cuz there all nice and stuff. and i miss my ex somtimes but not all the time and i like my boyfriend now but i cant help but to like this other kid.. his best friend. please help me.... :[

That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody


Ok theres this women i really love but theres 2 problems. shes going out with someone and i don`t know if she likes me. how will i find out if she likes me? also she keeps looking at me randomly sometimes.

omg!i have so been there!this is a perfect question!u see i liked this guy alot!and the same thing happened to me he got a gf so i was sad but then they broke up and now i flirt as mush as possible!so look my point is even though she has a bf still be sweet to her and flirt all the time and then if they break up try to become closer with her and then maybe ask her out!


I was thinking about having one, but don't have too much info yet.

Even with gastric bypass, they can do it laproscopically (spelling).  You will only have 6   1/2 inch incisions and I don't think scaring will be an issue.  A friend of mine had gastric bypass 1 year ago (Lap RNY) and she has no scaring at all....\n\nCheck out this website...they have lots of great info\n\nhttp://www.obesityhelp.com


I'm a radio dj and have rather odd hours from the rest of the world 5pm-Midnight. I feel completley disconnected from everyone and my social life has dropped dramatically...I don't talk to my friends. While I'm doing the career that I love, the pay sucks and I hate my hours.....I exercise during the day,sell stuff on ebay and work. That's it. Help........

If I'd had a friend that it's a radio dj I 'd be glad he'd tell me that he's playing some music that I like and give me some specific times so I can turn on the radio and listen to it. This might just be a good way for my dj friend to communicate with his/her friends when can't be with them (if that ever was the case). \n\nHave your friends send you lists of music they prefer to listen to and on your days off call them up or meet with them. SMS with them about the music you play real time or Email if you have access at work.\n\nOf course, if you get to also, talk sometime on the radio, you could have them call in and just role play. I'd do that. Life is a SHOW. Put on the show. Don't let your career ruin your life. Your friends, if you had them, will love to be gotten involved somehow, even if only to know that you play music FOR THEM - I am sure that you can find a song a day for each one of your friends and kind of make their day, everyday, knowing that you play that for them. I'd love that.\nIf the pay sucks, that's not good though... that might be a reason to look for something else or somewhere else... Can't help you with that. I don't like my pay either. But THAT IS SO COOL THAT YOU ARE A DJ! You might just want to keep that as your fun part time job and get another part time somewhere else...


does anyone know a good website that i can view a timeline on crime and punishment??????

DOSTOYEVSKY'S CRIME AND PUNISHMENT\nCRIME AND PUNISHMENT SUMMARY AND STUDY GUIDE CAST OF CHARACTERS...\nhttp://community.middlebury.edu/~beyer/courses/previous/ru351/novels/cp/CPstudy.shtml \n\n \nCrime and Punishment\nJoin the Crime & Punishment Discussion...\nhttp://crime.about.com/ \n\n \nRethinking Crime and Punishment\nRCP Publications Download RCP briefings and publications, Rethinking Crime & Punishment: The Report...\nhttp://www.rethinking.org.uk/ \n\n \nCrime - crime.org\nSites Available for Development. Fight Against Crime Resources. Contact ... a public law and that makes the offender liable to punishment by that\nhttp://www.crime.org/ \n\n \nThe National Archives Learning Curve\nLearning Curve Homepage. Learning Curve is a free online teaching and learning resource, following the History National Curriculum from Key Stages 2...\nhttp://learningcurve.pro.gov.uk/ \n\n \nCrime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky: A searchable online\nCrime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky a searchable online version. Includes author information...\nhttp://www.online-literature.com/dostoevsky/crimeandpunishment/ \n\n \nCrime and Punishment in Elizabethan England\nA contemporary description of crime and punishment in Shakespeare's England...\nhttp://www.ibiscom.com/punishment.htm \n\n \nCrime, Punishment and Responsibility\nCrime and Punishment: Is man responsible for his actions? I. Humanitarian Attitude Towards Crime: i. Humanitarian Definition of Crime:\nhttp://members.aol.com/plweiss1/crime.htm \n\n \nBBC NEWS | England | South: Crime and punishment\nE-mail this to a friend Printable version ... South: Crime and punishment ... Ian Paul Politics Show South \nhttp://news.bbc.co.uk/go/newsFeedXML/moreover/-/1/hi/england/4443539.stm \n\n \nChristiaan Stange's DOSTOEVSKY RESEARCH STATION\n1863) Notes From Underground [Letters from the Underworld] (1864) An Unusual Happening (1865) Crime and Punishment (1866) The Gambler (1866...\nhttp://www.kiosek.com/dostoevsky/ \n\n \nSponsored Links  \n \n\nCrimes And Punishment\nWhatever you're looking for you can get it on eBay.\nwww.eBay.com \n\nResult Page:    1   2   3   4   5   6   7   8   9      Next


i come home from work at 7, eat take shower work some more at home and cant get to bed like untill 12, i just have no time to go earlier


He thinks I am stupid. He thinks I dont know. He is sleeping with my bestfriend.

he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to go persue this relationship with your friend and possibly chat on her with you, going back and forth between the two of you.\nget rid of him.


Is there an easy way I can find out at home whether a particular item is made of gold or not ?


Someone had told me once that it means trouble.  I'm just curious...

It probably has to do with your life and how it is going.\nStress and unresolved problems may seem to leave you powerless and not in control.\nA tornado is very dangerous and destructive:and if it hits your house it will destroy it.\nYet in your dream,no one is hurt while they are in the house.\nThe dream is fear and anxiety that is unresolved in your mind.\nIt seems to mean that you have a sense of impending disaster:something will overpower you and it will be unexpected and unstoppable.\nIt seems that you will lose a lot,but you and your loved ones will be safe.


Ok, seems like I've hit a brick wall. Apparently, I can't some people to see my views here. \n\nHow about a compromise? I am open to suggestions on compromises. This problem will never be solved overnight. Including others, we are stressing over this. I wish there was a quick solution. \n\nI am angry that they abuse the welfare system, enter here illegally through our borders, and manipulate the system to give their kids automatic citizenship. I wish a simple compromise could be met on both sides. \n\nThat is what they are doing. But everyone has to understand that both sides will continue to bicker about the pros and cons of immigration. Perhaps both sides being unified, our neighbors could be our biggest ally. They've got to be willing for open discussion, as we also need to be open also. \n\nIt takes two sides to work an agreement. I am willing to admit that this issue can be solved peacefully, which will benefit both sides. \n\nWe got enough to worry about as it is (oil, threats).

What's to bicker about?  Illegal is illegal, and the problem is huge.\n\n\nFrom the L.A Times\n\n1. 40% of all workers in L.A. County (L.A. County has 10 million people) are working for cash and not paying taxes. This was because they are predominantly illegal immigrants, working without a green card. \n\n2. 95% of warrants for murder in Los Angeles are for illegal aliens.\nhttp://www.washingtontimes.com/op-ed/20040119-082933-4484r.htm\n\n3. 75% of people on the most wanted list in Los Angeles are illegal aliens.\n\n4. Over 2/3's of all births in Los Angeles County are to illegal alien Mexicans on Medi-Cal whose births were paid for by taxpayers. \n\n5. Nearly 25% of all inmates in California detention centers are Mexican nationals here illegally.\n\n6. Over 300,000 illegal aliens in Los Angeles County are living in garages.\n\n7. The FBI reports half of all gang members in Los Angeles are most likely illegal aliens from south of the border. \n\n8. Nearly 60% of all occupants of HUD properties are illegal.\n\n9. 21 radio stations in L.A. are Spanish speaking.\n\n10. In L.A.County 5.1 million people speak English. 3.9 million speak Spanish (10.2 million people in L.A.County).\n\n(All 10 from the Los Angeles Times)\n\n\nLess than 2% of illegal aliens are picking our crops but 29% are on welfare.\nhttp://www.cis.org\n\n\nOver 70% of the United States annual population growth (and over 90% of California, Florida, and New York) results from immigration.\n\n\nThe cost of immigration to the American taxpayer in 1997 was a NET (after subtracting taxes immigrants pay) $70 BILLION a year, [Professor Donald Huddle, Rice University]. \n\n29% of inmates in federal prisons are illegal aliens.


I have a government class and need to know who impeaches the president. Do we vote, does congress vote. how does it work.

The right to impeach public officials is secured by the U.S. Constitution in Article I, Sections 2 and 3, which discuss the procedure, and in Article II, Section 4, which indicates the grounds for impeachment: "the President, Vice President, and all civil officers of the United States shall be removed from office on impeachment for, and conviction of, treason, bribery, or other high crimes and misdemeanors."\n\nimpeachment ticket\nTicket of admission to the U.S. Senate galleries for the impeachment trial of President Andrew Johnson Source:The Granger Collection\n\nRemoving an official from office requires two steps: (1) a formal accusation, or impeachment, by the House of Representatives, and (2) a trial and conviction by the Senate. Impeachment requires a majority vote of the House; conviction is more difficult, requiring a two-thirds vote by the Senate


What i mean is the finger used as an insult. The middle finger.

Ah, yes, Dane Cook asked that question as part of a joke* (* "Did he try other things too? Did he just go, "You know what, suck my back! Just suck it!"). Who in general invented the finger? The Italians. Who specifically? I do not know. But I can tell you this: It must have been an awkward moment for the guy to just whip out his middle finger as a show of anger and frustration at another.\nLike Dane Cook says, the guy probably went, "You know what, you just make so, er! (holds up fist with middle finger pointed up) Just look at my finger and you'll know man!"


I'm not too sure about what the inmates to or whatever, it's so embarrising to ask him. I don't know if he's even done anything or if someones done something to him but i'm scared that i'll get something! what should I do??

You are smart. Make sure he is tested for Hepatitis, not just HIV. I would request HSV and VDRL serologies also. These would rule out syphillis and herpes. Repeat these in 3 and 6 months after as well and use condoms.\n\nConsider his willingness to do the testing and allay your fears as a sign that he is committed to the relationship and respects you.


not turnitin.com or ithenticate.com, they charge $$$

if you type a line of the paper or whatever you are checking into google, it will come up with things it could have been copied from. All you have to do is type in one sentence and then press enter. a bunch of results will come up and you can check from there.


looking for winning lotto numbers for VA mega millions, need 5 numbers, 1 - 56 and 1 number 1 - 46 for the power ball.. lets see if we can come up with a good combination to win.


I wanted to ask on the process for applying as a skilled immigrant.

New Zealand Consulate-General Dubai: Contact Details\nStreet Address Suite 1502, 15th Floor, API Tower, Sheikh Zayed Road, Dubai, United Arab Emirates\n\nPostal Address PO Box 23-156, Dubai, United Arab Emirates\n\nTelephone +971 4 331 7500 Facsimile +971 4 331 7501\n\nStaff Details\nConsul-General and Senior Trade Commissioner Gavin Young\n\nTrade Commissioner Sam Lewis\n\n\n--------------------------------------------------------------------------------


What Buffalo Sabres guy do you think is the HOTTEST?

Ryan Miller who posted a shutout tonight against Toronto


I went to their offices on Limonite Road in the town of Jurupa (Riverside County)on Monday, only to find the offices vacant...I tried to ask two deputies from the Jurupa Valley sheriff's station about this, but they didn't know what I was talking about, then I was rudely interrupted by some guy who kept insisting that the Jurupa Valley Chamber NEVER existed, and to try the Colton Chamber office(why Colton?;that city is in San Bernardino County!)...what's worse, I was given the runaround by almost every business in town...so if there's a Jurupa Valley resident who has Yahoo and knows what I'm talking about, I would like the new address of the Jurupa Valley Chamber offices...\n\nThank you...

That's impossible!\n\nI was in the Jurupa Valley area five months ago, and drove by the office on Limonite and it was still there!...\n\nHow about going to the Jurupa Area Recreation and Park District offices on Pedley Drive?...\n\nI can't believe that those two Jurupa Valley sheriff's deputies didn't know about the situation, either...how stupid of them!\n\nI'm not from the Jurupa area, but I wish you luck in your search...\n\nLet me know how it goes...


With all the super technology at our fingertips,I don't understand how a 6'9" man can walk around in the light of day and can't be detected some way.I'm a reasonably intelligent person.Can someone shed some light?

because we're not trying hard enough.  We haven't put CIA and FBI agents in the right spots and our military has no idea what's going on.  Then we had to go and attack Iraq and get a new set of problems to focus on.  Pretty damn messed up that one guy can orchestrate the murder of 3000 Americans and 5 years later we still have no idea where he is.


What does Pagan mean spiritually to you?

It means that I have found a REALLY annoying way to be "different" than everybody else (so I can feel sepcial about myself) and has the added benefit of allowing me to make unreasonable and annoying demands on my employer because they have to tolerate my "religion".\n\nSo pretty much it means that I'm an assclown with low self-esteem. And I need constant attention.


I just bought the zakk wylde custom guitar and I wanted to get the same effects that he uses. He uses a Dunlop ZW-45 Zakk Wylde Signature Wah, and a Dunlop JD-4S Rotovibe Expression Pedal. My problem is that his site says he uses both, but I think they are the same thing. Are they the same, or do I need to buy both?

the  JD-4S Rotovibe Expression Pedal is a rotary speaker simulator. it is used to mimic the sound of a speaker in a large cabinet that spins. the ZW-45 is a wah pedal. the wah boosts and cuts and boosts frequencies like mids, highs and lows(but mostly mids) as you "rock" your foot back and forth, moving the pedals position, resulting in the "wah-wah-wah" sound... email me with any questions, i have been a musician for over 20 years and will be glad to answer any questions.


What does thermodynamics say about it? Thanks...

The refrigerator works in the principle of Carnot’s cycle.\n\n The heat energy from the refrigerator (closed) is removed and is given out to the surrounding air.  \n\nThat is to say, by heating the external air the air inside the refrigerator is cooled.\n\nHence if the door is opened the cooling effect by the fridge is nullified by its heating effect.\n\nBut technically speaking, if you fit a refrigerator in the wall of a room so that the hot side is out side the room and the room is closed then depending upon the power of the refrigerator the room will be cooled with time.\n\nBut this is the principle used by air conditioning machine. Therefore one will prefer air conditioning rather than fitting a refrigerator.\n\nIn terms of thermodynamics, It is impossible to derive continuous supply of energy by cooling a body below the coldest of its surrounding.


sport questions and not easy or hard and able to print out

your sentences make no sense... try agan.


Yes certainly - I would sell my house and wife to get money to pay them to!


Please only answer this question if you have had a sigmoidoscopy.  I have to have one done next week and no anesthetic is involved - only a enemia two hours before the procedure.  How much pain, if any, is there having this done?

Try these sites for medical questions if your serious:\n\nhttp://www.justanswer.com\nhttp://www.wondir.com\nhttp://www.afraidtoask.com


We are a non-profit organization that started our on line shop one year ago.  It is growing, but we are going to redesign the site.  We'll be adding more items and want to know what we can do to get our website out there.  Please check it out and give any suggestions.  wwww.emmetsburgirishgifts.com.

Getting more visitors is one thing; and turning those visitors into buyers is another thing. If you are running an online store, you need to do BOTH.\n\nTo get visitors to your website:\n\n1. Offer the best products. Sounds like a no-brainer, but your products are your best advertisement - if visitors love your products, then they will go back and spread the word to others.\n\n2. Make it easy for users to recommend your site. Viral marketing is very important -- and easy to tap on the Web. But give your users the tools. Get a Recommend this Site script from websites such as cgiscripts.com and similar directories of scripts. Some even go as far as giving incentives to those who recommend the site to their friends. \n\n3. Rank well in the search engines (organic search results, not the pay per click). SEs can be a big source of traffic. The key is to create the best content in your niche. If you have good content, other websites will gladly link to you and offer your site as a resource to their audience. Check the on-page factors and be sure to get linked from authority sites in your topic area.\n\n4. Send out press releases. While outfits charge as much as $650 per release, there are free press release submission places on the Web. Press releases allow you to (a) attract media attention; (b) get more back links to your website without sending each website an email request; and (c) get more visibility especially if your press release gets in Google News or Yahoo News. Some sites that accept free press releases are PRWeb.com, PowerHomeBiz.com \n\n5. Advertise only if it will get you targeted traffic. Whether you use pay per click advertising or buying text links or buying banner ads, carefully monitor your return on investment. If possible, get metrics to tell you whether the PPC traffic is actually converting into sale. Google Analytics can show that to you if you are using Google Adwords.\n\nWith regards to getting the visitors to buy more stuff, here are some tips from the article "10 Ways to Convert Visitors to Buyers" http://www.powerhomebiz.com/072005/conversion.htm :\n\n1. Provide quality products or content. Good conversion rates start with quality and a great value proposition.\n\n2. Grab their attention immediately. Put your most important and succinct statement of what your website offer above the scroll (e.g. sales pitch, order button)\n\n3. It’s about the customer, all the time. Visitors will respond to your offer only if you can successfully make the case that your website exists for them, to provide them what they need and offer a solution to their problem. \n\n4. Design your page specifically for your target audience. \n\n5. Make it easy for them. Make the ordering process easy. An indicator of how well your process works is the ratio of abandoned shopping baskets to total orders – if this is higher than 10 percent, then it indicates that the online ordering process you have implemented is ineffective, or takes too long. \n\n6. Improve your site's copy. More than a tool to inform users of what the site is all about, the best type of web site copy explains to a visitor how your product will fulfill their wants, needs and desires. \n\n7. Think active! Use active voice to keep your customers motivated and fully engaged in the sales process. \n\n8. Increase trust factor. Trust is a key element of success on the Web. Visitors purchase only from websites they know will safeguard their information, provide them with quality service, and offer them products that are value for their money. \n\n9. Build customer loyalty. Loyalty marketing is a proven technique to increase conversion rates and improving bottom line.\n10. Study your metrics carefully. You must have a set of key performance indicators that you can look at every day to understand the pulse of your business.


does anyone know where i can get the song "Ms. Hilton you must be worth a trillion bucks...get the feeling that you dont really give a fuck" for myspace???

Go to myspace music, type in "The Penfifteen Club", click on the first one there, the song's name is "Hey, Ms. Hilton". Hope that helps.


i need to know marco polo's wealth bcuz i am doing a report of him !! (please no funny or stupid answers)

acquired great wealth in jewels and gold


are you caucasian?  did you check this anytime on a job application?  have you ever enquired where the word originated?

When some of the ten tribes migrated across the caucasus mountains into Europe.\n\nSaxons came from Isaacs sons, I-saacs sons, saacs sons, saxons.


more than friendship..but I didnt even flirt with them and didnt have the intention.Oh boy!It just my friendly way,fun personality and I once a boyish girl.Even now I am not a feminine girl and not really good looking, just cute!Drive me crazy you know.

Maybe you're not good looking, but you are sexy! maybe your curves turn them on or your eyes.\nI understand it could be quite upsetting. Find a way to take advantage of it.


and i cant get into the yahoo messenger it shuts me down.This happens numerous times and mostly in the evening.Also in the romantic catergory i cant get into certain rooms.

Simple, the server is Busy in the evening with to0-many users .Also do check if your connection bandwidth is good.I doubt you get time out error cause of no response from the server.


I read Einstein’s Cosmos by Michio Kaku and in it we find that time slows down as we approach the speed of light.  A clock will run slower.  From other sources, we find that the molecules (or something) slow down when we near absolute zero.\n\nWould someone with an extensive scientific background tell us what would happen to a person on a comet traveling at the speed of light at absolute zero?   Would everything stop, i.e. time, life, etc.  And what would happen to the corpse if you would die?  Would it decompose, assuming that there is an Earth-like atmosphere on the comet for oxygen since you need oxygen for decomposition?  We would also have to assume that the comet is quite large to sustain gravity.\n\nWhat laws of physics would theoretically change in the above conditions (e.g. gravity, etc)?

This is an impossibilty.  The more you accelerate, the more mass you attain.  The more mass you attain, the more energy needed to accelerate you until the required energy becomes infinite (before you reach light speed).  However, if you are a massless person, travel at light speed would be possible but the laws of physics remain stable as massless particles have little power of interaction with the universe around them.  If you were massless, and could withstand the cold, the laws of relativity state that time would pass normally for you but you would observe the universe evolving around you at an incredible rate of speed.  At absolute zero, most of the molecules in your body will have undergone a phase transition, eg all gases (oxygen, carbon dioxide etc) will have turned into a liquid and all water would have crystallized long ago.  I would suggest wearing a set of thermal long johns before attempting this venture!


Some times out of the blue I will fill dizzy and the room will start spinning ,can this be caused by sinuses

Yes, many, many conditions can cause dizziness and most are very minor problems.  The most common cause of dizziness are things that affect the inner ear.\n\nThat being said, it is always best to get checked out if the dizziness persists.  Most times, it can be treated simply.


its one of the forthcoming movie of aamir khan.

"fanna" means sacrificing urself in sake of love or destiny for ur love one, means "mar mitna", understand my dear, u will understand if u ever fall in love


I'm doing a report. Just gettin some opinions

why should barbie even be veiwed as a role model? she's a doll. the real role model is her creator. i'm a fat chic and i have always loved barbie. her body doesn't bother me and hasn't given me any self image problems. those came from the people around me.


i know body fat increases when calorie intake exceeds TEA...but which is the best option?

On the whole, frequent, smaller meals will induce less fat deposition.\n\nHere's why.\n\nEveryone knows that insulin causes blood sugar to drop, and that's true--it does.  Insulin is secreted in amounts that are a function of the level of the blood sugar and the rate of rise (or fall) of the blood sugar; that's not so well known.\n\nWhat is often forgotten is that high enough insulin levels induce fat cells (adipocytes) to lay down extra lard.  TO be a little sloppy, high levels mean there's energy to spare, so store it for later.\n\nNOW...  A big meal produces a more rapid rise in blood glucose and potentially higher levels of sugar in the blood--increasing the levels of insulin, and thus, potentially, lard laydown.\n\nThe same amount of calories nibbled slowly produces a slower and lower rise in sugar, thus a slower and lower rise in serum insulin, and thus less fat deposition.\n\nNow, there are several little side factors involved here, all of which I am ignoring since they're not as relevant to your question...  Hope this makes the answer clear and reasonable!


What would be good proof that a judge treated you unfair because of your race?

depends ont the evidence found agaist him otherwise they public or atterney may not believe you


change my avitar with an image from adobe photoshop version 3.0

make a Yahoo! 360 account, upload the image to that, then go to "edit my info" in "My Q&A" and check the "use my 360 picture" thing in there.


I love quotes...Please share with me what your favorite quote is or quotes that you have heard. I found this quote today by Les Brown and I really liked it..."We must look for ways to be an active force in our own lives. We must take charge of our own destinies, design a life of substance and truly begin to live our dreams."

Half of knowing what you want in Life is knowing what you have to give up to get it.\n\nauthor unknown


There is this guy that I like and yesterday I got a ride home from his parents. He sat in the back seat and I sat in the front. All of a sudden I felt his hands rubing my shoulders. I felt so happy, but I don't know if I should tell him how I really feel. What do I do?

let your heart speak for itself be truthful and everything else will work itself out


I run windows XP Pro. I downloaded Image resizer from microsoft power toys. Downloaded ok ..looks like it works but pic remains the same size.  As these add ons are only for XP ..I cant understand what is wrong. I used it ok on XP home before upgrading. Hope you can help ..

Just right click the image/s & select resize images. Set the proper size - select the predefined sizes or enter your own. It should work now.\n\nIf you set the option to resize the original picture, only then the original picture will get resized. Otherwise, a new image will be created in the same folder with a different name with the resized dimensions.\n\nHope it helps!


my upper abs are pretty much tight and i do a lot of situps and i exercise regularly but how do i get my lower stomach abs stronger and as hard as my upper abs?

if you already have a cardio routine keep doing that and maybe step it up a level and i hear that reverse crunches work pretty well.(those are the kind where you pull your knees into your chest)


make me cry  I dare you. Tell me whats wonderful , we'll call it the wonderful hour.

My sons smile, Sunlight, sunrise and sunset, flowers, trees, a breeze on my face, view from a mountain top, a smile from a stranger, laughter, art, beautiful poetry, swimming, chocolate, my family and friends and most of all this beautiful world that we live in.


a.provide a mechanism for rapid response of the endocrine system is to changes in the body\nb.maintain a relatively constant internal enviroment\nc.ensure proper growth and development\nd.allow for a mechanism to control gene action\n\nwich one???

In general, the endocrine system is in charge of body processes that happen slowly, such as cell growth. Faster processes like breathing and body movement are monitored by the nervous system. But even though the nervous system and endocrine system are separate systems, they often work together to help the body function properly


Yahoo doesn't offer keeper leagues for free. I'm not sure about Yahoo Fantasy Plus though, I doubt it.


i thought that medical records were the property of the patient and couldnt be held by the doctor.

It goes to show you that in your country health care is a business. Thank God it is not like that in Canada... yet! That in its self is a crime. I'm pretty sure that they are your property. Seeing how it is confidential information about you. Shame to your doctor he sounds pretty unethical anyways. Time to get a new one.


Any suggestions?  I have great orgasms when I'm laying down, but it would be nice to have the same thing in other positions....

because on the mountains the air is more thin...duhh


A\nB\nC\nD\nE\nF\nG\nH\nI\nJ\nK\nL\nM\nN\nO\nP\nQ\nR\nS\nT\nU\nV\nW\nX\nY\nZ\n\n\nDid you known that 80% of Stanford students could not find the error in the alphabet above? Repost this with the title "Find the Error", and when you click Post Bulletin, the answer will show

"The error" is in the title. :) The acutal words, not an actual error.\n\nThe question asks: Did you known that 80% of Stanford students could not find "the error" in the alphabet above?\n\nAnd the title reads: what is "the error" in this?\nOr the title could be (if you posted it again): Find "the Error"\n\n:)


i love that show. i thought that guy was young. Turns out, he's like 30 years old.


how do you eraes the websites on the adress so that they dont show up when for example your kids go to get on a recentand they see a porn site from there father i need to erase it and fast   HELP

go to internet explorer then Tool- Internet Option then click on the task


The Beatles once again. What can i say people i just love em.

No, don´t stop I really like it...\n\nEleanor Rigby picks up the rice in the church where a wedding has been... Lives in a dream (hm hm hm hm humming the string section here...)\n\nHave you ever CRIED to that song? I have, cause I really did think of all the lonely people and about my own loneliness


Who do you think will win American Idol? Who is your favorite jugde?

Well, let me think.   Wait I don't have to think.  I think the winner will defintely be chris.  i want katherine to win too though.  she has a very unique voice that i have never heard before.  Well all we could do is wait till the season finale.  Can't wait


I would have liked to show my support on the immigration demonstration and another one a year or so back on women's rights.  How do I find out about these before they happen!?

Call the INS and ask them. When you do give them your location. One more thing if youre going to go DONT CARRY MEXICAN FLAG. If you want to be treated like AMERICAN call the US Flag. Also if youre a student and you see a reporter and they ask why are you protesting KNOW THE REASON FUCKING REASON WHY.


my personal favorites are michaellutin.com and astro.com as well as jeff prince. any amazingly accurate ones out there that i dont know about? lemme know!

I use the yahoo astrology site.  \n\nIt is on point with my life.\n\nI was very surprized.  Every day is lines up with my life.


Is this some manuafactured, brainwashed form of Buddhism or something?  And wtf is up with the "Silent Birth"?

The Church of Scientology International was founded by L. Ron Hubbard in 1954. Based principally on his book, Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health (1950), Hubbard created a "religious" institution to promote his unique psychological theories. Scientology teaches that mankind is immortal and divine. Man is composed of three dimensions:\n\nsoul ("thetan") \nmind (an accumulation of all experiences in multiple lives) \nbody (the temporary and physical dimension)\nGod is a vague concept. Scientology defines the Supreme Being with terms such as "infinity" and the "allness of all". "Engrams" are the unconscious mental images that we record in our "reactive mind" that have negative effects on our present and future lives. They are learned from our past lives, prenatal experience and early childhood, and prevent us from realizing our divine nature and experiencing a happy and fulfilled life. Engrams can only be removed from our mind through dianetic counseling. This process of counseling is called "auditing," and involves an "E-meter" (Electropsychometer), a device invented by Hubbard that helps a client discover and remove engrams from the unconscious mind. The goal of auditing is to travel from "preclear" to "clear," where a person is expunged of all engrams and their negative effects on the mind and body. The ultimate goal is to completely liberate the thetan from "MEST" and attain total spiritual awareness and oneness with infinity. MEST is an acronym derived from matter, energy, space and time, which compose the physical universe and hold the thetan captive. The "doctrine" of Scientology has been compiled by the Church of Scientology International in the book, What is Scientology? (1978). Dianetic auditing sessions can cost as much as $1,000 per hour.\n\nhttp://web.express56.com/~bromar/


Presently , I continue to have skin reactions with other Medications for my health conditions. My doctor,and I discussed it but Iam scared to take or start with Lamictal.

Medications in different drug classes typically don't have cross-reactivity; in other words, even though you have had skin reactions to other meds doesn't mean you'll have a reaction to any other med.  The rash with lamictal is something to be aware of because it can progress to the life-threatening Stephens-Johnson rash.  The risk is really low if the medicine is started low and titrated up slowly over a period of months.


whats the price of somatropin humatrope?

Varies:\nPurchasing hGH in TijuanaThe price for Humatrope ranges from $130 to $170 for 15 IU \n\nHUMATROPE 5MG POWDER VIAL 1'S $3,391.99(12) $10,175.99(36)


I have every sympaphy with you America.\nBut lets face it, your not the only one's.\nLet's all move to Mexico, or Latvia, that will screw them up.

True Facts, illegal immigrants cost us BILLIONS  (nationally)\n$70 billion in federal public benefits\n$200 billion annually in lost American wages\n$1.6 billion in displaced American workers\n$80 billion in the war on drugs\n$27 billion to provide forms, ballots, interpreters and brochures in languages other than English\n$350 billion in unpaid taxes due to the underground workforce\n$2 to 3 billion in "Earned income Tax Credits"\n$7 to 12 billion in Calif alone for educating the children of illegal aliens\n$65 billion for food stamps and medical benefits for undocumented immigrants\n$2.5 billion for tabs for medicaid alone, annually\nThe American Hospital Association has said the cost of uncompensated care for patients, many of them illegal aliens amounted to more than $21 billion a year\n  AN THE LIST GOES ON & GUESS WHO IS PAYING FOR IT?????


Americans have becoming unbelievably fat.  And if one person cares enough about themselves to want to lose the weight -- to actually become attractive and healthy -- then let's support them instead of saying, "You are already too thin" or "Don't try to become an unrealistic example of beauty."  \n\nIf you want to lose weight -- congratulations!!!  We are the fattest nation in the world.  One stop at Wal-Mart shows you how awful we have become.\n\nLOSE WEIGHT AND LOOK GREAT!!!

Wal-Mart... lol.\n\nAnyways, I agree with you and there are at least two main reasons for this. One is that we can't see one another on Answers, so some people assume if someone is talking about weight loss, that means they could be obsessing over their weight or suffering from an eating disorder. The second reason is that it's way easier to say "No, you look great as you are!" (even though, like I said, we don't know what the asker looks like) than it is to answer with thoughtful advice and suggestions. \n\nI don't mean that there aren't people here who are suffering from eating disorders. And I also don't mean that we don't all look great the way we are. But you're right, quite a few Americans are overweight, and it's not just an appearance issue, it's a serious health issue. So if someone's ready to take that first step and change their future health, more power to them! :)


Who thinks that it's best for T.O. to be on the team.

I think t.o. is going to be all rite when they double him it will leave single on terry glen all he needs to do is play hard and keep straight


What would you recommend a guy to listen (if possible with name of the album) - if he is a fan of Jim croce, Al Stewart, jackson browne, Simply red etc

Eric Clapton, Slowhand \nand you should try Pink Floyd (start wth Dark Side Of The Moon) - best band ever


Just got out of the Marine Corps after 8 years of honorable service and had my eye out for different federal jobs , but havent found much on this.

http://www.tsa.gov/public/\n\nIt's the TSA website. Transportation Safety Amdinistration. \n\nGood luck! \n\nI qualified but took another job offer insted. It really depends on where you're looking to work. Check out the website. It's worth it.


The US ARMY in 1966. The military used it since then to communicate and share data. The military can still control it and can shut it off without warning. Go ahead and laugh. It is true no matter what Al Gore says.


I had a seizure a while ago in the tub - not the most comfortable place as it's kind of cramped and wet - and ever since then, my sternum moves about and pops.\n  I don't really care, although it gets some looks when popping comes from the chest.  Sometimes, however, I do mind because it get stuck and I feel like I have to sort of hunch over until it pops.  I sit there trying to push my chest out as far as it will go to get all the tiny joints to loosen up.  This looks very odd at Starbucks, but I've gotten a few phone numbers.\nHow would one avoid this stuck phase?  Hehe, are there sternum flexability exercises?  Do people who've had rough CPR get this?\n  The last one carried out for two days of hunching, leaving my vertebrae protesting instead.

go to your doctor..\nand is this your sternum or the xyphoid process, at the tip, because if the xyphoid is broke, it could pierce your lungs or heart..so go to the doctor, get an x-ray


who have cricket knowledge please send the answer

In Test cricket history there have been just 36 hat-tricks, the first achieved by Fred Spofforth for Australia against England in 1879


with Drogba Didier, Kalou Bonaventure, Kolo toure, Arouna Kone, Arouna Dindane etc...

I think it's a great achievement for the Elephants, especially coming out of a very long and bloody civil war. Whether they get out of group play isn't really the overall point. That nation finally has something to be happy about and hopefully they can unify behind their team and maintain the fragile peace they have now.


The highly pathogenic form of H5N1 avian influenza virus has not been found in wild birds in North America. \n\nIn 2005, a low pathogenic form of H5N1, which is not thought to pose a danger to poultry or humans, was found in wild ducks in Canada. There is a chance that infected wild birds from Asia could bring the highly pathogenic form of the virus with them during spring or fall migration to North America. \n\nThe US Fish and Wildlife Service, US Geological Survey (USGS), Alaska Department of Fish & Game, and public health agencies are working together to test thousands of waterfowl and shorebirds for the virus in Alaska, and field sampling is being integrated with surveillance programs throughout the United States and Canada.


My friend and her husband were struggling and I loaned them some money.  $2100 to be exact.  That was in November and they still havent offered to pay me back.  At the time I had the money so thats why I loaned it to them.  Now I need it back, not right away, but something would be nice.  How do I bring it up with out sounding like a jerk?

A) be sure they knew it was a loan. They might not be aware of it.\n\nB) Talk it over with your friend, in a "Hey, money is getting kind of tight for me right now, how are things for you guys? Would it be possible for you to say, start floating me 50 bucks a paycheck or something? It would really help me out."\n\nC) Remember, there is no way to not sound like a jerk. Because that depends entirely on what kind of people they are. Also, a good rule of thumb when loaning out money, is to never actually expect to see it again. Try, yeah. But don't be surprised when it never appears again.


We both love LSU as do our families.  I thought it would be an original idea that hasn't been done, at least in our families it hasn't! Any suggestions on how to do this without cheapening our special day?

Believe it or not, I typed LSU Wedding into Yahoo's search engine, and found a website, LSU Dining, that contains wedding menus and wedding packages:\nhttp://appl003.lsu.edu/cas/lsudining.nsf/$Content/Wedding+Packages?OpenDocument\n\nYou might contact the school itself and ask how they handle proms, formal dances, fancy events, etc, and then plan your wedding accordingly.\nhttp://appl003.lsu.edu/cas/lsudining.nsf/$Content/Contact+Us?OpenDocument\n\nHere's someone who actually had an LSU-themed wedding!\nhttp://www.lsu.edu/ambassadors/about/advisor.htm\n\nAnd more:\nhttp://tigerpages.com/espnlsuwedding.html\nhttp://espnradio.espn.go.com/espnradio/marriagemadness/bracket\nhttp://tigerpages.com/\n\nI've even found an LSU wedding plate!\nhttp://stores.homestead.com/hstrial-JRivers1/Detail.bok?no=41\n\nYour wedding colors can be the school colors, which seem to be purple and gold.  Also, you can find metallic confetti of different sports--football, basketball--and/or of the school, and sprinkle them on your tables.  Can you hire a music arranger to create a waltz version of LSU's fighting song or alma mater for you and your intended to dance to?\n\nHave little LSU flags on the tables.  Trim the cake--trim, not paint!--in purple and gold, with the traditional white base.  Create a metallic version of LSU's flag to put on the wall (or is that too tacky?).\n\nPut Sports Wedding on a search engine and see what you find!\n\nAnyway, it's your wedding.  Have fun!\n\nP.S.  Send a portion of your monetary gifts for Hurricane Katrina relief.


What is the per value of each shore?\n$25.00\n$40.00\n$400.00\n$250.00

Read your assigned material then do your own homework.


It has come out that my wife is a victim of a single incident of sexual abuse.  It occured in her late teens and was not physical, but it did involve a family member.  \n\nShe is strong and doesn't make herself out as victim, but I know that that component has to be there.  We have issues in our marriage that are severe enough for me to question whether she even loves me at all or just feels stuck with me.  I love her deeply, which is why I'm so concerned. \n\nIt seems to makes sense that our problems result from the abuse:\n\nSevere trust and control issues.\n  \nWorries a lot (often time irrationally), sometimes nearly to the point of panic attacks.  \n\nSubject to nightmares and spooks easily.\n  \nLacks affection.\n\nVery uptight about sexual matters and very selfish in that regard (has to have control too).\n\nSo the question (for professionals, victims, or their spouses) would therapy help us?  And if not would it at least help her be happier?  And please, leaving her is not an option.\n\nThanks

Yes, as a survivor myself I can tell you that it does indeed help, but she has to be ready to admit that she was abused and it's not ok that it was done to her, but it wasn't her fault. Also she needs to be open to the idea that these surrounding issues that she is having may be related. I found that the more I talked about my rape, the less it bothered me to talk about it, and soon after, the nightmares went away, I was able to go out alone again, etc. Time doesn't heal ALL wounds, some wounds need to heal from the inside out, and that takes help, love and support. Thank god for my husband. You are a good man, don't give up on her, she needs you more than ever right now, it may be frustrating at times, but get her into therapy and get yourself into a support group. beg her every day if you have to, just tell her it's because you love her and you WON"T let this ruin your marriage. good luck!!


Say, you're bad at sports and you want to join the tennis team, but nobody bothers to tell you that you can't hit a ball for more than your life is worth... what do you do?

Go for it and keep playing and make a fool of yourself!  Eventually, you should get the message because everyone will be laughing at you . . . or you'll just figure it out because you aren't winning any games or even coming close.


I live in West London/Surrey area.  I have a degree in Integrated Engineering (2:2) and I do not have a teaching qualification.  I work as an IT Trainer at the mo and I would like to teach computers and/or maths in the evening.

Ask your local colleges about work, put a notice up at the local library and your local shops. \n\nI've been looking for a Maths teacher! I am a mature student and although I have 2 degrees maths is one of my weak points. I would like a crash course in maths 5 sessions sometime this month. If you are serious about teaching maths you could drop me an email.\n\nOJ\n\nP.S.\nI live in West London too!


About 1 hour and 03 minute, in the movie Ice Age: The Meltdown. Eddy (an Opassum) did a sign language to  Sid the Megatherium)when parting. He hits his chest twice with a fist, then point to Sid with 2 fingers. \nJust want to know what kind of sign language is that, and where can i learn it.

Oh! THAT!\nYeah, that was sooooo funny!\nHe first points to his eyes, as if saying that he will be watching him and then HE pounds his chest to say that HE is watching him. (Or the other way around...)\nIn other words if he messes up, he'll come and beat him up!\n\nYeah, it's not really sign language...\nIt’s more of a gesture.\n:-P


And if so what does it feel like to have been beaten again by Liverpool in a Cup game?????

LFC are the best team in England and we will win the premiership next season


Today I watched hours and hours and I didn't see |Yahoo rising. Do you think investing in Yahoo is a good idea ?

The company looks set to rally when it crosses the $33 barrier on strong volume, this is a gurantee.. With strong divergence coming from MACD and Slow Stochs.. and $33 proving a strong resistance.. Look out for it when it breaches it on strong volume, and never forget to look for follow through before riding the bull.


I don't but I know that some Christians do. What about you?

the signs in the heavens are for revealing the plans of GOD.  way back before all the city lights, men read the stars very well, i. e. the star of bethlehem that lead the shepherds to where JESUS was.  JESUS was born under the sign of virgo.(the virgin).\n\nif you are smart enough and gifted by GOD, you can tell what eclipses, planets, etc. all are saying.\n\nhoroscopes are a perverted way to use these signs.


I need to start over and I don't know where to begin.

I've never heard of anything for people over 55, but there are free tuition programs for people over 65.  Look into your local colleges and ask if they have any programs.  Also, there are college advising programs/services that can be accessed on the internet.  It could never hurt to ask a financial aid advisor you're interested in programs.


If a guy recieves oral sex from a girl when he's not wearing a condom, can the GUY recieve AIDS?

The ******** word, i will take it like Ora l Se x, if its the word there is more risk for the girl, or for who give the fellation, than who recive the fellation. In other word she have to had blood in its mouth for transsmited u the diseaes.\n\nThe or al se x is the lowest risk action u can make, but still there be some risk, risk is not 0, remember,there are other STDs can be transmited by ora l se x, maybe HIV not,but there are a lot more.\n\n=====================\n\nThis is a good word from the specialist:\n\nLet's start off with the good news . . . nobody has ever been infected with HIV by receiving oral sex (exposure to saliva). Not a single reported case worldwide!, but, dont become thr first one, use condom\n\n===============================\n\nIn the other hand, lets see whats happend:\n\nHowever, it's time to face the truth when it comes to HIV and giving oral sex (exposure to pre-cum and semen). Yes, you can get HIV this way. There have already been cases reported of people becoming infected specifically through giving oral sex to a man. I personally know several gay men who became infected this way. They never had anal sex, never did drugs and never had a blood transfusion. But they did have guys' cum in their mouths. It's been known for quite some time that you can also get other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) like gonorrhea, or syphillis by giving oral sex. So giving a guy a blow-job is risky for HIV and other STDs. This is a proven fact.


What I mean is, how many of you think it's a real disorder, and how many think the kids are just a product of lax parenting?  Please be honest, and serious.  Don't be buttheads.  LOL

I have a son with ADD/ADHD.  Sometimes it is tough but you always love your child.  Honestly, I see my son for the wonderful kid that he is because he might have ADD/ADHD, it doesn't have him.  He is on the honour roll at school and he is active in his youth group.  Everybody loves him!  As for lax parenting, not a problem, I have a background in Psychology...Personality Profiling so I know how to get him out of his episodes.  I recommend to you to volunteer at a children's shelter or a mental hospital and make your own observations.  You might be suprized what you learn.  It's a real disorder and 96% of our population lives with a mental health disorder.  What mental health disorder are you living with or are you 4% of the population as a product of lax parenting yourself?


i need to know, they won't stop calling me, and they wont say anything. it wont let me call back. thanks so much

The same number calls my cell phone all the time and will never speaks when I answer. They leave voicemails of slience. It is really annoying.


are there shools that offers accounting technician course here in the philippines

uhmmmm...? what's that? im 16yrs.old here in the Philippines and i've never heard of it.... sorry. well... why not you could be the first "ACCOUNTING TECHNICIAN" in the Philippines. probablly in the world. i don't suppose i've answered your question but i think i migth've lift your spirit, huh?...


Ok, I am finally coming to terms with this darn thing, and really need to overcome it. I feel that I have SO much potential in life, and am on the cusp of something, but not without addressing the OCD issue. The problem is, I think to much. However, thinking has let me figure a lot of stuff out at an early age, and I have been acknowleged for it. Wheter its gambling, worrying, computer use, rumination about what people said, and about past relationships, it takes up SO much of my time, and how I am finishing school next month, truly is a miracle. Medication is out of the question. I really think I can overcome this on my own. I would say I have been dealing with it for over a decade, and have really noticed it within the last five years. Thanks. Other then that, I really am a good person. I am kind, senstive, witty, positive, however, my one flaw happens to be this curse. Thanks.

Buy two kittens and watch them play....or take up multiple hobbies to keep your mind active and alive.  Drugs may be out there to "help" but they also cause side-effects that are less than desirable.  Find ways to embrace the OCD in you by keeping busy!  :)


is there a website that I can go to where I can get a free anti virus to keep my computer safe ?

Go to www.download.com (and only trust them for downloads) and get:\n\nSPYBOT S&D\nAD-AWARE SE\nAVG ANTIVIRUS\nSPYWARE BLASTER\nHIJACK THIS\nCCLEANER\nTWEAKNOW REGISTRY CLEANER\n\nI use all these and they're all free and updates are free as well.


Some Christians worship on Sunday, other on Saturday and other say anyday? How will I know, cause there is only one GOD.

Originally saturday was the sabbath and the holy day.  After the resurrection of Christ early Christians changed the holy day to sunday to show respect for Christs resurrection.  Jews not accepting Christ continued to worship on saturday and still do now.  In the 19th century some Christian groups, including the Seventh-day adventists led by Ellen White, went back to the old day of Saturday.  As far as which is correct and what the only one God thinks you have to ask which church you adhere too.  In the Old Testament Saturday was the day but the New testament does not addressthis issue after Christ and it is more an issue of tradition than literal biblical interpretation as far as I know.


okay, toward the beginning of the movie, when everyone is sitting at hogwarts, mr. crouch is about to explain a rule and the ceiling starts a thunderstorm so to say and mr. moody stops it.. why was that happening?\ni don't have the book so i don't understand that part

The thunderstorm was a dramatic effect for the movie itself. It has nothing to do with the book itself, and the book mentions nothing about Mad-Eye Moody having any effect whatsoever on the weather. The director added this effect to create a mood.


I recently watched the National Geographic documentary on the discovery and authentication of the codex named "Gospel of Judas", which shows that Judas may have been Jesus's most "beloved disciple" and his "betrayal" may have been at the behest of Jesus himself. How does this discovery impact your view of Jesus and his relationship with the apostles? Does the codex have any relevance in our view of the Christian faith?

honestly, i need to know more about the facts surrounding the gospel of judas before i make any analysis.  that being said, i think this is a gimmick to promote the da vinci code movie.


i'm 5 ft. 4 inches tall and i am 140 lbs! i wanna lose even at least 20 lbs. within this month... can somebody help me? pleasssssssssse!!

You have to be really strict with your eating and exercise habits. Tons of cardio...at least AT LEAST 45 minutes per day, plus a few days a week of about 20 minutes worth of light strength training (gaining lean muscle mass raises your metabolism and helps you lose weight in the long run). Use 3-5lb weights to start. Put some motivational tunes on your iPod and get out there and run, girl.\nLots of water...cut back on soda, and limit your calorie intake to about 1600 per day. If you cut out carbs, you will only put the weight back on when you are done with your diet. Balance your meals. You will feel hungry at first, but stick with it. I did this 2 years ago and have not put the weight back on. And I have remained active. It was hard at first, but YOU CAN DO IT!!!!


My dad has been doing real welll on chemobut now he can't stop the hiccups. He was prescribed zantac and it's helped a little but he's still hiccuping for the most part, now he's beginning to sleep all the time I'm soo worried.

I have read of at least one case of chemo-induced hiccups that was successfully addressed with Rolaids.  Your Dad should check with the doctor first to make sure this would be okay, but it's probably worth a try.\n\nGood luck to your Dad! (tell him that there are lots of folks out there who know what he's going through with the chemo, but that it's worth it.  Once he's better, he needs to remember that this could of been "it", so the rest of his life is just gravy!)


A lady came up to me on the street and pointed at my suede jacket.\n"You know a cow was murdered for that jacket?" she sneered.\n  I replied in a  psychotic tone, I didn't know there were any \nwitnesses. Now I'll have to kill you too."

What do you do with a dog that has no legs?\n\n\n\n\n\nTake it for a drag!


When i try to see the workgroup computers at home which are using same wireless network with same workgroup name, windows was complaining that i don't have enough adminstrator rights. How to make myself the adminstrator for our home network?\nThe same procedure of file sharing that worked for me at the school is not working at home.

Are you using windows xp home or windows xp pro?  Windows xp home is pretty limited.  You can access another computer with its UNC path.  For example:\n\\brian\c$\nif the computer name is brian and the computer is running windows xp pro (or windows 2000 pro).\n\nFor home, just type \\brian and then click on shared files/folders.  You will have to enable sharing by right clicking on the hard drive with home.  Specify a share name.


what is it that just turns a guy on.. that one thing.. come on guys let me know.. i want to be suprizing

Many things turn me on.......\n\nDepends on the situation - I mean pyhiscally it is one specific area of my p**** that when touched.... but non physicaly it is to watch a woman enjoy herself if you know what I mean?\n\nKind of hard to explain on here but feel free to cntact me if you like.\n\nepsonc760@hotmail.co.uk


does pot cause depression? make it worse? Just looking for diffrent perspectives on the subject

I think mainly the overuse of marijuana causes depression. It is a depressant, but thats like alcohol too, that causes depression but you'd hardly be aware of it if you didnt use it all of the time (like daily)


Do you personally get a good feeling while going to church?  I haven't been in a long  time, and was young and couldn't appreciate it back then.  I'm just curious how it makes people feel.\n\nIt seems like I have come to a crossroads in my life, and would like to be more spiritual.  I'm a single mother, my kids are 1 and 3, they wouldn't sit still during the services.

i dont go to church often (i havent been in a while) but for the past few times i did go the preacher always seemed like he was speaking to me...\n\ni love the music and a couple of times i have even cried for no reason (not like boo hoo crying just like a couple of tears streamed down my face)...and no it wasnt because i felt guilty about anything (because i also believe that God is everywhere you seek him...not just in church)...my fiancee says that it was the holy spirit...


many players have hit four in a row, some have hit five.\ni don't know of any that have hit six in a row.


recent urinalysis shows no infection, but atypical cells? What could cause these and are they serious?

atypical cells can be "normal"  your doctor can answer that question.  we have a number of cells in our body, and those in our blood and urine can be atypical without meaning cancer.  talk with your doctor to be reassured what they mean in your case.


how many times a day do u get a boner?\n\nsorry if that disgusts you......

only when i see your online  ;)   lol  just kidding\n\nseriously most guys are aroused very often throughout the day and as you get older you can control yourself better although you dont think about sex less.


Mine Is Woody Page, J.A. Adande, And Michael Smith, Who Are Yours And Why?

Michael Smith is the man on Around The Horn, because he knows what he's talking about, and makes great points.


Would like to view  area's I'm looking for.

download "google earth".  you need win xp


if so, what do i need to bring, and are there any requirements of me>?

First, the Spanish Embassy, as all embassies are, is in Washington DC.  The Spanish Consulate General in Boston can help you with what you need without having to go through the Embassy.  In fact they will merely send you back to the Boston Consulate for help if you are resident there as that is there territory.  As to the specific requirements for your particular case I would contact the Consul directly and ask them.  They will have a list of requirements and you should go down the list with them BEFORE going to the Consulate.  I was an honorary consul in Boston in 1990 so I know where this comes from.  You will not be given citizenship.  They will extend a visa to you and you can follow up with the Spanish Immigration authorities in Spain for citizenship if you so desire.  Good luck!


...when he's not around.  This has caused a trust issue between he and I, although her accusations are not at all true.  It's just another one of her manipulative lies.  I don't want to cause a rift between my husband and his daughter but I also don't see this issue getting any better. She doesn't want us to be married and has said so many times and seems to stop at nothing until she gets her way.  Serious answers only, please.

I'd say that the best thing to do is sit down all together and try to hash this thing out.  I went through a period of really not liking my stepdad when my mom got remarried, so its a normal reaction, particularly if she was close to her mom.  But the answer is no, do not divorce your husband immediately.  The best thing to do is to try and and figure out what you can do in order to make life at least tolerable for all three of you.  I realize that yes, step-children can be a pain, i know, i was one of them, but really, its possible to work it out.  You just need to sit down between the two of them and figure it out.  And if your step-daughter refuses to engage, just acknowledge how she feels, but tell her that you're not planning on going anywhere, so it would be best for both of you to make this work.


Where can I find poems for military personal or for heros of the military?


I heard once that ALL TRUTH IS REVEALED BY ACTION. Later it dawned on me how profound this expression is, well beyond its face value.\n\nIf a man tells his woman that he loves her, but cheats and beats...which is the truth, what he "SAYS" or reality. What he says or what he DOES (reality).\n\nIf someone never tells you they love you, except for the fact that they love on you (nurture you, call you, put oil in your car)...does the absence of their words mean they dont love you?\n\nAlmost all armed conflict today is rooted in Islamic religious demands. If you watched ZARAQAWI on TV the other day, what did he say? "WE WILL ESTABLISH SHARIAH LAW AND AN ISLAMIC STATE". Look almost everywhere, where theres conflict...philipines, Uzbekistan, thailand, Dafur, Somolia, Kashmir...\n\nWhat is true about Islam, what some western apologist Muslims SAY it is, OR reality?\n\nOhh, and guess what...the Quran is chock full of hate and genocidal commands to murder infidels...what a coincidence.

It's a neat trick isn't it this one, like hiring hitmen and saying you had nothing to do with it because you were in church or mosque that day!


1. x-intercept:2,y-intercept 1\n2. x-intercept:5, y intercept 5\n3. x-intercept:-4,y-intercept -1 \nexplain please


It is good to love. With love, true love, comes happiness. Sure it also brings heart ache and some pain but it brings happines. \n\nIt brings that giddy smile that goes right to the core. It brings someone to come home to. Someone to exert your energy on. Someone to take care of even though they don't need you to. Someone to love.\n\nIt is bad to try and find love in everyone you date. Just enjoy the ride. Love will find you. It is meant to be.


One day my friend can be Ok and be my friend and next week she wants to be not my friend and not speak to me for weeks.

I know someone whom I'm sure is bi-polar, one day she's so happy and nice, the next she depressed and nasty. The reason it's so hard to get along with someone like this, is because you don't know which way they'll be on any given day- it's hard to determine how they'll feel and act so you don't know how to act towards them in the first place. The person doesn't even know how she will be on any given day- you really just need to support her and give her space when she needs it. I know sometimes these people feel guilty after they've acted a certain way so just show he love and forgiveness.


or any kind of foods or drinks, natural foods!! not suplements or medicine

Beware of the statement of "alkaline fruits" from website lists.  These lists are part of a diet fad (as in bogus) and have nothing to do with real pH measurements.  It is supposidly a comparison to stomach acid.  All citrus fruits are acidic.  You may find that something like Star or Ugly fruits are alkaline, but I don't think any common fruits are alkaline.


I like this boy, we always catch each others eyes... He smiles at me and makes me laugh. I have been in the same school(a lot of the same classes)with him since Kindergarden! What should i do ... i really like him! any suggestions are welcome!

TELL HIM THAT YOU STARTING TOO LIKE AND JSUT ASK HIM IF HE FEELS THE SAME WHY\nIM SURE HE DOES :)


i cant seem to find somewhere i can see this law, can anyone help me out?

I did a google search forlaws tennessee code annotated and came up with 103,000 hits.  I went to http://www.lawsource.com/also/usa.cgi?go=tn\nand clicked on the link for  version provided by LexisNexis.  Then I did a search for 55-4-110(b) and found:\n\n55-4-110. Display of registration plates - Manner - Penalty for violation.\n \n (a)  The registration plate issued for passenger motor vehicles shall be attached on the rear of the vehicle. The registration plate issued for those trucks with a manufacturer's ton rating not exceeding three-quarter (3/4) ton and having a panel or pickup body style, and also those issued for all motor homes, regardless of ton rating or body style thereof, shall be attached to the rear of the vehicle. The registration plate issued for all other trucks and truck tractors shall be attached to the front of the vehicle. All dealers' plates, as provided in § 55-4-221, and those registration plates issued for motorcycles, trailers or semitrailers shall be attached to the rear of the vehicle.  \n  \n (b)  Every registration plate shall at all times be securely fastened in a horizontal position to the vehicle for which it is issued so to prevent the plate from swinging and at a height of not less than twelve inches (12") from the ground, measuring from the bottom of such plate, in a place and position to be clearly visible and shall be maintained free from foreign materials and in a condition to be clearly legible. No tinted materials may be placed over a license plate even if the information upon such license plate is not concealed.  \n  \n (c) (1)  A violation of this section is a Class C misdemeanor. All proceeds from the fines imposed by this subsection (c) shall be deposited in the state general fund.  \n  \n (2) A person charged with a violation of this section may, in lieu of appearance in court, submit a fine of ten dollars ($10.00) for a first violation, and twenty dollars ($20.00) on second and subsequent violations to the clerk of the court which has jurisdiction of such offense within the county in which the offense charged is alleged to have been committed.  \n\nHope this helps,\nGil


Well this guy i've known for a few yrs now, and i am just now realizing how cool he is and how much we have in common. and some times when i look through the corner of my eye he'll be looking at me, and when i pass him in the hallways he'll say hi, and i will just say hi back b/c i'm really shy, but when i've walked away i'll turn back to look at him and he'll be shaking his head almost grinning like he forgot to say something, and i think he likes me it's just he never smiles. so it's weird!

It's obvious you like him and he absolutely likes you too, the problem is you are both afraid to come clean. Let me tell you a story, my cousin really liked this in high school but she was really shy and he thought she would embarrass him so they never spoke, until college, she saw him at the library and they finally spoke to each other, reminiscing on the past they both brought up some things about high school, she told him that she had a crush on him and to her surprise he was madly in love with her, he told her how he'd admire when she'd walk by and she told him that she would stare him down when she saw him. Unfortunately they never got to be together because he was happily engaged to girlfriend and she was already involved. So the moral of the story is, if you see something that you want, go for it, it may work to your advantage. Good luck


I Live in Orange County, California I know it varies form state to state. Someone stated I needed a degree in an Arts program....? Maybe it was for his state only....HMMM

I'm almost done with getting my funeral directing degree in Texas. I'm gonna copy a list of links to various national organizations that can help, both in deciding if it's right for you and where the nearest school is.\n\nNational Funeral Director's Association - organization for funeral service professionals\nhttp://www.nfda.org/\n\nThe American Board of Funeral Service Education - accredits college programs in Mortuary Science, can help you find a school.\nhttp://www.abfse.org/\n\nThe International Conference of Funeral Service Examining Boards - administers the National Board Exam (which i'm about to do a couple of weeks, wish me luck)\nhttp://www.cfseb.org/\n\nThere's also a Yahoo Group for Apprentice Funeral Directors, but we have people who are not in it yet, just interested.\nhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Apprentice_Funeral_Directors_Support_Group/\n\nLook around and see what you find out.\n\nGood luck,\nHelen.


They are answering medical questions,all day,dosent it worry people who post these medical questions,and some of them sound serious,That the person answering them,may not  really know what they are talking about.Why dont they just call a hospital help line? Like ask a nurse?

Claiming to be a physcian when you actually are not, is a felony.


Country of origin is Wales.\nNot sure which US port first family members landed.\nNot Catholic--no church records\nFamily name Williams--very common name in Wales.

go to http://www.bkwin.net/ for brother's keeper and download it (or whatever it is that you have to do) and it really works\nmy grandfather had it and we found out that I am the direct disendent of Miles Standish! you should check it out!


What is the area of the smallest circle sector in the circle x2 + y2 = 4 that has corner points in \n(0,0) , (√3,1), (√2,√2)\nThe area is a rational number times pi

Use A = 1/2(r^2)theta (radians).  The sector formed by the radius from the origin to (sqrt2,sqrt2) and the radius from the origin to (2,0) has an angle of 45 deg.  The sector formed by the angle of the radius from the origin to (sqrt3,1) and the x-axis has an angle of 30 deg.\n45 deg. - 30 deg, = 15 deg or pi/12 radians.  The area is (1/2)(r^2)pi/12 = pi(r^2)/24 for any sector with a central angle of pi/12.  Since r^2 = 4, A= 4pi/24 = pi/6.


I have a shop on Ebay, selling lovely fine jewellery and evening dresses. It is just not doing so good. My photos and descriptions are pretty good but its still not working out. I sell really fine things because I was fed up buying stuff and finding out it was just crap once I got it home. I am now stuck with stock worth a lot of money. I cannot lower my prices any more as I would be losing a mint. Is it because my items are quite expensive? People seem to want gold and diamonds etc for buttons. I am selling at a fraction of rrp prices (genuinely). What can I do? My shop is MINGULAY GEMS AND GOWNS. Any advice would be welcome. Cheers.

I took at look at your ebay store and here is my advice:\n\n1. Only list the "personal collage art greeting card" once.\nIt is a small item and takes up far too much scrolling down space.\n\n2. You have nice jewelry but jewelry is difficult to photograph.  Consider hiring a professional photographer.  I know you probably don't want the expense but it is difficult to see the size of your jewelry items and a professional will take better pictures.  \n\n3. Don't center all of your text and use lower case and capital letters.  By emphasizing every letter you are emphasizing nothing.\n\n4. If you want to do more business with the United States.  State that directly and more clearly in the text portion.\n\nGood luck and remember the summer is the slow season for all of retail.


it just puzzles me. but then again, crying is my form of expressing myself as well..:P

Because we get so filled up with emotions that it spills out of our eyes!


I am looking for someone to chat with on the computer. I am disabled and thought that someone else disabled might like to chat, or anyone else that might like to chat?

Here's a couple links. See "chat" on the left hand side menu.\nhttp://disabledonline.com/\nhttp://www.allabilities.com/society.html\nhttp://www.linkable.org/


my son was a marine at the time of his death.  He left daughter behind.  The IRS said I have to be the executor of his estate to file his taxes and receive the return for her.  Is it possible to be made an executor after the death of a son who was in the military. If so how do I go about that??  Thanks for your help!

An Executor should already have been named in the Will he left behind.  And yes, he would have been made to provide one before deploying.


even when its a girl asking the question?????


I noticed while I was on here typing in an answer, one of the people responded to a question of why do certain people ask about illegal knowledge and not get caught.  The response was that they were protected by the freedom of speech amendment.  Do you think that this person is answering fairly or being selfish on maybe them asking some of these same questions.

If I may help frame the question a bit ....\n\nThere is no such thing as illegal knowledge, at least not in the US.  If people want to discuss the best way to grow pot or build bombs or bake cakes, they are free to do so.  The actual growing of pot or building bombs may be illegal, but having and sharing information about how to do it is protected by the 1st Amendment, as you suggest.\n\nOther kinds of communication, however, can constitute crimes.  If two people share information about how to grow pot as part of a plan to break the law, they are engaged in a conspiracy to commit a crime and that is illegal--it is a crime even if they never get to the actual pot-growing stage so long as either of them does anything--like buying potting soil--to further the plot.\n\nIt can also be illegal to disclose certain military or State secrets, or to sell or use for personal gain certain business secrets that do not belong to you.  But the crime here is not the knowing, but the sharing.\n\nThat much is background.  The most common abuse of the 1st Amendment happens when someone says something really stupid or hateful and, when called on it, says "well, I have a 1st Amendment right to say that."  Of course they do, but that is beside the point.  The point is they said something stupid or hateful.  They are using the reference to the 1st Amendment to try to avoid taking responsibility for their action.  It is like saying "I right a right to be an idiot."  Sure, but is it really a good idea?


I want to know if i score 124 if i am average or what. In short, i want to see the table of score ranges with respective labels or category like genius,etc.

By definition, your score is above average.  IQ is a statistical measure, therefore your result is a function of how well you do relative to everyone else who has taken the test.  An IQ of 100 is the mean score.  15 points is equivalent to 1 standard deviation, therefore 68% of the population scores between 85 and 115.  If you plot your score on a normal curve (mean of 100, standard deviation of 15), the percentile score is 94.5%.  you scored better than 94% of the population.


I'm a zionist, but i'll pick any question that's based on reasherched fact that's reaserched from relatively unbiased sources.\n\nAlso - My belief is the Israeli lobby is so strong becuase it is neccessary for the survival of the country - which has the right to exist because:\n\n   -It was created as a response to the holocaust-so jews would always have a safe haven, and for once, a non-cristian/muslim home. (no offense to either group)\n\n   -It is where the Jews were, until 2000 years ago\n\n   -The jews made the country-it was a wasteland before that, with only a few minor exceptions.\n\n   -It was a safe haven for the million jews who were being wiped out in arab countries - and are today all but forgotten.\n\n   -We destroyed iraq's only nuclear research facility, back in the '80s (bush was a bit late getting there.)

To the first ignorant poster:  the United Nations, composed of several nations made Israel a nation.  People really need to learn history.  It might also interest the poster to learn that Israel might not have become a state if it weren't for the hatred shown to them after they tried to rightfully claim their very own homes after the Holocaust.\n\nThe British imposed a severe limit on immigration right after the war.  Many nations would not allow the Jews who were fortunate enough to survive to even reside in their very own countries!  There was no choice other than to make Israel a state.\n\nBefore pointing a finger at the Jews, look at the situation surrounding the issue.


i recently read a post in the weekly alligator about a girl suing georgia institute of technology. she is claiming that the current tolerance policy which "bans speech that puts down someone because of their sexual orientaion" infringes on her christian beliefs. we all have the right to say what we like but just because you can legally put someone down doesn't mean you should. there is a difference between saying "i believe all homosexuals are sinners" and "you are a sinner, and you are going to hell." why is it so important for christians to be able to put us down just because they want to be hateful. TRUE christians are not supposed to judge. i'm sure that this girl who is suing has one tattoo or peircing. has a smoked a ciggarette, or sinned in some other way. you sin everyday. why would you want to put someone down because of how they were born? we all sin.we all don't need to be harrassed about it. christians have more rights than gays do. it's our responsibility to love them.

Free speech is a right. It has limits. You cannot threaten people. But if you believe they are wrong or sinning, they do not have a right to not be offended, as you are neither threatening them or harming them in any way.\n\nYou cannot punish peoples' thoughts and still be a free nation. \n\nYou have no right to deny others' speech merely because you don't like it. It is not harassment. You are equally free to ignore them or refute them. But if you curtail their rights by bringing government force against them, we've all lost.\n\nThat is a path that leads to oppression of all people.


Here are the articles:\n\n"A Theory of Mass Culture" by Dwight Macdonald\n"What is popular culture?" by John Storey\n"What is cultural studies?" by Jonathan Culler

As with all things the answer can be found in Google.  Simply type the name of the article in quotes add a space and then the author's name.


Hi, I want to know how to setup a Personal FTP Server at my home so that i can access my files on my computer by logging in from a remote location through a FTP program. I am having a DialUp Connection.... The IP address keeps on changing is there a way to uknow to have a Free DNS for my changing IP? i.e. whenever my IP changes the DNS should get notified Automatically.. and i should be able to log into my account without any problem....\n\nPlease Help?\n\nThanks

I have recently implemented a photoserver running from my home computer.  I also have a dynamic IP address.  I used a free version of software from 'www.no-ip.com' to take care of my dynamic IP.  I was using tzo.com, but they raised their prices - free is even better.\nAlso, sometimes your ISP will block the default (incoming) port 21 for FTP.  Some free dynamic redirection providers allow you to have your FTP or Web server listen on any specified port - above what your ISP might be blocking.\nFor the FTP side of your question you could use Microsoft IIS (Internet Information Services), define an FTP server, select the same port as what you specified with your free dynamic IP account, ensure that your router doesn't block this port.\nIIS can be challenging to use for an FTP server, you may want to look at Filezilla.\nHope this helps.


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I know my ex-boyfriend put something in my gas tank,the car was totaled.About a month later I came home to find roofing nails in my driveway.I know he did it,can not prove it yet.How do I keep him away from my home?

If you can keep track of times and dates that he is seen near your home. Have your neighbors watch and keep a log too. You should record any phone calls, save all messages from answering machines and cell phones. Also any time something like this happens you should call the police and file a report so there is a record of each incident. Even if there is no proof that he is the one doing it now he will more than likely slip up and get caught so a record will make it more solid to prosicute.One more thing you could do for proof would be to set up a motion light in your drive way and a camcorder somewhere like a window aimed at the drive way.Good luck.


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