Month: February 2017

In Part 4 of this series, we looked at Awareness and the fact that we all really do know that there is more to life than the physical every-day that we tend to get caught up in, which fact is reflected back to us daily by the stars at night.

We could also see Awareness as the key to our relationships. If we are willing to see the ‘more’ in the person before us, rather than labelling them as their last mistake, then immediately the potential of what is between us, or what we could have together, expands as well. Continue reading “Golden qualities – Part 5 – Awareness and relationships” →

In Part 3 of this series, we looked at Reading and the fact that we are actually always ‘reading between the lines’ and we really do know so very much about what is going on for people, even if they do not say it outright. We looked at what we use to not read, as in the opposite of reading, which is raciness – any time we go into motion so we are not actually connecting with what we are already picking up in others.

In this article, we look at another golden quality, Awareness.

Awareness relates to the fact that we actually all really do know that there is more to life than the everyday conveyer belt existence that so many of us accept as our reality. If we allow our awareness, we can open up to the fact that there is so much more. Continue reading “Golden qualities – Part 4 -Awareness” →

In Part 2 of this series, we looked at Connection and the fact that when we are willing to connect with someone, we open ourselves up to the full potential of all we could be together – as amazing as the universe, in fact. The opposite of connection, or what we use to avoid it, is dampness, which is any time we dismiss another or ‘wipe them off’.

This week, we look at another golden quality, Reading.

So what is reading? Yes, we learn how to read at school and we can become very proficient in this, and many of us can make our way through books, we study, we learn, we work and there is reading involved in so much of what we do. But is reading more than that?

The fact is, we have another level of reading available to us – which we could call tapping into things we just ‘know’. This is no big deal – Continue reading “Golden qualities – Part 3 – Reading” →

in Part 1 of this series, we looked at Transparency and the opposite of transparency, which is protection. We looked at how this affects all our relationships and when we are in protection, we keep people out – and it means we never experience true closeness as a result. In transparency, on the other hand, we allow others to see us for who we really are (good or bad).

When we decide to go for truth in a relationship, we lay aside the need to be correct, ‘right’ or the forever-strong one, and we put far more emphasis on being real, and the quality of the relationship.

This week, we look at another golden quality – Connection. Transparency and connection are intrinsically linked. If we are transparent with others, it supports us to really connect with them. As the opposite, if we are in protection, we stop ourselves from connecting.

The fact is, we choose these qualities, day after day after day. We choose them with ourselves, and we choose them with all others in our lives. We choose to connect, or we choose to go with something less.

Continue reading “Golden qualities – Part 2 – Connection” →

Transparency is an absolutely golden quality. When we make ourselves transparent, it means that others can see exactly what is going on with us – no shields, no pretence, no fight/struggle – we just present as we are and allow the person/people we are with to see us exactly as we are.

Meeting someone who is transparent sets us immediately at ease – or at least invites us to be at ease. It is quite rare to meet true transparency, where there really is nothing in the way and the person allows us to ‘see through’ to the inner, or what is really going on, with nothing masking that or standing in the way.

Continue reading “Golden qualities – Part 1 – Transparency” →

Is your life all it really can be?

We have seen that potential is a possibility – but it does not become realised, unless we choose to exercise it, or realise it. In other words, we all have tremendous potential, but so much of it – perhaps far more than we realise, is untapped. And why? Well, as this series has exposed, it is actually because we choose not to tap into it.

We live much of our lives bringing far less than we really could to it. We bring less to our relationships, to our work and to the tasks we do, day to day. It is not as if we don’t know how to bring more – we do. Rather, we choose to bring less.

Hence, the potential is there, but it is untapped – because of the choices we ourselves make. Continue reading “Potential – Part 4” →