Traitors episode 4
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2025.01.09 21:57 Fun-Conversation-244 Wife and her family did not share family history of mental illness and now she has been institutionalized
Hello, I will start with some events that led to my wife's involuntary commitment to the mental hospital, of course real names are not used:
After giving birth to our daughter (her first child) the first week was pretty good all things considered, she was actively breast feeding, attentive to the baby, all things considered was adapting well to the challenges of having a newborn. We would take shifts during the night feeding the baby if she had some milk banked in the freezer from pumping.
Things started getting strange when she started making lists that were hundreds of items long, and not with meaningful items ie (wake up, tell so and so about this, etc) which I just chalked up to being sleep deprived. She made todo lists before but never exceeded 10 items and it was basic things like laundry, clean this, schedule that etc. Then came the "organization" she would empty out entire drawers and bring them into the living room or dinning room to organize them into random smaller containers, when it didn't satisfy her she would throw the items into a bag and set it "aside for later" again nothing alarming and I just thought it was sleep deprivation. During this time she was sleeping less and less, I would give her 6-8 hour time chunks to sleep and when I would check on her she would be wide awake making lists, "organizing" or now working on a mommy blog. I told her family my concerns and they did not think anything of it.
It started to escalate when she started manifesting "inside out" characters, at first they were emotions like the movie: anger, sadness etc. But eventually they started to become disorders and full on characters that had names, bob the banker, mamma bear, frustration frank, ocd dan, manic matt etc. she asked me to draw all these characters and I side stepped the request, she also attempted to reach out to Pixar to get a film adaptation. What terrified me was that she would start saying "Tiff(her) is not here right now, you are talking to mamma bear" and she would have full blown conversations with name changes between these characters. We went to talk with a therapist and I mentioned these things, the midwife and her therapist both recommend and prescribed medication. She refused the medication saying that she had reached spiritual enlightenment and that she needed to see this journey through. This was also around the time she started saying violent things like she wanted to smother me in my sleep or "hold my head down in water just a little too long".
Her mom came over a two weeks ago and was off her medication, during which they went on a "dopamine vision quest", proceeded to go on a shopping spree and purchased $2000 worth of random trinkets and outfits to "visualize the characters in Tiff's head". This is when I started thinking that it was a genetic issue, since no baseline mother would take their daughter in public during a manic episode and also not allow them to be so financially reckless.
The tipping point happened on new years eve when our friends came over to celebrate (I asked them to come over because I was scared to be alone for long periods of time) and she did an "art installation" that looked like some red rum scene out of the shinning, did a "seance" and was possessed by her grandmother. Needless to say it terrified our friends and they were 100% on board with getting her to the hospital. I took photos and recordings of what was going on and sent it to her therapist, who coordinated with the hospital to get her where she needed to go.
Now that she is in the hospital her family (who have thanked me and is "just so proud of me") started to say things that I have never heard or known about her family / her. Apparently her grandmother was institutionalized 4 times, and both her mom and aunt have mental illnesses. My wife has also had manic episodes in the past and has gone as far as stalking an ex boyfriend / has had mental health crises before. I have been with her for 3 years and have not seen this side of her. She is smart and very good about masking her mania, it took 2 attempts to get her evaluated since the first time she just acted tired (since she was coming down from a 3 day manic episode) and gaslighting / blaming me and her family for not letting her sleep.
She also has been talking to her ex boyfriend during our relationship, and over the past week has asked me to message him, has fantasized that one of the other patients is her ex and passing flirty notes back and forth, has said she is still attracted to him, asked what town the hospital was and when hearing the location said "oh joe schmoe lives in the next town over, when i get out i can just stay with him a few days", and before being hospitalized but still manic attempted to reach out to him saying that he is 99.99% her soul mate. It just felt like a complete betrayal for obvious reasons.
When she did have me go into her phone to "message him back" i read their conversations, in which she had been seeing me for 2 years. She was inappropriate and flirty, but she did say that is the last time they should ever talk (which he agreed), then two days later she tried to start the conversation again and he didn't respond.Note this was some time ago, still it hurt seeing that she had lied to me and was talking to people she said she had no contact with. She also could have been messaging him on snapchat and deleted their conversations in the mean time.
Needless to say there will be a lot of couples counseling when she gets out of the hospital, my mom and friends have been supporting me and the baby during this time. But if she is diagnosed with a long term illness and has an aversion to taking medications I do not think this is the life I envisioned for myself, and the fact that her family had hid their history of mental illness is deeply concerning. it's hard because we have a child now (I am running a paternity test on the baby just to confirm it is mine as well). I DO love my wife very much, but so much has been uncovered the last 3 weeks things will not go back to the way that they were. during this entire time she was not drinking or doing recreational drugs.
People have said I could get an annulment for fraud / non disclosure of mental illness, and if not I should seriously consider divorce.
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After giving birth to our daughter (her first child) the first week was pretty good all things considered, she was actively breast feeding, attentive to the baby, all things considered was adapting well to the challenges of having a newborn. We would take shifts during the night feeding the baby if she had some milk banked in the freezer from pumping.
Things started getting strange when she started making lists that were hundreds of items long, and not with meaningful items ie (wake up, tell so and so about this, etc) which I just chalked up to being sleep deprived. She made todo lists before but never exceeded 10 items and it was basic things like laundry, clean this, schedule that etc. Then came the "organization" she would empty out entire drawers and bring them into the living room or dinning room to organize them into random smaller containers, when it didn't satisfy her she would throw the items into a bag and set it "aside for later" again nothing alarming and I just thought it was sleep deprivation. During this time she was sleeping less and less, I would give her 6-8 hour time chunks to sleep and when I would check on her she would be wide awake making lists, "organizing" or now working on a mommy blog. I told her family my concerns and they did not think anything of it.
It started to escalate when she started manifesting "inside out" characters, at first they were emotions like the movie: anger, sadness etc. But eventually they started to become disorders and full on characters that had names, bob the banker, mamma bear, frustration frank, ocd dan, manic matt etc. she asked me to draw all these characters and I side stepped the request, she also attempted to reach out to Pixar to get a film adaptation. What terrified me was that she would start saying "Tiff(her) is not here right now, you are talking to mamma bear" and she would have full blown conversations with name changes between these characters. We went to talk with a therapist and I mentioned these things, the midwife and her therapist both recommend and prescribed medication. She refused the medication saying that she had reached spiritual enlightenment and that she needed to see this journey through. This was also around the time she started saying violent things like she wanted to smother me in my sleep or "hold my head down in water just a little too long".
Her mom came over a two weeks ago and was off her medication, during which they went on a "dopamine vision quest", proceeded to go on a shopping spree and purchased $2000 worth of random trinkets and outfits to "visualize the characters in Tiff's head". This is when I started thinking that it was a genetic issue, since no baseline mother would take their daughter in public during a manic episode and also not allow them to be so financially reckless.
The tipping point happened on new years eve when our friends came over to celebrate (I asked them to come over because I was scared to be alone for long periods of time) and she did an "art installation" that looked like some red rum scene out of the shinning, did a "seance" and was possessed by her grandmother. Needless to say it terrified our friends and they were 100% on board with getting her to the hospital. I took photos and recordings of what was going on and sent it to her therapist, who coordinated with the hospital to get her where she needed to go.
Now that she is in the hospital her family (who have thanked me and is "just so proud of me") started to say things that I have never heard or known about her family / her. Apparently her grandmother was institutionalized 4 times, and both her mom and aunt have mental illnesses. My wife has also had manic episodes in the past and has gone as far as stalking an ex boyfriend / has had mental health crises before. I have been with her for 3 years and have not seen this side of her. She is smart and very good about masking her mania, it took 2 attempts to get her evaluated since the first time she just acted tired (since she was coming down from a 3 day manic episode) and gaslighting / blaming me and her family for not letting her sleep.
She also has been talking to her ex boyfriend during our relationship, and over the past week has asked me to message him, has fantasized that one of the other patients is her ex and passing flirty notes back and forth, has said she is still attracted to him, asked what town the hospital was and when hearing the location said "oh joe schmoe lives in the next town over, when i get out i can just stay with him a few days", and before being hospitalized but still manic attempted to reach out to him saying that he is 99.99% her soul mate. It just felt like a complete betrayal for obvious reasons.
When she did have me go into her phone to "message him back" i read their conversations, in which she had been seeing me for 2 years. She was inappropriate and flirty, but she did say that is the last time they should ever talk (which he agreed), then two days later she tried to start the conversation again and he didn't respond.Note this was some time ago, still it hurt seeing that she had lied to me and was talking to people she said she had no contact with. She also could have been messaging him on snapchat and deleted their conversations in the mean time.
Needless to say there will be a lot of couples counseling when she gets out of the hospital, my mom and friends have been supporting me and the baby during this time. But if she is diagnosed with a long term illness and has an aversion to taking medications I do not think this is the life I envisioned for myself, and the fact that her family had hid their history of mental illness is deeply concerning. it's hard because we have a child now (I am running a paternity test on the baby just to confirm it is mine as well). I DO love my wife very much, but so much has been uncovered the last 3 weeks things will not go back to the way that they were. during this entire time she was not drinking or doing recreational drugs.
People have said I could get an annulment for fraud / non disclosure of mental illness, and if not I should seriously consider divorce.
2025.01.09 22:07 morganeyesonly Season 2 EP 20 question [spoilers]
Terry just spoke about Lark going into the doodlers mind. And it felt like it was sort of handwaved away. Like it was a big moment that didn’t happen for us, but Terry sorta just goes “yeah that happened”
So my questions are.
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So my questions are.
- Did I miss something? Is there a one shot or just something in another episode where we’re told about Lark Sparrow Nick Grant and Terry going to this church with their dad?
- Is it explained later and that’s why it’s not been explained properly now?
- Did the Lark hating his dad thing ever get resolved? Or did that plot line just get dropped forever.
- Didn’t Lark actually unleash the doodler? (Might be wrong there) Why doesn’t Terry tell the kids that to try and get them to understand how the Dads feel?
2025.01.09 22:11 DistanceObjective139 Heartstopper Season 4 OST: Episode 1 Intro
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 | Hello guys, I’m bored and decided to make a little post talking about naomily lol When I was younger and first started watching skins I think I definitely took their relationship to heart because it was some of the first queer representation I saw. I still have a fondness for them but season 4 really did a number on them as a couple. I wish we could’ve gotten a Naomi episode in season 4, got to see stuff from her perspective going on with being friends with cook, dealing with the aftermath of her cheating and still being with Emily. It does still make me sad that that whole season it’s them just having a shitty time, then they get back together at the end. Season 7 has a lot of mixed feelings and I feel like it’s all valid, now that I’m 24 I can relate to those seasons more versus when I was younger I couldn’t relate to Effy working a corporate job. I still wish they could’ve just grown together more, not have Naomi not tell Emily about her having cancer (idk about that though I feel like it is on brand for Naomi to not tell Emily something so deep) but cancer… how Emily would’ve dealt with that is just so sad to think about. submitted by LingonberryFirst3349 to skinsTV [link] [comments] |
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